07-11-2004, 07:55 PM
as salam alykom sister
well lying is not acceptable among married couple or other wise except in three cases, to reconcile between people, a husband telling his wife how much she is pretty and he loves her, or in war.
So what u need to do sister, is seek Allah's help to stop lying, just as the brother said, pray 2 raka`a for tawba (repentance), then sit and have an honest and open talk with your husband, tell him u have a problem and u need his help to stop it, ask him to make dua for u to stop lying. he will feel involved with u in a different way Insh a Allah
and may Allah allow u to correct the whole situation