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  GOOD MANNERS AT HOME
Posted by: IslamIsTheSolution - 08-13-2003, 09:33 AM - Forum: Islam - Replies (2)


Innal-Hamdalillah was-Salaatu was-Salaam `alaa Rasoolillah

as-Salaamu `alaykum wa-RaHmatullahi wa-Barakatuhu

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Good Manners At Home

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Spreading kindness in the home

'Aa'ishah (RA) said: "The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said:

'When Allah (SWT) wills some good towards the people of a household, He introduces kindness among them.'" (Reported by Imaam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 6/71; Saheeh al-Jaami', 303)

According to another report:

"When Allah loves the people of a household, He introduces kindness among them." (Reported by Ibn Abi al-Dunya and others; Saheeh al-Jaami', no. 1704)

In other words, they start to be kind to one another. This is one of the means of attaining happiness in the home, for kindness is very beneficial between the spouses, and with the children, and brings results that cannot be achieved through harshness, as the Prophet (SAW) said:

"Allah loves kindness and rewards it in such a way that He does not reward for harshness or for anything else." (Reported by Muslim, Kitaab al-Birr wa'l-Sillah wa'l-Aadaab, no. 2592)

Helping one's wife with the housework

Many men think that housework is beneath them, and some of them think that it will undermine their status and position if they help their wives with this work.

The Messenger of Allah (SAW), however, used to "sew his own clothes, mend his own shoes and do whatever other work men do in their homes." (Reported by Imaam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 6/121; Saheeh al-Jaami', 4927).

This was said by his wife 'Aa'ishah (RA), when she was asked about what the Messenger of Allah (SAW) used to do in his house; her response described what she herself had seen. According to another report, she said:

"He was like any other human being: he would clean his clothes, milk his ewe and serve himself." (Reported by Imaam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 6/256; al-Silsilat al-Saheehah, 671)

She (RA) was also asked about what the Messenger of Allah (SAW) used to do in his house, and she said,

"He used to serve his family, then when the time for prayer came, he would go out to pray." (Reported by al-Bukhaari, al-Fath, 2/162).

If we were to do likewise nowadays, we would achieve three things:

* We would be following the example of the Prophet (SAW).

* We would be helping our wives.

* We would feel more humble, not arrogant.

Some men demand food instantly from their wives, when the pot is on the stove and the baby is screaming to be fed; they do not pick up the child or wait a little while for the food. Let these Hadith be a reminder and a lesson.

Being affectionate towards and joking with the members of the family

Showing affection towards one's wife and children is one of the things that lead to creating an atmosphere of happiness and friendliness in the home. Thus the Messenger of Allah (SAW) advised Jabir (RA) to marry a virgin, saying,

"Why did you not marry a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you, and you could make her laugh and she could make you laugh?" (The hadeeth is reported in a number of places in the Saheehayn, such as al-Bukhaari, al-Fath, 9/121)

The Prophet (SAW) also said:

"Everything in which Allah's name is not mentioned is idleness and play, except for four things: a man playing with his wife." (Reported by al-Nisaa'i in 'Ushrat al-Nisa', p. 87; also in Saheeh al-Jaami')

The Prophet (SAW) used to treat his wife 'Aa'ishah (RA) affectionately when doing ghusl with her, as she (RA) said:

"The Messenger of Allah and I used to do ghusl together from one vessel, and he would pretend to take all the water so that I would say, 'Leave some for me, leave some for me,'" - and both of them were in a state of janaabah (impurity). (Muslim bi Sharh al-Nawawi, 4/6).

The ways in which the Prophet (SAW) showed affection towards young children are too famous to need mentioning. He often used to show his affection towards Hasan and Husayn, as mentioned above. This is probably one of the reason why the children used to rejoice when he came back from travelling; they would rush to welcome him, as reported in the saheeh hadith:

"Whenever he came back from a journey, the children of his household would be taken out to meet him." He (SAW) used to hug them close to him, as 'Abd-Allah ibn Jafar (RA) said:

"Whenever the Prophet (SAW) came back from a journey, we would be taken out to meet him. One day we met him, Hasan, Husayn and I. He carried one of us in front of him, and another on his back, until we entered Madeenah." (Saheeh Muslim, 4/1885-2772; see the commentary in Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi, 8/56).

Compare this with the situation in some miserable homes where there are no truthful jokes [i.e., jokes that do not involve lying], no affection and no mercy. Whoever thinks that kissing his children goes against the dignity of fatherhood should read the following hadeeth: from Abu Hurayrah (RA) who said:

"The Messenger of Allah (SAW) kissed al-Hasan ibn 'Ali, and al-Aqra' ibn Haabis al-Tameemi was sitting with him. Al-Aqra' said: 'I have ten children and I have never kissed any one of them.' The Messenger of Allah (SAW) looked at him and said:

'The one who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy.'"

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  مجالس الملائكة
Posted by: Muslimah - 08-13-2003, 09:27 AM - Forum: منتدى المقالات باللغة العربية - No Replies


مجالس الملائكة

يقول الحق سبحانه وتعالى :

(( يا أيها الذين آمنوا اذكروا الله ذكراً كثيرا وسبحوه بكرةً وأصيلا )) ..

ولذا فما أجمل ما قيل عن المؤمن مع الذكر ، بأنه

كالسمكة في الماء ،إذا خرجت منه ماتت ، وكذلك المؤمن مع الذكر ، إذا غفل عن ذكر ربه جل جلاله مات قلبه ..! ففي رحاب الذكر تتزكى نفسك ، وتتطهر روحك

وفي أجواء الذكر تتنعم وتتعطر وتأنس فتسعد.

تلك ليست كلمات إنشائية تقال وتسطّر ..

ولكنها حقائق سماوية تذكر ليطير إليها أصحاب القلوب الحيّة ، لأنهم يهتزون مع كل من يذكّرهم بربهم عز وجل ،

وفي الحديث الصحيح يقول رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم :

" مثل الذي يذكر ربه ، والذي لا يذكر ربه ، مثل الحي والميت " ..

فقس نفسك الآن على ضوء هذه القاعدة ، وسل نفسك منذ اللحظة أأنت إلى الحياة أقرب ، أم إلى الموت .؟!

تدمن ذكر الله فأنت حي إذن ،أما إذا غفلت عن ربك وخالقك ورازقك وموجدك

سبحانه وتعالى ، فلا تخدع نفسك ، أو يخدعك شياطين الأنس ،

فما أنت سوى قبر يتحرك فوق الأرض..!!

فرّغ لي قلبك الآن لحظات .. بعْ هذه اللحظات لله جل جلاله _ مع أن حياتك كلها في الأصل لله سبحانه _ .. تعال لنصغ إلى رسولنا الحبيب بكلية قلوبنا ..

هذا رسول الله يتحدث ..إن كل كلماته تتلألأ بين شفتيه ، وتحت كل كلمة إشراقها ونورها ،ومع كل معنى سمو وارتقاء وعز ، وفي كل عبارة

تتفتح أبواب السماء ،

فتهتز النفس الصافية ، لأنه يولّد في القلب نفحات سماوية خاصة ،

المهم فرّغ لهذه الكلمات قلبك ، واتجه به نحو السماء ..

عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال : قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم :

" إنّ للهِ تعالى ملائكةً يطوفون في الطرق ، يلتمسون أهل الذكر ،

فإذا وجدوا قوماً يذكرون الله عز وجل ،

تنادوا : هلموا ، هلموا إلى حاجتكم ،فيحفونهم بأجنحتهم إلى السماء الدنيا ، فيسألهم ربهم وهو أعلم : ما يقول عبادي ؟ قال: يقولون : يسبّحونك ، ويكبّرونك ، ويحمدونك ، ويُمّجدونك . فيقول : هل رأوني ؟ فيقولون: لا والله ما رأوك .فيقول : كيف لو رأوني ؟

فيقولون :

لو رأوك كانوا أشد لك عبادة ، وأشد لك تمجيداً ، وأكثر لك تسبيحاً .. فيقول : فماذا يسألون ؟ قال: يقولون : يسألونك الجنة .قال : فيقول: وهل رأوها ؟ فيقولون : لا والله يا رب ما رأوها . قال : فيقول: فكيف لو رأوها ؟قال : يقولون : لو أنهم رأوها كانوا أشد عليها حرصاً ، وأشد لها طلباً ، وأعظم فيها رغبة .

قال: فممَ يتعوّذون ؟ قال: يقولون : يتعوّذون من النار. قال : فيقول: وهل رأوها ؟قال: فيقولون : لا والله ما رأوها . فيقول: كيف لو رأوها ؟قال : يقولون :

لو رأوها كانوا أشد منها فراراً ، وأشد لها مخافة .

قال : فيقول: أُشهدكم أني قد غفرت لهم . قال: فيقول ملك من الملائكة : فيهم فلان ليس منهم ، إنما جاء لحاجة .قال : فيقول :

هم الجلساء لا يشقى بهم جليسهم ."

رواه البخارى..هذا الحديث فيض من السماء ، وقراءته في لحظة صفاء روحي كفيلة أن تهز القلب هزاً حتى تفيض العين بدمعها ،

وفي كل مرة تعيد قراءته تطالعك دروسه الكثيرة

وفوائده المتنوعة ،

ولذا فما أشد حاجة قلوبنا إلى مدارسة هذا الحديث والتذكير به :

تذكير أنفسنا وأهلينا ، وزملائنا ، والناس أجمعين ..

لأنه حديث شجي يعطر القلوب ويحييها ..

في الختام أحب أن ألفت النظر إلى قضية وردت في الحديث ،

هي من الأهمية بمكان :

يلاحظ أنه ذكر أن هناك ملائكة متخصصين في البحث عن أهل الذكر أينما كانوا :

في بيت .. في حديقة .. في مدرسة .. في سيارة .. في مكان عمل ….

فإذا وجدوا هذه الأجواء المعطرة فرحوا بها ، وتهللوا لها ،وأخذ بعضهم ينادي بعضاً إليها ، فيحيطونهم ، ويحفونهم بأجنحتهم ،

فيتعطر المجلس بعبق سماوي خالص ،

لاسيما وان السكينة تتنزل معهم ، والرحمة تغشى الجميع في تلك اللحظات

_ كما ورد ت الرواية الأخرى بذلك _ومن ثَمّ فلا شك أن لهذه النفحات أثرها الكبير على قلوب الجالسين ، فإذا تكررت ، في كل يوم مرة فإن آثاراً واضحة سوف يجدها هؤلاء القوم في حياتهم العملية في دنيا الناس ..

المهم أن يُحسنوا استقبال هذه النفحات ، ويُحسنوا كذلك استثمارها ،بعدم تضييعها أو التفريط فيها ..

أما أهل الغفلة فقد تخصصت بهم ولهم ومن أجلهم فرقٌ من الشياطين :

يحببونهم في المعصية ودوائرها ، ويهيجونهم إليها ، ولا يتكلمون إلاّ في التفاهات بعيداً عن الله عز وجل ، لغة الشهوة هي اللغة السائدة بينهم ، ورائحة المعصية هي المتفشية فيهم ..

والأعجب أن يحسب هؤلاء المساكين أنهم بخير وفي أحسن حال ، وأن كل شيء جيد ، وعلى ما يُرام ، وأنهم يُحسنون صنعا ، وأنهم بهذا يكونون سعداء ...!!

وصدق الله العظيم : (( نســوا الله ، فأنساهم أنفسهم )).. (( فلما زاغوا أزاغ الله قلوبهم ..))

ولنختم بهذه الفائدة الجليلة :

وفي الحديث إشارة إلى أن :

بإمكانك أن تحوّل المجلس الذي تكون فيه إلى مجلس تتنادى له الملائكة ، وتحتفي به ، وأن تجعل كل مجلس تكون فيه مجلس يباهي الله به ويذكره في ملأ عنده ..

بذلك تكون قد قررت أن تصبح شامة في وجه الدنيا ،لأنك مرتبط بمباشرة بالسماء ولا تستطيع الصبر عنها ..فهنيئاً

أنوار إيمانية نقلتها إليكم من مقالات أبو عبد الرحمن

قد طال اغتراب ألسنتنا عن اللهاج بذكر القدير العلى ذى الملكوت و الجبروت

فتعال معى نؤمن ساعة .... استثمر النور الإيمانى الذى حواك الآن ...و اعلم أن الله أراد بك رشدا و هداية

فيسر لك وصول هذه الرسالة إليك .... خصك بها دون ملايين يجوبون الشوارع هذه

اللحظة ...و ملايين فى غفلتهم يعمهون ....و ملايين على كفرهم و كبرهم مكبّون

اعلم أن ربى دعاك لمأدبة ذكره .... فلا تتأخر عن الدعوة ..... و اذكره يذكرك ...فما يغفل

المحب عن الحبيب

و أعوذ بالسميع العليم أن أذكركم و أنسى ... أو أن أكون جسرا تعبرونه إلى الجنة و يسقط

فى النار

لا تنسونى و والدىّ و المسلمين من الدعاء

أختكم فى الله

عاشقة الشـــــــ ابنة الإسلام ـــــهادة

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  HAQQ!!!!!!
Posted by: IslamIsTheSolution - 08-13-2003, 09:26 AM - Forum: Islam - No Replies


According to the Holy Qur'an,both the jews and the christians have altered their Holy Books.The jews are classified as the ones whom God is angry at, the christians are lost people.ISLAM=TRUTH

everything written in the quran is for the good of mankind its for everyone to live better, no secret to it. i have not met one person that can prove me wrong on any subject and never will. i am proud to know the truth.

but allah will look after those people, and when jesus (peace and blessings upon him) comes back to us all he will call everyone to islam, because there are no secrets to the religion

Q:Why most Christians and Jews hate ISLAM?A:ISLAM is the only PROOF that shows the corruption of these false religions.READ Qur'an, ALLAH is the GREATEST

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  Thats Allah
Posted by: IslamIsTheSolution - 08-13-2003, 08:13 AM - Forum: General - No Replies


THAT'S Allah

Have you ever been just sitting there and all of a sudden you feel like doing something nice for someone you care for. . . THAT'S Allah. . .

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Have you ever been thinking about somebody that you haven't seen in a long time and then next thing you know you see them or receive a phone call from them. . . THAT'S Allah working ... there is no such thing as coincidence.

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Have you ever received something wonderful that you didn't even ask for, like money in the mail, a debt that had mysteriously been cleared, or a coupon to a department store where! you had just seen something you wanted, but couldn't afford. . . THAT'S Allah. .. He knows the desires of your heart. . .

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Have you ever been in a situation and you had no clue how it is

going to get better, but now you look back on it. . . THAT'S Allah.. .. He passes us through tribulation to see a brighter day. . .

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DO YOU THINK THAT THIS E-MAIL WAS ACCIDENTALLY SENT TO YOU? NOPE!

I was thinking of You! Please pass this along and share the Power of Allah..

In all that we do, we should totally give HIM thanks and our

blessings will continue to multiply. This message was sent to me by a close friend so please pass it on to all of your good friends. Keep this going for an eternity.

NOW THAT'S Allah!!!!!!!!

Don't tell Allah how big your storm is.

Tell the storm how big your Lord is!

*edited by Muslimah*

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  A letter from God , to Alll women,, Men read to InshaAllah
Posted by: IslamIsTheSolution - 08-13-2003, 08:02 AM - Forum: General - Replies (7)


LETTER FROM God TO WOMEN

When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them into being. When I

created man, I formed him and breathed life into his nostrils. But you,

woman, I fashioned after I breathed the breath of life into man because

your nostrils are too delicate.

I allowed a deep sleep to come over him so I could patiently and perfectly

fashion you. Man was put to sleep so that he could not interfere with the

creativity. From one bone, I fashioned you. I chose the bone that protects

man's life. I chose the rib, which protects his heart and lungs and

supports him, as you are meant to do.

Around this one bone, I shaped you.... I modeled you. I created you

perfectly and beautifully. Your characteristics are as the rib, strong yet

delicate and fragile. You provide protection for the most delicate organ in

man, his heart. His heart is the center of his being; his lungs hold the

breath of life.

The rib cage will allow itself to be broken before it will allow damage to

the heart. Support man as the rib cage supports the body. You were not

taken from his feet, to be under him, nor were you taken from his head, to

be above him. You were taken from his side, to stand beside him and be held

close to his side.

Your eyes......don't change them. Your lips-how lovely when they part in

prayer. Your nose, so perfect in form. Your hands so gentle to touch.

I provided you with whatever Adam may need, strength, purity, love, protection and support.

So

man......treat women well. Love her, respect her, for she is fragile but

yet strong at the same time.

Send this to all of the wonderful women you know to bless their day. This

is for all the women in your lives. Your sisters, your mother, your wives,

your daughters, the ladies you work with everyday, even your online female

friends. Send it to men too, they need to hear it as well. Send it to

everyone.

Remember... "What you permit, you promote."

*edited by Muslimah* for various reasons

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  i need help about abuse of an orphan.
Posted by: atifa - 08-12-2003, 11:56 PM - Forum: Woman and family - Replies (5)


Assalamualilkum.

dear sisters and brothers.

i hope my few lines reaches you all in the best of health, as it leave me here quite well. Alhamdulilah.

well i am mother of 4 children, and i adope a girl when she was 2 years old, and now she is 14 Alhamdulilah. i have a very sad problem and i really need help on this, i went on a holiday for a month and i leave all my children home with their dad, and when i came back my Daughter told me that she thinks something is wrong between the adopted child and my father, and i ask her and she said yes, your husband feel me up, but did not had sex with her, i took her to the doctor and their was not sign of abuse. when i ask my husband if he did it and he said yes. and he is sorry about that. please i neeed help, what should i do ? because i am planing to leave him. so please help me out and tell me what to do? as a muslim.

Assalamualilkum.waiting or answers insha allah.

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  The GOD
Posted by: harun - 08-12-2003, 04:24 PM - Forum: General - No Replies


<span>Some pepole do not belive about the god,,,</span>

<span>and Some pepole do not belive that the quran from the god,</span>

<span>and Some pepole do not belive about the relation between islam and Science,,,</span>

<span>Any way,,,this website for them:</span>

<span>www.harunyahya.com</span>

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<span>.books:</span>

<span>http://www.harunyahya.com/m_books.php</span>

<span>.</span>

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<span>and movies:</span>

<span>http://www.harunyahya.com/m_video.php</span>

<span>.</span>

<span>.</span>

<span>.</span>

<span>www.islamonline.com</span>

<span>alrasheedy@islam-online.net[/size:e20e822b3e][/color:e20e822b3e] </span>

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  What about this idea?
Posted by: SisterJennifer - 08-12-2003, 06:40 AM - Forum: Feedback and suggestions - Replies (12)


Asalaamu alikum everyone,

I'd like to get feeback on an idea that insha Allah will make the forums even better.

This, and most Islamic sites all have a section devoted to women and women's issues. This is great, and I don't want to change that, but what about the men?

Men have issues too. Why not set up a place just for them to focus on male issues. Responibility to wives and family, handling stress and work-related pressure, etc.. Our brothers have a big responsibility and I think it may be of benefit to them to talk and learn from other brothers.

Any opinions???

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  Strangeness and the Strangers (By Imam Ibn Ul Qyyim)
Posted by: Amira2003 - 08-12-2003, 02:21 AM - Forum: Islam - Replies (4)


Salam alikom

[b:f2d7989c05]Strangeness and the Strangers [/b:f2d7989c05]

[i:f2d7989c05][b:f2d7989c05]Imam Ibn ul Qayyim al Jawziyyah[/b:f2d7989c05][/color:f2d7989c05] [/i:f2d7989c05]

<span>[i:f2d7989c05]Adoptted by Ammar ibn Abdullah al-Hindi </span>

<span>Based on a booklet by ibn Qayyim entitled al-Ghurbathu wa al-Ghuraba </span>

<span>Some modifications and additions have been made, © 1994 Basheer Publications[/i:f2d7989c05] [/color:f2d7989c05]</span>

<span>"Islam began as something strange, and it shall return to being something strange, so give glad tidings to the strangers." </span>

<span>The Meaning of "Strangeness" </span>

<span>Many times in many situations the people that follow the religion of Allah feel a sense of not belonging, of being out of place, of not fitting in, and, in other words, of being strange. This feeling could occur in a gathering of non-Muslims, but, unfortunately, this feeling sometimes also occurs when one is with his fellow Muslims. A person sees his brothers and sisters doing acts that are contrary to Islam, or taking part in innovations that sometimes even border on kufr (apostasy), yet he feels that he does not have enough power or courage to stop them in these acts. Some brothers and sisters, especially if they do not have enough taqwa or Islamic knowledge, sometimes buckle under the pressure of their peers and join in these acts, knowing that this is not what Allah wants them to do. However, feeling helpless, since it seems that they are alone in their ideas and without any support to help them do what is right, they succumb to such pressures. </span>

<span>These brothers and sisters, may Allah have mercy on them, should take consolation in the verses of the Qur’an and the many statements of the Prophet (peace be upon him) describing this very situation of strangeness that they feel. </span>

<span>Why Have They Been Called "Strangers"? </span>

<span>Allah says in the Qur’an, "If only there had been, in the generations preceding you, people having wisdom, prohibiting others from evil in the earth; except a few of those whom we have saved from among them." (Hud 116). </span>

<span>This verse speaks of the few people on earth, the "strangers", who prohibit mankind from evil. These are the same people the Prophet (peace be upon him) spoke about when he said, "Islam began as something strange, and it shall return to being something strange, so give glad tidings [ar. Tooba. This is a tree in Paradise. So the Prophet (peace be upon him) is giving the good news of Paradise to these strangers.] to the strangers." It was asked, "Who are those strangers, O Messenger of Allah?" He replied, "Those that correct the people when they become corrupt." [Reported by Abu Amr al-Dani, from the hadith of ibn Masoud. It is authentic according to al-Albani. Another narration says, "Those that correct my sunnah which has been corrupted by the people after me."] In another narration he said in response to the same question, "They are a small group of people among a large evil population. Those who oppose them are more than those who follow them." [Reported by ibn Asaakir. It is authentic according to al-Albani.] </span>

<span>These praiseworthy people are called strangers since they are a small minority among mankind. Thus, Muslims are strangers among mankind; the true believers are strangers among Muslims; and the scholars are strangers among the true believers. And the followers of the Sunnah, those that clear themselves from all peoples of innovation, are likewise strangers. </span>

<span>In reality, however, their strangeness is only because they are the minority and it is not because their actions and beliefs are strange. This is what Allah says in surah al-Anaam, "And if you obey most of the people on Earth, they will lead you astray" (al-Anaam 116). Allah also says, "And most of mankind will not believe, even if you (O Muhammad) desire it eagerly" (Yusuf 103); "And truly, most of mankind are rebellious and disobedient (to Allah)." (al-Maidah 49); "But nay, most of mankind are ungrateful" (Yusuf 38 ). Therefore, Allah, the all-Knowing Creator, knows the most of mankind will not follow the truth. Instead, only a small group of people will be set apart that truly and correctly believe in Him, the strangers from among mankind. </span>

<span>The strangers in belief, however, and the strangers in character and actions are in reality the majority of mankind, for they are strange to Islam and to the laws that Allah has revealed. Thus we see that there are various types of strangeness, of which some are praiseworthy, some are blameworthy and some are neither praiseworthy or blameworthy. We will discuss these various categories separately below. </span>

<span>The Various Types of Strangeness </span>

<span>You should know, may Allah have mercy upon you, that strangeness is of three types: </span>

<span>The first type of strangeness is the strangeness of the "People of Allah and the People of His Messenger" (peace be upon him), which we mentioned previously. This strangeness is a praiseworthy strangeness, as it has been praised by Allah and His Messenger (peace be upon him). Therefore, this kind of strangeness should be sought and its people must be supported. This strangeness occurs in different times, in different places, and among different peoples. These strangers, then, are the true "People of Allah" for they do not worship ought save Him, and they do not take support from any path except the path of the Prophet (peace be upon him), and they do not call to anything except that which has been brought by the Prophet (peace be upon him). These are the people who left mankind when they (the strangers) were in need of them the most. For, on the Day of Judgment, when all other groups will go with that which they used to worship, they will stay in their places. It will be said to them, "Will you not go as the other people have gone?" They will answer, "We had abandoned the people (in this life), and we were more in need of them then we are today, and we will wait for our Lord whom we used to worship." [Recorded by al-Bukhari and Muslim] </span>

<span>Thus it is apparent that this strangeness does not cause its bearer any discontent. Rather it is a comforting strangeness, a solace to the believers. This is because he knows that his helpers are Allah, His Messenger and those who believe [This is a reference to verse 55 of surah al-Maidah], even if all of mankind left and abandoned him. These strangers are again described in a hadith narrated by Anas ibn Malik, in which the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "It is possible that a disheveled, dusty person, with not many belongings [Literally, "with two headdresses"], who is not noticed among the people, if he asks of Allah, Allah will fulfill his prayer." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi and al-Hakim. Al-Albani said it is authentic.] Al-Hasan al-Basri [a very famous Follower – tabi` - known for his piety, asceticism and knowledge] said, "A believer is a stranger in this world, he is never afraid of its humiliation, and he never competes for its glory. The people are in one situation and he is in a different situation. The people are content with him, yet he is in turmoil [Literally, "tired"] with himself." </span>

<span>From the characteristics of these strangers that the Prophet (peace be upon him) described is the holding on to the sunnah of the Messenger (peace be upon him), even if the people abandon it. They, the strangers, leave all the innovations that their people invent, even if such practices should be common among them. They also stick to tawheed, even if the people corrupt it with shirk. They do not ascribe themselves to anything besides Allah and His Prophet (peace be upon him); they do not, that is, ascribe themselves to a shaikh, tariqah, particular madhhab or a group of people. They are dedicated only to Allah, with their sincere worship of Him and Him alone, and to His Prophet (peace be upon him), by following the path that he followed. These are the people who grasp the glowing hot embers [A reference to the hadith that is to follow], even though most of mankind - nay, all of them - blame them for this. This is the meaning of the statements of the Prophet (peace be upon him) alluding to the fact that they stick to his sunnah, even if the people corrupt it. </span>

<span>Allah, all praise be to Him, sent His Prophet (peace be upon him) when mankind followed different religions, for there were those who worshipped rivers and trees, and there were those who worshipped idols, and there were Christians, Jews and Zoroastrians. Islam, when it first appeared among these people, was strange to them. If a person from among them accepted Islam and followed the call of Allah and His Prophet (peace be upon him), he would be shunned by his family and his tribe. He would live the life of a stranger among his people. Eventually, however, Islam spread far and wide. The Muslims became stronger and stronger, so much so that the strangers were those that did not accept the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). </span>

<span>But, alas, Satan deceived mankind again. People took to the ways that their forefathers, who had accepted Islam, had abandoned until, finally, Islam became strange again, just like it had started and just like the Prophet (peace be upon him) had foretold. Nay, indeed, rather the true Islam - that which the Prophet (peace be upon him) and his Companions were following [this is a reference to the reply that the Prophet (peace be upon him) gave when asked what the characteristics of the "Saved Group" were] has become even stranger to the people then when it initially appeared, even though its outward signs and external relics are well known and widespread. [This is what ibn al-Qayyim, wrote in the 8th Century of the Hijrah, wrote. Imagine our situations six centuries after him. May Allah protect us.] </span>

<span>How can it not be so, when these strangers are only one group among seventy-two others [the Prophet (peace be upon him) said in an authentic hadith that this Ummah would divide into seventy-three groups, all of which would go to Hell except the one Saved Group.], each of which follows its own desires and takes its passions as gods? Those are the groups that base their teachings on doubts and innovations and whose sole purpose is the gratification of their own desires. Thus, the group whose goal is to achieve the pleasure of Allah by following the path of His Messenger (peace be upon him) will be the strange one among all of the other groups. </span>

<span>This is why the true Muslims - those that adamantly cling to the Sunnah - will have the reward of fifty Companions. When the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked about the verse, "O you who believe! Take care of your own selves. If you follow right guidance, no harm can come to you from those who err" (al-Maidah 105), he said, "Nay indeed, order good and forbid evil until you see stinginess being obeyed, and desires being followed, and this world preferred [over the next], and each person being deluded by his own opinions. Then take care of yourself and leave the common people. For indeed, after you there will be days of patience, where patience will be like holding on to glowing embers. Whoever is able to do this will have the reward of fifty people that do like him." They asked, "O Messenger of Allah, the reward of fifty of them?" He replied, "The reward of fifty of you" [Recorded by al-Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud with a weak chain but it has supporting evidence. Al-Albani calls it sahih. See al-Sahiha, #957]. This reward is due to his strangeness among the people. </span>

<span>So, if the believer whom Allah has blessed with wisdom and knowledge wants to tread upon this path, the path of Allah, then let him be prepared to resign himself to the life of a stranger among his people, just like his predecessors who accepted Islam were treated by the people. For indeed, he will be a stranger in his beliefs, because his people have corrupted their beliefs. He will be a stranger in his religion, due to what the people have done to it. He will be a stranger in his manner of praying, because the people are ignorant of the prayer of the Prophet (peace be upon him). He will be a stranger in his ordering of good and prohibiting evil, for the people have taken what is evil as good and they have abandoned what is good as evil. In short, then, he will be a stranger in all his matters of this world and the Hereafter, calling to the path of Allah and withstanding the harm of all those that go against him. </span>

<span>As for the second type of strangeness, then know, O reader, that this strangeness is the blameworthy strangeness, for its people are the evil sinners, the ignorant and the arrogant of mankind. Their strangeness is due to their refusal to follow the correct and straight path of Allah. This strangeness is the strangeness of not conforming to the religion of Islam and, as such, it will remain strange even if its followers are numerous, its power is strong and its existence is widespread. These are the strangers to Allah. May Allah keep us from becoming one of them. </span>

<span>The third category of strangeness is, in essence, neither praiseworthy or blameworthy. It is the strangeness that a traveler experiences when he travels to a different country, like a person who lives in a place for a short period of time, knowing that he has to move on. One aspect of this strangeness is that all of us, whether we realize it or not, are strangers in this world, for we will all go one day to our permanent abode in the Hereafter. This is the meaning of the hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him) when he told Abdullah ibn Umar, "Live in this world as though you are a stranger or a wayfarer." Thus, this category of strangeness has the potential to become a praiseworthy strangeness if we realize the meaning of this statement of Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him). </span>

<span>We pray that Allah bless us to be Muslims, knowledgeable and pious, and that He forgive us our sins and bless us with His Mercy. </span>

<span>Glorified be your Lord, the Lord of Honor and Power! (He is free) from what they attribute to Him And Peace be on the Messengers. And all Praise and thanks be to the Allah, the Lord of the Worlds </span>

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  Astaghfirullah!!! - BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!
Posted by: Mutawakkil - 08-11-2003, 10:09 PM - Forum: General - Replies (5)


Bismillahir-rahmanir-raheem

As-salaamu alaykom wa rahmat-Allaahi wa barakaatuhu to my brothers and sisters in Islaam,

[b:cec096f04a]<span>Astaghfirullah!!! [/color:cec096f04a] </span><span><span>- BELIEVE IT OR NOT!![/color:cec096f04a][/b:cec096f04a][/size:cec096f04a]</span></span>

<span><span>I found these stats posted in a Yahoo group..... </span></span>

<span><span>This is a reminder to us. As we all know the facts (from the CIA book of records):</span></span>

<span><span>1) Total world population: 6.5 billion</span></span>

<span><span>2) Total population of Muslims (MashaAllah!): 2 billion (2,023,829,080) i. e. out of every 4 human on this earth, one is a Muslim.</span></span>

<span><span>3) Total cigarette smokers in the world: 1.15 billion(1,158,536,585) i. e. 18% of the population approximately.</span></span>

<span><span>4) Total Muslim cigarette smokers in the world (according to the worldpercentage): 400,000,000 approximately. (400 million).</span></span>

<span><span>[b:cec096f04a]</span></span><span><span><span>DO YOU KNOW ???????[/color:cec096f04a][/b:cec096f04a]</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>1. Phillip Morris is the largest tobacco & cigarette manufacturing company in the world??</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>2. Phillip Morris donates 12% of its profits to Israel.</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>3. If 400 million Muslims smoke a packet of cigarette each on average per day(average cost per packet being $2.00 - & this is very conservative estimate) - the Muslims contribute $ 800 million to the Phillip Morris company.</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>4. Let us assume 10% profit on this amount, which sums up to $ 80 million.</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>5. 12 % of the profits go to Israel - 12% of $80 million = $9.6 million.</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]Say that again?? $ 9.6 million per day![/b:cec096f04a]</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>This is the amount that we Muslims are contributing to Israel as our contribution in helping them kill our children in Palestine.</span></span></span>

<span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]So, PLEASE FORWARD TO HELP STOP KILLING OUR CHILDREN![/b:cec096f04a]</span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]STOP SMOKING![/b:cec096f04a][/color:cec096f04a][/size:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]And that's just one company!!</span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span>And that's just one product!![/b:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]What if [/b:cec096f04a][/color:cec096f04a]these poor suffering people seize us by the throat come Yaumul Qiyaamah and drag us before Allah for judgement on their Human Rights??</span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>What if [/color:cec096f04a][/b:cec096f04a]we don't have enough hasana to pay the fine?? </span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]What if[/b:cec096f04a][/color:cec096f04a] they then give us their sins??</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>What if [/color:cec096f04a][/b:cec096f04a]we think a 'Freedom fighter bomber' is just a sinner who committed suicide and will go to Hell forever??</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]What if [/b:cec096f04a][/color:cec096f04a]he claims human rights and gives YOU!! his sin??</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]FOR INFORMATION ON HOW YOU CAN HELP AND WHAT COMPANIES AND PRODUCTS ARE KILLING OUR PEOPLE CLICK HERE[/b:cec096f04a][/size:cec096f04a][img:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>http://www.animation-central.com/arrow/e.gif</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[/img:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[img:cec096f04a]http://www.inminds.co.uk/boycott-israel-anim.gif[/img:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[img:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>http://www.qolob.net/Signature/qolob_000.gif</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[/img:cec096f04a] </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]IF YOU CANNOT AFFORD A BULLET TO PROTECT THE FILISTINIANS?[/b:cec096f04a][/color:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[b:cec096f04a]THEN PLEASE AT LEAST DO NOT BUY A BULLET FOR THEM TO KILL US!!![/b:cec096f04a][/color:cec096f04a]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

<span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>[i:cec096f04a]WasSalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh to my brothers and sisters in Islaam[/i:cec096f04a] </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>

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