08-23-2003, 11:43 AM
I exaclty know what u mean Ukhti Ummibreihm. It is the thin line between being an originally american and the new concept of loving no one or thing except for Allah's sake. But this can be easily handled ukhti because the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم clearly expressed his love to his wives, and Allah say in the Quran what means and we bestowed between them love and mercy. The only point is that we don't let our hearts be fully set on the person thing to the extend that we collapse if it disappears. Allah Shall remain there. But Islam is never against expressing love specially between husband and wife. If interracial marriages fail sometimes, it has nothing to do with Islam. It is culture Ukhi
Which I may elaborate on on another post Insh a Allah only if u want