02-15-2009, 03:46 PM
Bismillah
Of course jennifer we do have role models in every era, however, as you asked me to try and explain the hadeeth, according to u, the point was a bit ambigous for you and others, I tried. So just to underline things, the main point is not only how did she break the news, but also how did she perceive it, which made such a hard test bearable for her and the husband and because of this Allah Rewarded them much. Again, as you certainly know, Quran and Sunnah are filled with teachings and landmarks which we must strive all our lives to follow as much as possible. Non of us will be able, though, to fully implement them. We can only try.