03-31-2003, 07:06 PM
Quote:but she is wearing it because ppl have been tellig her all diffrent stuff abt the day of judgment and how she will be panished if she doesn't put it on n theother reason is cuz all her friends have it on.[/quote:d6929117e5]well i believe that this is enough reason for you to put it on isnt it? if she knows that she will be punished in the day of judgment then thats quite enough to convince her to wear the hijab. ask her how much fun and benefit she will gain without hijab? let us say she will be able to get a job, passport, pass exams and live to be a hundred and never get ill ever. is that what she wants? would she trade eternal happiness in heaven with temporary earthly happiness.</div></blockquote>
leaving the hijab is one thing, but leaving it while beliveing that its the right thing to do is a completely different matter.
<blockquote data-ipsquote="" class="ipsQuote" data-ipsquote-contentapp="forums" data-ipsquote-contenttype="forums" data-ipsquote-contentid="123" data-ipsquote-contentclass="forums_Topic"><div>she says u all the girls who wears hejab are arabic n thier parrents and all thier familly are like this and they have to do it so there is no problem and everything is organized for them like who they are gonna marry or even the british passport but her she is saying that all her family n friends n neighbours in her country no one at all wears it,actually they wear small tops n clothes worse than in uk .[/quote:d6929117e5]well that has an obvious answer sister sonia, two words, NOT TRUE. the laws of islam went down on all muslims no matter what nation the muslim is from. just because she isnt an arab doesnt mean she could remove the hijab and definitly she has no excuse to remove the hijab because everyone around her does. you might have heard this from your school teacher or your parent "if the guy you look up to jumped off a cliff, will you follow him?" heck if the whole world ran naked in the streets and she knows that its wrong, there aint no excuse for her to do it.
<blockquote data-ipsquote="" class="ipsQuote" data-ipsquote-contentapp="forums" data-ipsquote-contenttype="forums" data-ipsquote-contentid="123" data-ipsquote-contentclass="forums_Topic"><div>she said if she doesn't find a job to support her self n study ,then she is will be in troubles cuz all her brothers n sisters will leave her n no one will care abt her specialy if her parents dies before her so plz plz plz help me to convince her to do the right thing .[/quote:d6929117e5]does she believe in God? would she put her trust on her brothers and sisters instead of God? have faith in your God and ask him for help before you do with the mortals however close or powerful they are. no one can help you more than God.
i hope i helped.
a little advice, try using normal english it is kind of hard to read your slang. :wink:
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