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  Choose how to start ur day
Posted by: amma - 08-20-2003, 08:09 PM - Forum: General - Replies (1)


Abdul is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good

mood and always has something positive to say.

When someone would ask him how he was doing, would reply, "Alhumdulillah If I

were any better, I would be twins!"

He was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, Abdul was there telling the

employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to

Abdul and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive

person all of the time. How do you do it?"

Abdul replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you

have

two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can

choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood.

Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I

can choose to accept it as a test from my beloved Allah and to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept

their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I

choose the positive side of life. Allah is the all-gracious all-beneficial, Allah gives you sorrow, worry, pain but he also gives you love, joy and happiness. Allah is my creator the owner of soul whatever He gives is a blessing.

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is,"

Abdul said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all

the junk, every situation is a choice.

You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people

affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The

bottom line: It's your choice how you react to your life."

I reflected on what Abdul said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower

Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Abdul was involved in a serious

accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower. After

18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Abdul was

released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Abdul about six months after the accident. When I asked him how

he was, he replied. "Alhamdulillah If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my

scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone

through his mind as the accident took place.

The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my

soon to be born daughter, Alhamdulilla " Abdul replied. "Then, as I lay on the

ground, I remembered that This is a test from Almighty Allah, I had two choices: I could choose to accept it

or I could choose to be miserable and resentful. I chose to accept."

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.

Abdul continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and

I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got

really scared. In their eyes, I read, "he's a dead man. I knew I

needed to take action."

"What did you do?" I asked.

"Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said

Abdul. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. "Yes, I

replied." The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for

my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, "Gravity."

Over their laughter, I told them, "Allah has ownership of my life. Operate

on me as if I am alive, then if my Allah so wishes he will grant me life. I then prayed to Allah and said whatever He chooses I will accept it as the best choice for He is all-knowing"

Abdul lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors and the blessing of Almighty Allah but maybe also because

of his amazing attitude and love for Allah. I learned from him that every day we have

the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry

about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

Accept everything whether good or bad as a blessing from Almighty Allah, begin to think like this then Allah will be with you in every sense and shower you with strength.

If you feel a need to complain then talk to Allah. Allah loves a servant who seeks His help in everything.

Do you really think another person, whether that be a doctor, counsellor or friend can help?

Yes they can but only if Allah so wishes for you to feel better He will give you peace of mind via this route.

We must not forget that whenever we have been helped out of a situation, ultimately the cure came from Allah.

Begin everything with Allah and finish everything with Allah. Take this with you in your life and Allah will be by your side, with you in every step and part of your every breath.

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  The Duâ' of Light
Posted by: amma - 08-20-2003, 07:55 PM - Forum: Islam - No Replies


The Duâ' of Light

Translated by Yahya Adel Ibrahîm

Ibn ‘Abbâs reports that he once stayed the night as a guest of Maymûna, who was his aunt, and the Prophet, may Allâh bless him and grant him peace. They slept on their blanket lengthways, and he slept at the end, crossways. After they had all slept for a while, the Prophet rose in the middle of the night to pray the tahajjud prayer, and Ibn ‘Abbas joined him.

They both did wudû’, and he prayed eleven rak'ats with the Prophet. Then they both went back to sleep again until dawn. Bilâl called the adhân and the Prophet did another two short rak’ats, before going into the mosque to lead the Dawn Prayer.

Ibn ‘Abbâs said that one of the du’âs that the Prophet made during this night was: “O Allâh, place light in my heart, light in my tongue, light in my hearing, light in my sight, light behind me, light in front of me, light on my right, light on my left, light above me and light below me; place light in my sinew, in my flesh, in my blood, in my hair and in my skin; place light in my soul and make light abundant for me; make me light and grant me light.”

( وَعَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ { أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم صَلَّى فَجَعَلَ يَقُولُ فِي صَلَاتِهِ أَوْ فِي سُجُودِهِ : اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ فِي قَلْبِي نُورًا , وَفِي سَمْعِي نُورًا , وَفِي بَصَرِي نُورًا , وَعَنْ يَمِينِي نُورًا , وَعَنْ شِمَالِي نُورًا , وَأَمَامِي نُورًا , وَخَلْفِي نُورًا , وَفَوْقِي نُورًا , وَتَحْتِي نُورًا , وَاجْعَلْ لِي نُورًا أَوْ قَالَ : وَاجْعَلْنِي نُورًا } . مُخْتَصَرٌ مِنْ مُسْلِمٍ )

This hadith was transmitted by Muslim and others.

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  Why should I study?
Posted by: amma - 08-20-2003, 07:50 PM - Forum: General - Replies (2)


In the name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Merciful

Why should I study?

By Muhammad Alshareef

Many years ago in Uzbekistan, a baby boy was born blind. His Mother, the strong Mu’minah that she was, did not lose sight of He who had the Power to cure him. She prayed and prayed for her sons sight. And within a few years the boy regained his eyes.

She was widowed, the boy an orphan. She traveled with him to Makkah so that he could receive an Islamic Education. She arranged that he attend the circles of the scholars, and in those circles, he began excelling in the science of Hadith. He traveled to distant villages in search of the most authentic sayings of Rasul Allah (pbuh). He would pray two raka’at before accepting a hadith. His mother named him: Muhammad ibn Isma’il. And many of us know him today by the book he compiled, the book that stands after the Quran in authenticity: Saheeh Al-Imam Al-Bukhari!

In another land, in another time, chilly Baghdad winds would wake up another boy. Much before Fajr, his mother would bundle him in warm shawls and escort him through the darkness, making sure he reached the Masjid safely. After Fajr, she would wait for him as he read Hadith to the biggest scholars of the land. Then, long after the sun had come up, she would meet him outside and together they would walk home. She was a strong mother indeed, for her son grew up to become an Imam of the Muslim Ummah, an Imam by the name of Ahmad ibn Hanbal.

- (Manaaqib Ahmad, by Ibn Al-Jowzee)

Imam Suyuti authored his first book, Tafseer Bismillaah Ar-Rahman Ar-Raheeem, when he was in grade 2!

Dear brothers and sisters, why should we try to follow in the footsteps of these many other stars of Islam? The information that we shall in sha’ Allah learn is not like anything else. This knowledge is the law of Allah and the inheritance of the Prophets. It is our duty to preserve and protect the estate of Rasul Allah (pbuh), something that cannot happen without there being serious and sincere brothers and sisters spending long days and nights reading, reflecting, and teaching others.

Every Islamic revival that takes place is built on something. Some revivals are built on emotions, others on politics. Do you know which shall remain firm when the wind of woe blows? It shall be the one that was built on sound knowledge of the words of Allah and the Sunnah of Rasul Allah.

A sincere man once stood on the beach shore watching, to his dismay, the waves thrashing a fish up and down, left and right. The man concluded that he must save the fish. He thrashed into the water and grabbed the fish by the tail. He then thrashed back to shore and threw the fish on the beach, satisfied that he had saved it from the water!

Dear brothers and sisters, when we work for the sake of Allah without knowledge of what the path of Allah is, many times we do as that young man did.

We are living in an age of information. We have lights in every corner of the house when only yesterday our ancestors read by the light of the moon. We have publishing houses when only yesterday our ancestors wrote the books they owned with their own hands. We have CD’s to search the Hadith archives when our scholars spent days upon days searching for proof and evidence in their libraries. Shouldn’t the knowledge increase with all this ease? It should. But it has not.

Dear brothers and sisters, we know that when a prize is great, the responsibility, and the work required for that prize shall also be great. And because of this, we see the enormous reward promised to those scholars and students of Islam due to the heavy work required.

The Prophet (pbuh) said, “Whoever seeks out a path to acquire knowledge (of the deen), Allah makes easy a path for them to Jannah!” – Muslim

Shaykh Abdur-Rahman As-Sa’dee said, “Thus any path a person takes, whether physical or otherwise, something that will help them in acquiring knowledge of the Deen, they enter in the words of the Prophet, “Whoever seeks out a path to acquire knowledge (of the deen), Allah makes easy a path for them to Jannah.”

Rasul Allah told us that when a person seeks out a path to learn about Islam, this is a sign that Allah loves them and that He wants good for them in this life and the next.

From Mu’aawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, the Prophet (pbuh) said, “Whoever Allah wishes good for, he grants them Fiqh (understading) of the Deen.”

And Rasul Allah told us that the sincere scholars have a place with Allah that no one else can reach, and that they are the inheritors of the Prophet’s estate in passing it on to the world.

Rasul Allah said, “The virtue of the scholar to a worshipper (Aabid) is similar to the virtue of the moon when it is full to the rest of the stars. And verily the scholars are the inheritors of the Prophets. Verily the Prophets did not leave behind dirhams and deenars, but rather they left behind knowledge. Thus whoever takes it, takes it as a bountiful share.” – Authentic, narrated by Abu Dawood, tirmidhi, and Ibn Majah.

The position of the people of Islamic knowledge reached such a level that Allah (Jalla Thanaa’uhu wa taqaddasat Asmaa’uhu) and the Angels pray for them!

From Abu Umaamah: Rasul Allah said, “Verily Allah and His angels, even the ant in its hole and the fish in the sea, verily (they all) pray for he who teaches people good.” – authentic, narrated by Tabraanee.

Rasul Allah prayed for them also. He said, as narrated by Zayd ibn Thabit, “May Allah grant light (and happiness and beauty in the face) of someone who hears a hadith from us and memorizes it until he passes it on to others!” – authentic, narrated by Tirmidhi.

One of the hadith scholars that Imam Bukhari took from, Hisham ibn Ammar narrates a story that happened to him when he was 8 years old. He says, “My father sold a house of his for 20 Deenaars so that I could go for Hajj (and study Islam). When I arrived in Madinah, I went to the circle of Imam Maalik. He was sitting amongst his students like a king. People would ask him questions and he would answer. When I entered the crowd and my turn came up I said, ‘Haddithnee (recite to me)!’ He said, ‘Rather you read.’ I said, ‘No, you haddithnee!’ Imam Maalik said, ‘No you read!’ When I talked back and argued, he got angry and said to another student, go with this boy outside and smack him 15 times!’ That student took me outside and smacked me 15 times with a stick and then brought me back to Imam Maalik. I said, ‘you have Dhulm (wronged) me! My father sold his house so that I could come to you and be honored by listening to your teaching and seek knowledge from you. And you smacked me 15 times without any crime on my part, I shall not forgive you!’ Imam Maalik then said, ‘What is the expiation for this Dhulm (wronging)?’ I said, ‘You have to recite 15 hadiths to me, that is the expiation.’ So Imam Maalik began reciting the hadith to me until he completed 15. When he ended I told him, ‘beat me more and read more hadith to me.” Imam Maalik laughed and said, ‘be off.’ – From the book Ma’rifat Al-Qurraa’ al-Kibaar by Imam Adh-Dhahabi.

From the beginning of time, there has been a race between the doers of good and the doers of evil. Adam and Iblees, Musa and Fir’own, Muhammad and Abu Jahl. Today that race has not ended. Think: How hard are the doers of evil working and how hard are we?

Umar once said, “I seek Allah’s protection from Jalad (the strength and enthusiasm) of the sinner, and the laziness of the God-fearer.” Subhaan Allah, it is as if he is contemplating the time that we are now living in.

How can one of us be too lazy to pray 2 raka’at at night, when the people of the Dunya spend the entire night watching movies, some of which they have to read the translation on the bottom of the screen? How can we be too lazy to read for 2 hours, when the people of the Dunya – those who just want more money to continue their sin – spend days upon days of all-nighters studying for their exams? Why do we cringe at paying 6 dollars for an Islamic book, when the people of the Dunya spend hundreds, rather thousands in pursuit of their sin?

What’s wrong? What has happened to us?

Listen to those who came before us. Some Fuqahaa’ said, “For years I desired to eat Hareesah (a sweet dish) and I wasn’t able to because it was only sold during class time.”

Imam Su’bah said, “If I ever saw someone running in the streets of the village I would only think one of two things: He was either crazy or a student of Hadith!”

And Ibn Al-Jowzee said, “I haven’t seen a flaw more sad in the community than those who stop working even though they have the ability to continue.”

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  Scope of Men’s Qawamah (guardianship) over Women
Posted by: amma - 08-20-2003, 07:44 PM - Forum: Woman and family - No Replies


Dear scholars, may Allah reward you generously for this distinguished and wonderful service you offer to tens of millions of Muslims around the world. I have a very important question to ask. Could you please furnish me with a detailed answer concerning the issue of Qawamah that is mentioned in Surat An-Nisaa’, verse 34? It will be very much appreciated if you send me a detailed answer with the opinions of both scholars and exegetes of the Qur’an.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, thank you very much for having confidence in us, and we hope our efforts, which are purely for Allah’s Sake, meet your expectations.

As regard your question, we’d like to cite for you the following:

"Interpreting the word qawwamuna in the above verse is just such an ethical analysis, with human implications too tremendous to be left to amateurs. We will therefore turn to what some of the principal Imams of Qur'anic exegesis have said about it. One of the earliest tafsirs in print is by Imam Ibn Jarir At-Tabari (d. 310/923), who says:

Allah Almighty means by the verse 34 of the mentioned Sura that “men are caretakers of women” in the sense that they are in charge of their womenfolk, in disciplining and guidance, respecting the rights that they [women] owe Allah and to them.

The phrase “because of that by which Allah has favored one over another” means because of that through which Allah has favored men over their wives, since men must give them their marriage payment Mahr and spend of their wealth to support them, and save them their pains and effort: that is the favoring of Allah Most Blessed and Exalted of men over women, and is why they have become caretakers of them who have authority over them regarding those of their affairs that Allah has given them charge of ... (Jami` Al-bayan an tawil ay Al-Qur'an. 30 vols. Cairo n.d. Reprint (30 vols. in 15). Beirut: Dar al-Fikr, 1405/1984, 5.57).

Al-Tabari mentions, with a chain of transmission that ends with Hasan al-Basri (d. 110/728) that a man slapped his wife, and she went to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, who wanted to let her take retaliation or Qisas against her husband [by striking him back in reprisal], but Allah revealed that “Men are caretakers (qawwamuna) of women, because of that through which Allah has favored one over another, and because of what they spend of their property…”, hence the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, summoned the man, recited the verse to him and said, "I wanted one thing, but Allah wanted another."

In fact, although the scholar of Hadith Imam Al-Baghawi (d. 510/1117) also mentions this event in his M`aalim At-Tanzeel, neither he nor At-Tabari can produce an acceptable chain of its transmission and trace it back to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, so for religious purposes, it is not well-documented enough to rely on for the verses interpretation, and At-Tabari's first interpretation is sounder.

But whatever the original occasion of revelation or Sabab An-Nuzulof the verse, the intended meaning is not confined to that alone. As the Yemeni Shari`ah scholar and judge Abdullah Mahfuz Baalawi says, "The interpretive principle established by the scholarly consensus or Ijmaa`of specialists in methodological bases or Usul of Sacred Law is that the point of primary texts (of the Qur'an and Sunnah) lies in the generality of their lexical significance, not the specificity of their historical context. (Al-Sunnah wa Al-bid'ah. Kuwait: Matabi al-Wazzan, 1404/1984, 33).

In light of this important principle, we will now examine and deduce the significance of this verse and its placement in the Qur'an (for the order is also divinely revealed), coming as it does after the provisions for Islamic estate division or Irth in surat An-Nisaa. The Arabic grammarian and exegete Abu Hayyan An-Nahwi (d. 754/1353) says of the verse "Men are caretakers of women":

Because Allah Almighty has mentioned [in preceding verses] the matter of men and women acquiring their appointed share and their estate-division inheritance, He [here] apprises them that men are in charge of the interests of women. The word “caretakers” (qawwamuna) is an intensive form [indicating something done much]. The phrase “because Allah has favored one over another” means because of Allah's favoring some men over others, this man having been given more sustenance than that man, this man being better off than that one", while the phrase “…and because they spend of their property” means "upon women". The word ma [lit. what, translated above in the citation of al-Tabari as "because of that through which Allah has favored," and secondly, "because of what they spend"] is [rather] ma masdariyya or "the indefinite pronoun signifying a verbal noun" in both instances. [Thus meaning "because of Allah's favoring the one," and "because of their spending of their property,"] (Tafsir al-nahr al-madd min al-Bahr al-muhit. 2 vols. in 3. Beirut: Dar al-Janan and Mu'assasa al-Kutub al-Thaqafiyya, 1407/1987, 1.45758).

Imam Fakhr Ad-Deen Ar-Razi is another exegete who considers the relation of the verse "Men are caretakers of women" to other verses, bearing in mind that Allah Almighty has said [two verses previously], ". . . and not to long for that with which Allah has preferred some of you above others" (Qur'an 4:32), a verse that we said was revealed because some women made remarks about Allah's favoring men over them in estate division inheritance [by certain male heirs receiving twice the share of their female counterparts].

So Allah mentions in this verse that He only favored men over women in estate division because men are the caretakers of women. Although both spouses enjoy the usufruct of each other, Allah has ordered men to pay women their marriage portion, and to daily provide them with their support, so that the increase on one side is met with an increase on the other--and so it is as though there is no favoring at all. This clarifies the verses arrangement and order (Tafsir al-Fakhr al-Razi. 32 vols. Beirut 1401/1981. Reprint (32 vols. in 16). Beirut: Dar al-Fikr, 1405/1985, 10.90).

Finally, the more Fiqh-oriented exegesis of Al-Kaya al-Harrasi notes that while Allah has mentioned men's support of women in verses such as the one in surat At-Tahrim "Let him who possesses plenty spend of his plenty; and let him whose provision is straitened spend of what Allah has given him" (At-Tahreem:7), in this verse “Men are caretakers (qawwamuna) of women, He mentions the necessary cause or `illa for this support, so scholars have naturally inferred from the two verses that whenever a husband is unable to support his wife, he is no longer her caretaker: she is not obliged to remain at home [should he request it] in any school of jurisprudence, and according to the Shafi`ie school of thought, she is entitled to have the marriage annulled. He is no longer a caretaker or entitled to oblige her to remain at home because he has vitiated the objective of protecting her by marriage, for the aim of marriage is her security (Ahkam al-Qur'an. 4 vols. Cairo n.d. Reprint (4 vols. in 2). Beirut: Dar al-Kutub al-Ilmiyya, 1405/1985, 2.449).

The exegetes clarify how the meaning of qawwamuna or "caretakers" involves legal rights and obligations on the part of both men and women. It entails that women have the right to security, protection, and to be free from the thought of having to support themselves. Even if a woman has millions, she is entitled to be completely supported by her husband and can have her marriage annulled if he is unable to. And it entails that a man has charge of his wife's interests, supervision, and discipline.”

The above article is excerpted, with slight modifications, from http://dspace.dial.pipex.com/masud/ISLAM/nuh/nuh.htm

Still, if you have any further comments, please don’t hesitate to write back.

May Allah guide you to the straight path and direct you to that which pleases Him, Amen.

Allah Almighty knows best.

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  Go Back and Pray, For You Have Not Prayed!
Posted by: amma - 08-20-2003, 07:11 PM - Forum: General - Replies (1)


In the name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Merciful

During the night, Abu Lu’lu’ Al Majoosi hid in the shadows in preparation for the Fajr Salah where he would execute his satanic mission: to Murder the Ameer of the Believers: Umar ibn Al-Khattab - Radi Allahu Anhu. Umar would lead the Fajr with a long surah, giving time for the community to join the congregation. As he led that Salah, Abu Lu’lu advanced from a dim pillar, a poisoned dagger hidden in his sleeve. He jumped in front of Umar Radi Allahu Anhu and tore open his stomach with the dagger. Abu Lu’lu’ then attempted an escape through the congregation, slashing left and right, murdering in his path many others. One Companion threw a cloth over and – realizing that he was caught – Abu Lu’lu’ killed himself. Umar completed the Fajr Salah and passed away later in his bed Radi Allahu Anhu.

The importance of the prayer in Islam cannot be understated. It is the first pillar of Islam that the Prophet (peace be upon him) mentioned after mentioning the testimony of faith, by which one becomes a Muslim. It was made obligatory upon all the prophets and for all peoples. Allah declared its obligatory status under majestic circumstances. For example, when Allah spoke directly to Moses, He said,

"And I have chosen you, so listen to that which is inspired to you. Verily, I am Allah! There is none worthy of worship but I, so worship Me and offer prayer perfectly for My remembrance." [Taha 13-14]

Similarly, the prayers were made obligatory upon the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) during his ascension to heaven. Furthermore, when Allah praises the believers, such as in the beginning of surah al-Muminoon, one of the first descriptions He states is their adherence to the prayers. [successful are the believers, those that offer their Salah with all earnestness and full obedience] - Al Mu’minoon 23/1-2

The importance of prayer is demonstrated in many of the Prophet’s statements. For example, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said,

"The first matter that the slave will be brought to account for on the Day of Judgment is the prayer. If it is sound, then the rest of his deeds will be sound. And if it is bad, then the rest of his deeds will be bad." [Recorded by al-Tabarani]

In reality, when the prayer is performed properly – with true remembrance of Allah and turning to Him for forgiveness – it will have a lasting effect on the person. After he finishes the prayer, his heart will be filled with the remembrance of Allah. He will be fearful as well as hopeful of Allah. After that experience, he will not want to move from that lofty position to one wherein he disobeys Allah. Allah mentioned this aspect of the prayer,

"Verily, the prayer keeps one from the great sins and evil deeds" (al-Ankaboot 45).

However amongst our community of Musalleen (those who perform Salah) we find some hazy actions that need to be brought back into focus.

· Some do not concentrate on what they are saying.

· Some speed when they pray

· Some wander with their gaze during Salah,

· The number of raka’aat performed is constantly forgotten.

· For some, the Dunya hugs their hearts during Salah and clouds their minds.

· Sometimes, before the Imam says Allahu Akbar, some in the congregation are already in the next prostration.

Compare this to those that came before us: People used to think that ar-Rabee' bin Khaitham, due to his constant lowering of his gaze and keeping his head low (in Salah), was blind. He used to live behind the house of Abdullaah ibn Mas'ood (RA) for twenty years and when his servant girl used to see him she would say: Your blind friend is coming, and Abdullaah used to laugh at her speech.

In Bukhari and Muslim, from Abu Hurayrah - Radi Allahu Anhu, a man entered the Masjid and the Messenger of Allah - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - was sitting. The man prayed (2 raka’) and then came to the Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - and said salam. The Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - replied the salam and then said, “Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” So the man went back, prayed (2 raka’) like he did the first time and then came back and repeated the salam. The Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - replied the salam and then said, “Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” So the man went back, prayed (2 raka’) like he did the first time and then came back and repeated the salam. The Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - replied the salam and then said, “Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” He said it three times until – on the third time the man said, “By He who sent you with the truth O Messenger of Allah, I do not know any better than this. Teach me.” The Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - then said, “If you stand up for Salah say ‘Allahu Akbar.’ Then read what comes easy for you from the Quran. Then bow until you are comfortable in your ruku’. Then stand up until you are standing up straight. Then prostrate until you are comfortable in your Sujood. Then sit until you are comfortable in your Juloos. Then prostrate until you are comfortable in your Sujood. And do this in your entire Salah.”

Let’s go back and do our Salah again. This is our topic for today.

· Why do we come to the Masjid, why do we perform Salah? We do it in application of the command of our Creater Subhaanahu wa Ta’aala. Why should we then lose the blessing and reward because of a wandering heart and an itchy hand? Concentration is the soul of our Salah. Concentration is the fruit of our Eeman. Yet regardless of this understanding, people still leave their Salah and only a small portion of it is written for them because of their imperfection of it.

The Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “Verily, a man will leave from (his Salah) and only a tenth of his Salah is written for him, a ninth, an eighth, a seventh, a sixth, a fifth, a forth, a third, half.” – Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi.

Uthman ibn Abi Dahshah said, “I have never prayed a Salah that I have not asked Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta’aala to forgive for my shortcomings in that Salah.”

· Someone who short changes his Salah is a thief. The Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “The evilest thief is he who steals from his Salah.” They asked, “O Messenger of Allah, how does he steal from his Salah?” He - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “He does not perfect it’s ruku’ and Sujood.” – authentic

· Because of the speed some apply to their Salah, it is as if they are pecking up and down like a bird. Narrated Ahmad, Abu Dawood and others, the Prophet - Sal Allaahu alayhi wa Sallam - forbade that someone should peck (in Salah) like a crow…”

Umar - Radi Allahu Anhu - once stood on the pulpit and addressed the community with a loud powerful voice, “A man may grow old in Islam and never have completed to Allah a single Salah!” They said, “How is this?” He said, “He does not perfect his concentration, nor his humbleness, nor his focus on Allah - Azza wa Jall.”

Once, Ma’roof Al-Karkhee – Rahimahu AllahimahUllah – stood amongst some of his students and one said to the other, “Please lead the Isha Salah.” The first student accepted but said, “I shall lead the Isha’ Salah on condition that you lead the Fajr Salah and not me.” Ma’roof Al-Karkhe was shocked at what he said and commented, “By Allah, if you think that you’ll be alive at Fajr then – by Allah – you have not yet perfected your Salah.”

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  New Style
Posted by: Suhail - 08-20-2003, 10:57 AM - Forum: General - Replies (4)


a.s.w.k

ne one like the new style of the forum?

personallly i dont but we have no choice php's servers r down ... well thats what i heard ... lets have a vote if we want it back like it was .... this is slower as well

so all vote now .........

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  Deviate beliefs of Harun Yahya
Posted by: Amatullah - 08-20-2003, 07:55 AM - Forum: Islam - No Replies


Assalamu alaykum

Please read the article @ the following link:

http://www.jewstoislam.com/Harun%20yahya%2...uper%20sufi.htm

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  Deviance of Harun Yahya
Posted by: Amatullah - 08-20-2003, 02:45 AM - Forum: Islam - No Replies


Please read the article @ this link:

http://www.jewstoislam.com/Harun%20yahya%2...uper%20sufi.htm

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  السيدة الأولى فى حياتى
Posted by: Muslimah - 08-17-2003, 11:34 AM - Forum: منتدى المقالات باللغة العربية - No Replies


السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

أعجبتني القصة التالية كثيراً ... حتى أنني لم أستطع أن أمنع دموعي ..

بعد 21 سنة من زواجي، وجدت بريقاً جديداً من الحب. قبل فترة بدأت أخرج مع امرأة غير زوجتي، وكانت فكرة زوجتي حيث بادرتني بقولها: "أعلم جيداً كم تحبها"... المرأة التي أرادت زوجتي ان أخرج معها وأقضي وقتاً معها كانت أمي التي ترملت منذ 19 سنة، ولكن مشاغل العمل وحياتي اليومية 3 أطفال ومسؤوليات جعلتني لا أزورها إلا نادراً.

في يوم اتصلت بها ودعوتها إلى العشاء سألتني: "هل أنت بخير ؟ " لأنها غير معتادة على مكالمات متأخرة نوعاً ما وتقلق. فقلت لها:

"نعم أنا ممتاز ولكني أريد أن أقضي وقت معك يا أمي ". قالت: "نحن فقط ؟! " فكرت قليلاً ثم قالت: "أحب ذلك كثيراً".

في يوم الخميس وبعد العمل ، مررت عليها وأخذتها، كنت مضطرب قليلاً، وعندما وصلت وجدتها هي أيضاً قلقة. كانت تنتظر عند الباب مرتدية ملابس جميلة ويبدو أنه آخر فستنان قد اشتراه أبي قبل وفاته. ابتسمت أمي كملاك وقالت: " قلت للجميع أنني سأخرج اليوم مع إبني، والجميع فرح، ولا يستطيعون انتظار الأخبار التي سأقصها عليهم بعد عودتي"

ذهبنا إلى مطعم غير عادي ولكنه جميل وهادئ تمسكت أمي بذراعي وكأنها السيدة الأولى، بعد أن جلسنا بدأت أقرأ قائمة الطعام حيث أنها لا تستطيع قراءة إلا الأحرف الكبيرة. وبينما كنت أقرأ كانت تنظر إلي بابتسامة عريضة على شفتاها المجعدتان وقاطعتني قائلة: "كنت أنا من أقرأ لك وأنت صغير".

أجبتها: "حان الآن موعد تسديد شيء من ديني بهذا الشيء .. ارتاحي أنت". يا أماه

تحدثنا كثيراً أثناء العشاء لم يكن هناك أي شيء غير عادي، ولكن قصص قديمة على قصص جديدة لدرجة أننا نسينا الوقت إلى ما بعد منتصف الليل وعندما وصلنا إلى باب بيتها قالت: "أوافق أن نخرج سوياً مرة أخرى، ولكن على حسابي". فقبلت يدها وودعتها ".

بعد أيام قليلة توفيت أمي بنوبة قلبية. حدث ذلك بسرعة كبيرة لم أستطع عمل أي شيء لها. وبعد عدة أيام وصلني عبر البريد ورقة من المطعم الذي تعيشنا به أنا وهي مع ملاحظة مكتوبة بخطها: "دفعت الفاتورة مقدماً كنت أعلم أنني لن أكون موجوده، المهم دفعت العشاء لشخصين لك ولزوجتك. لأنك لن تقدر ما معنى تلك الليلة بالنسبة لي أحبك". يا ولدي

في هذه اللحظة فهمت وقدرت معنى كلمة "حب" أو "أحبك" وما معنى جعلنا الطرف الآخر يشعر بحبنا ومحبتنا هذه. لا شيء أهم من الوالدين وبخاصة الأم . إمنحهم الوقت الذي يستحقونه .. فهو حق الله وحقهم وهذه الأمور لا تؤجل.

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بعد قراءة القصة تذكرت قصة من سأل عبدالله بن عمر وهو يقول: أمي عجوز لا تقوى على الحراك وأصبحت أحملها إلى كل مكان حتى لتقضي حاجتها .. وأحياناً لا تملك نفسها وتقضيها علي وأنا أحملها .. أتراني قد أديت حقها ؟ ... فأجابه ابن عمر: ولا بطلقة واحدة حين ولادتك ... تفعل هذا وتتمنى لها الموت حتى ترتاح أنت وكنت تفعلها وأنت صغير وكانت تتمنى لك الحياة"

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  *Brothers our Sisters Need help and advice!!!
Posted by: AL3a3 - 08-17-2003, 11:32 AM - Forum: Woman and family - No Replies


Bismillahi, Ar Rahman, Nir Rahim!

As-salaamu alaikum wa rahmantu'llahi wa barakatu,

My Beloved Brothers,

we know we need our Sisters, to be happy, and their happiness can be fulfilled, by knowing and understanding more about how to deal with their husbands, children, and community. the happier they are the happier we can be too, and our children.

All women can't be content, but a righteous sister can, when given proper concern.

The Righteous Sisters (Servants of Allah ), need to know:

about polygamy:

We all who read, know that it is halaal, but it is acceptable and halaal, only under some conditions.

Some Brothers may say to me, "Brother why you go telling me, I don't have the right to get a second wife (some brothers think it is a joke), I'd said, "Man you have a striving wife it seems, a wife who helps you financially and maintain, do you feel right going for another, when your wife work so hard and give her all. Some brothers are humble and some get upset.

***Then I have alot of friends with more than enough for 2 wives (none can complain, not even their wives), then I have friends like myself (who realize i may have money, but it would hurt my wife so much, and i won't want to cause confusion in our marriage or the marriage of another. This is the wife who brings out the best in me, and I may be able to make it to Jannah to get the real wives( in paradise), no problems no headaches, etc. in Paradise*

INSHA'LLAH, BROTHERS PLEASE LET'S HELP OUR SISTERS TO UNDERSTAND, WHY WE WANT AND/OR NEED TO HAVE ANOTHER WIFE. WE CAN'T JUST SAY IT'S OUR RIGHT, WHEN WE ARE HARMING THE FIRST FAMILY, BECAUSE THAT'S NOT RIGHT.

I don't care which Brother is upset with me, I aim to Please Allah (swt). As for those who understand and heed where I'm coming from, I'm proud of you to admit, and have enough compassion to be imperfect and hurting one sister is enough, must you hurt the second, third, then fourth.

It may be easy if you hate women, like your mom, sister, aunts, and daughters.

The Prophet (saaws) LOVED WOMEN, he (saaws) stayed with Khadjiah (ra) only til her death for a reason, I've read much of what Khadijah (ra) had done for him (saaws) and for the whole community. She was rich before marrying, (i don't know if she was poor when she died, al-hamdu'llah. All the care she put into the Prophet (saaws), from money to her hard work and time. She was the first human to believe in him (saaws), she support him (saaws) in his (saaws) mission.

I pray Allah (swt)forgive me for what's said wrong..amin!.

As-salaamu alaikum wa rahmantu'llah

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