10-07-2003, 08:35 AM
Sister Salamu Alaikum
I think its the nature of the woman which brings gheerah in her, I mean who can be better than the mothers of the believers they had gheerah and there are so many incidents e.g.
When 3aisha May Allah be please with her broke the plate and when she dropped herself from the camel and asked Allah to be stung by a scorpian so Rasul Allah PBUH could return to her.
When I open this subject with my wife you can't imagine what happens to her, but to be frank one wife is not enough specially in this time of temptation. I ask Allah that I find a good pious God fearing second wife soon and of course beautiful.