03-31-2003, 06:34 PM
asalam 3alykoum wara7mat alah wabarakato
dear brthers and sister: my friend have got a very big problem which has been thinking about for a week,she is about to take her scaff off because she is saying that she doesn't like n she is not wearing it for alah(S.W.T)but she is wearing it because ppl have been tellig her all diffrent stuff abt the day of judgment and how she will be panished if she doesn't put it on n theother reason is cuz all her friends have it on .
now she took it off when she goes outside but not 2 skwl cuz she doesn't wanna ppl 2 think that she is just playin games wiv it n specialy the stuff they wil think <wut kind of respect to religion they have got so she is wearing it to skwl but not outside> oh n i 4got to tell u the other thing is da even if she wears it to skwl but she wears like tops not down 2 her knees but her bum shows so plz tell me wut shoul i tell her or advice her to do. and specialy help me to convince her cuz everything i tell her she finds an other answer e.g she says u all the girls who wears hejab are arabic n thier parrents and all thier familly are like this and they have to do it so there is no problem and everything is organized for them like who they are gonna marry or even the british passport but her she is saying that all her family n friends n neighbours in her country no one at all wears it,actually they wear small tops n clothes worse than in uk .she said if she doesn't find a job to support her self n study ,then she is will be in troubles cuz all her brothers n sisters will leave her n no one will care abt her specialy if her parents dies before her so plz plz plz help me to convince her to do the right thing .
thnx and alah ya7fathkoum wa youdgazekoum khyran