07-08-2004, 04:01 PM
Salam Aleykom!
Hello everyone! I am a first time user of this website and was hesitant at first to post my situation, but I believe in the kindness of strangers, so here I go!
I converted to Islam almost 2 years ago. My realtionship with my parents before I converted was very strained. I never confided in them and constantly lied to them or omitted to tell them things. Now I am married to a very loving Muslim manand am 6 months pregnant with our first child, but unfortunately the lying that I subjected my parents to, has transferred over into my marriage. I have lied to my husband a few times over the past two years that we have been married, mostly about money and finances. He discovered the truth about my lies on his own everytime, and needless to say he was and IS very hurt, betrayed and angry with me. I want to make things right between us, but I don't know how. Any comments or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I thank everyone who took the time to read this.
Jazakallah khair