Is birthcontrol halaal in islam?

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Woow... ok


Muslimah:


I have looked into having children young, and to carry across my point without getting into details all I'll say is that there are many factors that not much people know and I cannot say due to my reasons.


My intended wife and I both discussed a family and I do want a large family. I love family. I am the kinda guy that wants a whole lotta kids and all that. However due to other circumstances (most of which no one would even believe if they knew so dont try to guess :)) I need to look into birth control.


Al Shams & Dan


I am most confused now. Because the topic of your disagreement is the one thing that is of most concern to me with the pills. I need to get some info, my problem is that I am so afraid to take info from the net just like that. So if anyone of you can direct me to a REPUTABLE site or even email me that would be excellent.


NaSra


My goal is family planning (in a sense)


I think that is a halaal intention, right? :)


Man Plans and Allah plans and surely Allah is the best of planners.


I fully believe in the Qadarullah (DUUHH :)) and there are no buts about that :) THis does not mean that we must not also plan right... :) Jazaakillah khair for your input please do tell more.


Arclight


My intended wife is going to the doctor insha allah. Can you give me some assistance as to the pertinent questions she should ask?


Some that i can think of are;


How would this affect her fertility in the long run?


How long is TOO LONG on the pill?


What are the side effects?


Are there any safety measures we can take?


Based on my health should i take the pill or not?


Can you give some real life examples of cases where the pill was successful or not?


Thank you all for your input.


I tried my best to address you all


and i must say. that the reason i chose to come out publicly with this topic is for it to benefit all those who read it and are shy to ask the questions themselves. Therefore if there is somehting that i didnt ask and is pertinent to the topic at hand, dont hesitate to include it here. Just let us not stray too far


May Allah bless all those who have given me advice


and may he bless them every time i utilise it.


And meay he guide us all.


I'll be waiting for a reply from you all


wa salaam


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