12-22-2006, 03:25 AM
Quote:Well, you should hear what Catholic Filipinos say about this law… they just HATE IT.
Tell them to take it up with the boss's Son :) Just because a doctrine inconveniences you, doesn't mean it should be changed. If anything, we need to adapt our lives to suit the truth.
Quote:It allows you to move on and find peace and tranquility with another person. I already told you that divorce is the most hateful yet permissible act in the side of Allah, but separation and not getting married again, might lead you to sin.
I respect Islam's position on divorce. I just don't agree with it. Many things can lead to sin. We must resist temptation.
Quote:Now are you trying to say that the Qur’an is a man made invention? Or you are trying to say that the ]“inspired words of God” that was revealed to Moses in the OT were in fact not God’s words but man made invention?
I have the utmost respect for the Koran because it's the spiritual text for Muslims. God handed down to Moses the 10 Commandments (& various other revelations), but not the idea of divorce. God permits wrongdoing but He is not the cause of it.
Quote:I have to disagree, since your religion/Bible offer no solution for unsuccessful marriage
No one enters a marriage thinking it'll be unsuccessful. Therefore, no one should exit a marriage thinking it can't be successful. There's no such thing as "unsuccessful marriage" in the Bible.
Quote:the wife who can’t raise the children by herself needs some financial support
Both parents should raise their kids. Finance is the least of their problems.
Quote:the husband by nature cannot always live without partner
I'm in no way/shape/form a feminist, but this statement seems odd to me.
Quote:Now if both husband and wife get separated “and yet still married but don’t live together anymore”, then what is the point for marriage here? It is just USELESS.I hold the opinion that when SEPARATION is permitted, then marriage becomes TOTALLY meaningless.
Separation is temporary only! Mutual effort should always be made to resolve marital problems. This requires sacrifice. You need to give & take.
Peace Wael.