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How do you perform two prostrations of forgetfulness. |
Posted by: Infoseeker - 02-27-2008, 08:53 PM - Forum: Islam
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Salaam brothers and sisters
I hope you all are in good health ameen
I tried the search engine and i couldn't find my answer so i guess this is the first time someone is asking this type of question
i need to know how to perform two prostrations of forgetfulness i am a bit confuse.
brother Abdul-Waheed
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Earth Quake In UK |
Posted by: Suhail - 02-27-2008, 01:26 AM - Forum: General
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Assalamaulikum
20 minutes ago whilst i was finishing off an essay , like most of u in uk , we all felt an earthquake !!!! this was the first time for a long time i got scared......the whole house was shaking , wardrobe doors shaking , pictures on wall fell , then within 2 minutes i got hundreds of texts all call from people......
I Thought it would be nice if everyone in uk shared their experience of the earthquake
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Danemark Again |
Posted by: Muslimah - 02-24-2008, 04:19 AM - Forum: General
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Bismillah
as salam alykom
Seems they enjoy drawing anyway, seems they have a large number of artists.
Well, what concerns me is what I experience with each of those incidents, I call it incidents because to me they mean nothing more. On the personal level, each time something of the like happens, it makes me grow more confident how this man is reall great, how happy I m to be blessed on being one of his Ummah, tiny I might be, not really effective I also may be, but at least I say La Ilaha Ila Allah Mohamdan Rasul Allah truth ever and ever again. It makes me feel how really he is the best of mankind, how great and merciful he was, how patient he was, it helps me re run his life and ponder upon each and every situation, specially those like when he was in Taif and he was really in a dire need for major support, even then, when Allah Responded to his supplication and Commanded the angle of mountains to see if he wants the two mountains to be clapped down on those people who hurt him much. What did he say? he said no lest one of them would become a Muslim/
I invoke upon Allah that those same group who are organising this anti campaign to see the light and embrace Islam and become part of the Ummah of Mohamed prayer and peace be upon him.
Alhamdulelah for Islam.
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new sisters forum |
Posted by: aisha-uk - 02-22-2008, 01:52 PM - Forum: Links
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Salam Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu
InshaAllah this reaches you in the best of health and Imaan, Ameen
We are 3 sisters who recently have set up a forum for muslim sisters and none muslim women, called Muslimahs United. Our aim is not only to share and learn about Islam, but also about every other aspects of life. We will be there for eachother through highs and lows, InshaAllah.
When you apply for membership, we do need to have some kind of personal contact with you, before we can appove your application. This is to make sure that there will be no men allowed in and to protect our sisters, the best way we can, InshaAllah
You also have to be at least 17 years of age, InshaAllah
So if this is something for you, then why not register at www.muslimahsunited.com
InshaAllah we'll see you there
Jazak Allahu Khair
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Cyber loss |
Posted by: Muslimah - 02-01-2008, 11:18 AM - Forum: General
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Bismillah
as salam alymkom dear members,
Sobhan Allah, lately i have turned into a totally cyber media consumer. I mean I depend on the Internet to fulfill my news, professiona, Islamic related needs. Suddenly, day before yesterday, Egypt went blank, the marine fiber cable was broken, i m sure you all heard, read about it. I found myself having to resort to TV news, or even print newspapers, and even compelled to go to work for an emergency off schedule requirment just to pick the material because I couldnt access my email. Sobhan Allah for this blessing really that saves much time and effort and may Allah Maintain it and increase mankind's knowledge.
Oooo hear I m again among my cyber family Alhamdulelah. :hamdulila:
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Polygynous Expressions: New Logo, New Book, New Look |
Posted by: poly_blessings - 01-29-2008, 03:42 PM - Forum: General
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Bismillaah Inalhamdalillaah was-Salaatu was-Salaamu 'Aalaa Rasulillaah wa Ba'd:
Assalaamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuh. Submissions for the brothers' polygyny anthology as well as the co-wife anthology are no longer being accepted. <i>Polygynous Expressions</i> has merged the brothers' anthology with the co-wife anthology and we are diligently working to compile a beneficial piece of literature. The first draft has been completed and mashaaAllaah is 177 pages of scholarly proofs, beneficial reminders and wise naseehah. The book has been forwarded to a number of students of knowledge for review, may Allaah reward them abundantly for assisting us in this endeavor. And may Allaah reward all those who have submitted material for publication. Ameen. Please keep us in your du'aa and refer back to the <i>Polygynous Expressions</i> website in the future for updates on the release of our latest book, which will be entitled, <i>"Ta'addud Az-Zawjaat: Candid Reflections on Polygyny from the Muslim Ummah."
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Baarak Allaahu feekum!
Sister Aneesa fee New York
<b>Founder</b>,<i>Polygynous Expressions</i>
<i>http://www.polygynousexpressions.com
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<b>Ta’addud Az-Zawjaat: Candid Reflections on Polygyny from the Muslim Ummah
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COMPILED BY: <i>Aneesa Azeez/Polygynous Expressions</i>
PUBLISHER: <i>TBA</i>
<b>About the Book</b>
<i><b>Ta'addud Az-Zawjaat: Candid Reflections on Polygyny from the Muslim Ummah</b></i> will be the second publication to be released by Aneesa Azeez, also known as MizAzeez, following the publication of her memoir entitled, <i><b>Polygynous Blessings: Musings of a Muslim Wife</b></i>.
Included within this new publication are: commentary by reputable Muslim scholars, past and present, on <i>Qur’aanic</i> verses and Prophetic narrations related to marriage in general and polygyny in particular; scholarly advice and legal rulings on issues related to polygyny; testimonials from Muslim men and women on the benefits and trials of plural marriage, including advice on correctly and successfully implementing polygyny; narrations from the wives of the Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, regarding their dealings within polygyny; and reminders from the <i>Qur’aan</i> and <i>Sunnah</i> regarding emotions that undoubtedly arise within a polygynous marriage, such as jealousy, envy, and anger, as well as remedies to such behavior, such as patience and complete trust in and reliance upon Allaah.
<i><b>Ta'addud Az-Zawjaat</b></i> will be the first book to be released as part of an anthology series launched by <i>Polygynous Expressions</i>, a venture which seeks to publish literature highlighting positive examples of plural marriage within the Muslim community, alongside providing advice and scholarly proof on polygyny from the <i>Qu'raan</i>, <i>Sunnah</i>, and pious Muslim predecessors.
<i>Polygynous Expressions</i> was started in order to respond to the growing desire within the Muslim community for positive literature on polygyny written from a more personal standpoint, however, framed within the shade of the <i>Qur’aan</i> and <i>Sunnah</i>. While there is some written material on the topic of polygyny in Islaam from a more personal standpoint, most of this literature is from the voice of Muslim women, some directly involved in polygyny, some not. In addition, the resounding voice of existing literature on polygyny in Islaam from a personal standpoint seems to be a voice of opposition and Allaah, glorified and high is He above all imperfections, knows best.
Indeed, from the important aspects of a Muslim’s life is marriage and from the aspects of marriage ordained by Allaah and practiced by the Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, is polygyny. Allaah states in the <i>Qur’aan</i>, the meaning of which is, “Marry other women of your choice, two, or three or four.” And it has been reported in <i>Saheeh Al-Bukhaari</i> from Ibn ‘Abbaas, may Allaah be pleased with him, “Marry, for the best person from this (Muslim) nation (i.e. Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him) had the largest number of wives.”
Many amongst the Muslim ranks are beginning to realize the growing need and practice of polygyny and so, instead of trying to avoid this part of the religion of Islaam or relegate it to the status of some type of abnormality or exception, more Muslims are seeking to better understand how to establish and maintain successful polygynous marriages. It is the sincere intention and hope of the compilers of <i><b>Ta’addud Az-Zawjaat: Candid Reflections on Polygyny from the Muslim Ummah</b></i>, that this book will aid the Muslims in better understanding and submitting to the legislation of Allaah, and that it will assist in strengthening the familial and marital bonds present throughout the Muslim community. And indeed, with Allaah lies all success.
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Halt Humanitarian Disaster in Gaza |
Posted by: SisterJennifer - 01-22-2008, 01:24 PM - Forum: Current Affairs
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It's not really so much 'Islamic' news as it is humanitarian news. You dont have to be muslim to care about human suffering and to try and do something about it, at least to speak up about it. Its really a tragedy for us to be silent:
(WASHINGTON, D.C., 01/21/08) - The Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR) today called on American Muslims and other people of conscience to urge their elected officials to immediately intervene to put an end to the humanitarian crisis in Gaza.
The crisis was triggered by an Israeli-imposed blockade Sunday evening, which forced the closure of the only electric plant that serves Gaza City's 400,000 residents and one third of the Gaza Strip's 1.5 millions residents. The blockade prevents the entry of fuel that is essential to the operation of the plant.
Gaza Dark Amid Israeli Blockade
Gaza is already suffering from economic hardship, which according to the World Bank, is primarily a result of being cut off from the rest of the world by Israel. Without power, hospitals, water facilities and other crucial lifelines may completely shut off and homes may be left without heat, plunging Gaza into disarray.
On Monday, the U.N. said it would suspend food distribution to 860,000 Palestinians unless Israel eased the blockade imposed on Friday in response to rocket fire from Gaza. The World Food Program, which distributes food to another 270,000 Gaza residents warned that it too would have to suspend operations by Thursday due to lack of fuel.
A European Union (EU) official termed Israel’s blockade “collective punishment,” a practice banned by international law. "I have made clear that I am against this collective punishment of the people of Gaza," said EU External Relations Commissioner Benita Ferrero-Waldner. (Article 33 of the Fourth Geneva Convention states: “No protected person may be punished for an offence he or she has not personally committed.”)
U.N. Agency Says May Have to Halt Gaza Food Handout
In a statement CAIR said:
“Because American taxpayers provide Israel with billions of dollars of economic support each year, we have the right and the responsibility to demand that Israel abide by American and universal human rights standards and end its practice of collective punishment against the Palestinian populations. Such practice amounts to war crimes.
“Silence from American officials will only serve to increase the sentiment worldwide that our nation cares little for the suffering of the Palestinian people.
"The perception that the U.S. abets cruel and inhumane treatment of civilian populations provides fodder for anti-Americanism that may threaten the security of the United States.”
According to the Human Rights Watch World Report 2007, "Israel [retains] effective day-to-day control over most key aspects of life in Gaza, including ingress and egress and thus the economy."
Seventy-nine percent of Gaza households live under the poverty line, 40 percent suffer from unemployment and almost half the population in the Gaza Strip is made up of children.
CAIR, America's largest Islamic civil liberties group, has 33 offices and chapters nationwide and in Canada. Its mission is to enhance the understanding of Islam, encourage dialogue, protect civil liberties, empower American Muslims, and build coalitions that promote justice and mutual understanding.
<b>IMMEDIATE ACTIONS REQUESTED:</b>
1. CONTACT your elected officials (one U.S. Representative and 2 U.S. Senators) and ask them to call for an end to the Israeli blockade of Gaza, and a full restoration of the essential services. Call, fax, and email.
Click here to find your representative
Talking points:
*As your constituent, I urge you to call for an immediate end to the illegal Israeli blockade in Gaza.
* Our nation and its leaders cannot and should not remain silent as an illegal humanitarian disaster unfolds in Gaza. Collective punishment is always counterproductive and only serves to block moves toward a just resolution of any conflict.
* Because American taxpayers provide Israel with billions of dollars of economic support each year, we have the right to demand that those funds not be used to increase human suffering.
* Israel must abide by international law and universal standards of human rights. We call on President Bush to demand the immediate end of Israel’s blockade.
* Silence from American officials will only serve to increase the perception worldwide that our nation cares little for the suffering of the Palestinian people.
* The perception that the U.S. abets cruel and inhumane treatment of civilian populations provides fodder for anti-Americanism that may threaten the security of the United States.
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2. INFORM YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
by forwarding this alert to at least five other people. Tell them you took action and ask them to do the same.
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Selling Funeral Boxes |
Posted by: wel_mel_2 - 01-10-2008, 09:26 AM - Forum: Islam
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Bismillah: Assalamo Alikum.
recently one of my customers asked me to find some factories in China who can supply Funeral boxes... are we allowed to sell these products?
Thanks a lot for your help.
Salam
Wael.
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Sleeping and missing salaat al-fajr |
Posted by: amma - 01-06-2008, 07:10 PM - Forum: Usama
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Sleeping and missing salaat al-fajr -
by Shaykh Munajjid - may Allah reward him with
goodness.
A brother complained: “I miss
salaat al-Fajr on most days, and I hardly ever pray it at the right time.
Usually I do not wake up until after the sun has risen, or at best I wake up
after the time for praying fajr in jamaa’ah. I have tried to wake up at the
right time, with no success. What is the solution to this problem?”
All praise be to Allaah. The
solution to this problem, like others, has two aspects: theoretical and
practical.
The theoretical aspect may be
further broken down into two points:
(1) The Muslim should know the
great status of salaat al-fajr in the sight of Allaah, may He be glorified.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) said: “Whoever prays the dawn prayer in congregation, it is as if
he had prayed the whole night long.” (Muslim, p. 454, no. 656; al-Tirmidhi,
221).
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) also said:
“The most burdensome prayers for
the hypocrites are salaat al-’isha’ and salaat al-fajr, but if they only knew
what they contain, they would come even if they had to crawl.” (Reported by
Imaam Ahmad, al-Musnad, 2/424; Saheeh al-Jaami’,
133).
“Whoever prays fajr is under the
protection of Allaah. Do not put yourselves in a situation where Allaah has to
call you to account for your negligence.” (Reported by al-Tabaraani, 7/267;
Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 6344).
“Angels come to you in shifts by
night and by day. They meet at salaat al-fajr and salaat al-‘asr, then those
who had stayed with you at night ascend, and are asked by the One Who knows
better than they: ‘How did you find My servants?’ They say, ‘We left them when
they were praying, and we came to them when they were praying.’” (Reported by
al-Bukhaari, al-Fath, 2/33).
“The best of prayers in the sight
of Allaah is the dawn prayer on Friday, in congregation.” (Reported by Abu
Na’eem in al-Hilyah, 7/207, and in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah,
1566).
According to a saheeh hadeeth:
“Whoever prays al-Bardayn will enter Paradise.” (Reported by
al-Bukhaari, al-Fath, 2/52). Al-Bardayn are fajr and
‘asr.
(2) The Muslim should understand
the seriousness of missing salaat al-fajr. This is explained by the hadeeth
already quoted:
“The most burdensome prayers for
the hypocrites are salaat al-’isha’ and salaat al-Fajr…”
In al-Saheeh, it is
reported that Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with them both) said: “If we
did not see a person at fajr and ‘isha’ prayers, we would think badly of him.”
(Reported by al-Tabaraani in al-Mu’jam al-Kabeer, 12/271. Al-Haythami
said, the men of al-Tabaraani are muwaththaqoon (trustworthy).
al-Majma’, 2/40). They thought badly of a person who was absent from
these two prayers because regular performance of them is an indication of a
person’s faith and a measure of his sincerity. Other prayers may be easier to
do because they are more convenient to a person’s circumstances and fit in
with his work and his sleep, but only those who are determined and sincere,
people whom one hopes are good people, will be able to pray fajr and ‘isha’
regularly in congregation.
Another hadeeth which indicates
the seriousness of missing salaat al-fajr is: “Whoever prays fajr is under the
protection of Allaah. Do not put yourselves in a situation where Allaah has to
call you to account for your negligence, because whoever finds himself in this
situation will be sorted out and then thrown on his face in the Fire of Hell.”
(Reported by Muslim, p. 454).
These two points are sufficient to
guarantee that the Muslim’s heart will burn with the concern to ensure that he
does not miss fajr. The first motivates him to strive to earn the reward for
fajr, and the second acts as a warning that will deter him from committing the
sin of negligence.
The practical aspect of dealing
with this problem includes a number of steps which the Muslim can take in
order to get used to performing salaat al-fajr regularly in congregation.
These steps include:
Sleeping early. According to a
saheeh hadeeth, the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to dislike sleeping before ‘isha’
and talking afterwards. The Muslim should not sleep before salaat
al-’isha’ because it is obvious that most of those who sleep before it
will spend the rest of the night feeling so tired and heavy that it will
be as if they are ill.
Also, the Muslim should not
talk after ‘isha’, and the scholars have explained the reason why doing so
is disliked: it is because doing so leads to people staying up late, which
in turns leads to the fear that they will sleep and miss qiyaam
al-layl, or the correct or preferred time for fajr prayer.
The kind of talk that is
disliked after ‘isha’, as the commentators explain, is that in which there
is no clear benefit, but if there is some benefit – such as studying and
gaining knowledge, learning stories of righteous people, speaking to a
guest, spending time with one’s wife and family, speaking to travellers
and taking care of them and their luggage, or any other permissible reason
– then there is nothing wrong with it. This has no connection with the
reasons for which many people stay up late nowadays, to do wrong and
commit sin! So the Muslim should sleep early, so that he can wake up
refreshed to pray fajr and avoid the kind of late nights that make him too
tired to get up and pray fajr in congregation.
It is a fact that people
differ with regard to their need for sleep, so it is not possible to
dictate a set number of hours that people should sleep, but each person
should stick to the time that will give him enough sleep to wake up
refreshed for salaat al-fajr. If a person knows from experience that
sleeping after 11 p.m., for example, will mean that he cannot get up for
fajr, then from an Islamic point of view he should not sleep any later
than that… and so on.
Making sure that one is clean
(taahir) and reciting adhkaar (prayers) before sleeping.
This helps a person to get up for fajr.
Having a sincere intention and
being determined, when going to sleep, that one will get up for fajr. But
a person who goes to sleep hoping that the alarm will not go off, and that
no one will come and wake him up, will not – with such a corrupt intention
– be able to get up to pray fajr whilst he still has this bad
intention.
Remembering Allaah as soon as
one wakes up. Some people may initially wake up, then they go back to
sleep again. But if a person remembers Allaah straight after waking up,
this will loosen one of the knots of Shaytaan, and will motivate him to
get up. When he performs wudoo’, his determination becomes stronger, and
Shaytaan is driven further away, and when he prays, his shaytaan is
defeated, his balance (of good deeds) becomes heavier, and he will feel
happy and energetic.
Seeking help from one’s family
and friends to pray fajr, and encouraging one another in this regard. This
is essential, and is undoubtedly included in the words of Allaah
(interpretation of the meanings):
“… Help you one another in
al-birr and al-taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety)…” [al-Maa’idah
5:2]
“By al-‘asr (time). Verily!
Man is in loss, except those who believe and do righteous good deeds, and
recommend one another to the truth and recommend one another to patience.”
[al-‘Asr 103:1-3]
The Muslim should encourage
his wife, for example by waking her up to pray fajr, and she should
encourage him, no matter how tired and exhausted he may be. Children
should also seek their father’s help to wake up, so he can wake them when
it is time for the prayer. No father should say “They have exams, they are
tired, let them sleep, poor kids.” It is a mistake to think that be doing
this one is being a kind and merciful parent; true parental mercy means
that the father wakes them up to worship Allaah. “And enjoin al-salaah
(the prayer) on your family, and be patient in offering them (the
prayers)…” [Ta-Ha 20:132 – interpretation of the meaning].
Just as family members should
help and encourage one another to pray fajr, so brothers in Islam can also
help one another. For example, university students living in the same
residence or neighbours in the same neighbourhood can help one another by
knocking on a neighbour’s door to wake him for prayer and helping him to
worship Allaah.
Praying to Allaah to help him
to wake up to pray fajr in congregation. Du’aa’ is one of the greatest
sources of strength and success in all things.
Using various means of being
woken up, such as alarm clocks. These should be put in the most
appropriate place. Some people put the alarm clock next to their head, and
when it rings, they turn if off at once and go straight back to sleep.
Such a person should put the clock a little further away, so that he can
feel that it is really waking him up.
One can also arrange to
receive alarm calls from the telephone company, and no Muslim should think
that it is too much to pay for this service if he needs it, because this
is spending in the way of Allaah, and waking up to obey the command of
Allaah cannot be measured in terms of worldly wealth.
Throwing water in the face of
the person who is sleeping. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) praised the man who gets up at night to pray, and wakes his wife, and
when she refuses to get up, he throws water in her face; and he praised
the woman who gets up at night to pray, and wakes her husband, and when he
refuses to get up, she throws water in his face. (Reported by Imaam Ahmad
in al-Musnad, 2/250; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 3494).
Throwing water in a person’s
face is one of the means of waking a person for prayer that is prescribed
by sharee’ah. In fact it is quite refreshing and energizing. Some people
may become enraged when woken in this manner, and they may shout and swear
and issue threats, so the person who is seeking to wake another should
employ wisdom and patience, and remember that the pens are lifted from the
record of one who is sleeping (i.e., his deeds are not being recorded
while he is asleep) – so he should put up with any bad treatment, and not
let this put him off trying to wake people up for prayer.
Not sleeping alone. The
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) forbade any man to sleep alone. (Reported by Imaam Ahmad in
al-Musnad, 2/91; al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, no. 60). Perhaps
the wisdom behind this prohibition is that a person could sleep too long
if there is no-one to wake him up for prayer.
Not sleeping in remote places
where it would not occur to anyone that someone could be sleeping there,
such as a person sleeping on the roof of a house without telling his
family where he is, or sleeping in a remote part of the house or student
residence, so that no-one will know to wake him for prayer, but everyone
will think that he is in the mosque when in fact he is fast asleep. Anyone
who needs to sleep in a remote place should tell the people around him
where he will be so that they can come and wake him.
Being lively and active upon
waking. One should get up straightaway, and not wake up in stages, as some
people do. A person could be woken up several times, and each time he gets
up, but when his friend leaves, he goes back to bed. Waking up in stages
usually ends in failure, and the only way to prevent falling asleep again
is to get up straight away.
Not setting the alarm too
early. If a person knows that there is still a long time to go until the
time of the prayer, he may think, “I still have time, let me sleep a
little more…” Everyone should know how to handle himself and avoid this
situation.
Lighting a lamp when waking up
– or, in our modern times, switching on the light. This has the effect of
dispelling sleepiness.
Not staying up late, even to
pray qiyaam al-layl. Some people may stay up late to pray qiyaam
al-layl, then fall asleep a few minutes before fajr and be unable to
wake up for the prayer. This happens a lot in Ramadaan – people stay up
late and sleep a little while before fajr, so they miss the prayer. No
doubt this is a grave error, because fard (obligatory) prayer should take
precedence over naafil (supererogatory) prayer. So what about those who
stay up late not to pray but to commit sin, or at best to do permissible
things? The Shaytaan may make the idea of staying up late to discuss
important matters attractive to some daa’iyahs (Islamic workers), then
they sleep late and miss the prayer, thus losing much more than they
gained.
Not eating too much before
going to sleep. Eating too much makes one sleep deeply. The one who eats a
lot gets very tired, and sleeps a lot, thus losing a lot. So one should
try to eat lightly in the evening.
Warning about the
misinterpretation of the sunnah to lie down after praying the sunnah of
fajr. Some people may have heard the hadeeth in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: “When any one of you has prayed, let him lie down on his right
side.” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 420; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 642).
It was also reported that when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) had prayed the sunnah of fajr, he would lie down, then Bilaal would
call him to prayer, and he would stand up to pray. People may have heard
these ahaadeeth, and be keen to follow this proven sunnah, but they do not
understand how to do it properly. So a person may pray the sunnah of fajr,
then lie down on his right side, and fall fast asleep until the sun rises.
This is because of a lack of proper understanding. The lying down is not
for the purpose of sleeping, and Bilaal used to come and tell the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) when it was time to pray. Moreover, as was reported by Imaam Ahmad
and Ibn Hibbaan in a saheeh hadeeth, if the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) wanted to rest before fajr, he would put his head on his right palm,
propped up on his elbow. (Reported by Ahmad in al-Musnad, 5/298;
Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 4752). This kind of resting prevents one from
falling fast asleep, because in this case one’s head is propped up on
one’s palm and elbow, and will drop if one dozes off, thus waking one up
again. In addition to this, Bilaal was entrusted with the responsibility
of waking the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) for the fajr prayer.
Praying qiyaam al-layl late in
the night, just before fajr, so that when one finishes witr, the call for
fajr prayer is given, making the worship continuous. The night prayer
should be offered during the last third of the night – which is the
preferred time – and immediately followed by the fajr prayer, whilst one
is feeling awake and energetic.
Following the example of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) in lying down to sleep. So a person should lie on his right
side, placing his right cheek on his right hand. This position makes it
easy to wake up. The best guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him), and this is better than sleeping in any other position which may
make it difficult to wake up.
Helping oneself by taking a
nap during the day, because this will help a person by making him need
less sleep at night.
Not sleeping after ‘asr or
maghrib, because this will make a person sleep late, and whoever sleeps
late will find it difficult to wake up.
Finally, sincere devotion to
Allaah is the best thing to motivate a person to get up for prayer,
because Allaah is the One Who is controlling all means of help. If a
person has that true sincerity and his heart is burning with devotion to
Allaah, then Allaah will help him to get up to pray fajr in congregation,
even if he goes to sleep only a few moments before
fajr.
This sincerity and devotion may
cause some very enthusiastic people to find unusual ways to help themselves to
wake up to pray, which is a sign of their eagerness and keenness. One of them
may set a number of alarm clocks to wake him up, setting each one a few
minutes later than the other, so that if he turns the first one off, the next
one will wake him a few moments later, and so on. Another may tie a string to
his wrist, with the other end dangling from his window, so that when one of
his friends passes by on his way to the mosque, he can pull on the string and
wake him for fajr prayer.
See what can be achieved with
sincerity and determination, may Allaah guide you! But the bitter truth is
that weakness of faith and lack of sincerity are widespread among people
nowadays, as we can see from the small numbers of people to be found praying
in the mosques at fajr, despite the fact that there are so many people living
around the mosques in many neighbourhoods.
But no doubt there are people who
sleep so heavily that it is almost like an illness, and they may be excused,
because the matter is beyond their control. People in this situation should
turn to Allaah for help, and do everything that they possibly can, and visit
the doctor, to try to find a cure.
Finally, a word about a well known
phenomenon: some people claim that there is a hadeeth which says that the
person who wants to get up for fajr should recite the last part of Soorat
al-Kahf before sleeping, and have the intention in his heart to get up at a
certain hour, and this will make him get up at that time. They claim that this
is a tried and tested method. Our response is that there is no such saheeh
hadeeth, and this carries no weight whatsoever. The best guidance is the
guidance of Muhammad (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him).
by Shaykh
Munajjid
Yearning for Allah and His meeting is like the gentle breeze
blowing upon the heart, extinguishing the blaze of the Dunya. Whosoever caused
his heart to settle with his Lord shall be in a state, calm and tranquil, and
whosoever sent it amongst the people shall be disturbed and excessively
perturbed.
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