Jazakumullahu Khairan sister Jenifer and sister Radiyah.
This is what I meant , when I said that here in our country if a woman is older than 30 no one would like to marry her , so I dont see that if a person who marries an older lady is looking for lust or to fill his desires if his intentions are good is to give these ladies "setr" protection or marry a widow or a divorced woman so there could be a balance in the community.
Islam is not only a true and a complete religion, Islam is a way of life, we should always be thankful to Allah Subhanahu Wa Taala that we are Muslims.
"...Today I Have perfected your religion and completed My favor upon you and Chosen Islam as your religion" Chapter Almaedah verse 3.
Fal Hamdo Lillahe Rabil 3Alameen