Bismillah
First time experience:
Sobhan Allah, my very dear and sweet Sudanese neighbour's 31 year old son fell off the window on the 11th floor. I heard her and her sister calling for help, as she was surprised by the porter coming up to inform her. It ended up that the young man fell from his room's window and other neighbours on the 2nd floor heard the loud bump on the ground of the garage, called the porter and thus he came up to tell her. What i want to relay here is that was my first experience to see a mother in real situation. Her sister Mash a Allah was quite an asset, told her where is the Prophet, he is down under earth, where are our mother and father, she told her keep ArRahaman in your heart. The tested mother was in a shock, she kept bouncing between crying and then suddenly she calls upon Allah, then again, unrealising goes into his room, looks off the window to the laid down body, and keep telling me these are his clothes, these are his gadgets, these are his things. I pulled her out of the room, closed the door, me and another neighbour trying to clam her and reminding her of Allah. I started telling her to say after me inna lillahi wa inna eliayhee rajeoun, my other neighbout told her go ahead say after her, dont loose your ajr, he needs now more than ever, make dua for him, your dua is much needed. She kept responding at times, then looses her control at others. O ya Allah. That was really hard, may Allah Grant her Sabr, Enable her to maintain herself and Sabr, I kept reminding her of the house built in Jannah for her. O Sohban the One who Is Eternal.
May Allah receive the young, very descent man in the best manner, may Allah Keeps his heart fixed during questioning, may Allah enlighten his grave and makes it a part of Jannah and not a part of Juhannum, may Allah Wash him with snow water and hail ameen.