06-28-2003, 12:21 PM
Quote:sorry for the slang language :oops: ,i 'll try not to use it in the futureas for her problem, when i said she wears the scaf ,i mean she doesn't cover all her body like, you know, she only covers her hair that's all
and she thinks she is not ready to do it now but she will make some efforts when she is much more older , she said she will try to do the basic things like learn more about the religion, learn the quran , read it, and pray five time a day on time then she will put the scaf on
thnx for your help jazakoum alah khayran
wasalam alykoum warahmat alah wabarakato[/quote:4175ad813a]
Asalamu Alaikum,
sister,
first to say what she saidd is not correct when she grows older?
has she been promised that she will get older? (ask her)
secondly
give her few books to read i.e the Muslim Belief by Uthaimin,
kitab tawaheed and tapes also a must read is The three Princeples explaination by shaik Uthaimin, tell her that becouse your or the rest of family friends so on dont put hijab now thast not an excuse becouse you want be asked in day of judgment for other peoples dids but yours to start with prayer and so forth, and tell her that is not matter of doing becouse others do but becouse you understand and you want to do it so If you really Believe In Allah and in HIS messenger then Allah has ordered the Prophet (s.a.w) to order the Beliving Women to be covered as the sharia has lesgislated, as the points above.
inshallah Allah guide her, and keeps us in the right path until our time comes.
i would suggest to go to this forum www.gawaher.com download the following books
http://gawaher.com/i2/index.php?act=SF&f=61&
The Authentic Creed
The Muslim's Belief
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http://gawaher.com/i2/index.php?act=SF&f=62&
Women in the Shade of Islam
Rights and Duties of Women in Islam
The Ideal Muslimah The True Islamic Personality.
I Appeal To Your Sense Of Shame
The Signs Before the Day of Judgement
Inshallah this will help
Asalamu Alaikum