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04-03-2009, 09:35 AM
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First time experience:
Sobhan Allah, my very dear and sweet Sudanese neighbour's 31 year old son fell off the window on the 11th floor. I heard her and her sister calling for help, as she was surprised by the porter coming up to inform her. It ended up that the young man fell from his room's window and other neighbours on the 2nd floor heard the loud bump on the ground of the garage, called the porter and thus he came up to tell her. What i want to relay here is that was my first experience to see a mother in real situation. Her sister Mash a Allah was quite an asset, told her where is the Prophet, he is down under earth, where are our mother and father, she told her keep ArRahaman in your heart. The tested mother was in a shock, she kept bouncing between crying and then suddenly she calls upon Allah, then again, unrealising goes into his room, looks off the window to the laid down body, and keep telling me these are his clothes, these are his gadgets, these are his things. I pulled her out of the room, closed the door, me and another neighbour trying to clam her and reminding her of Allah. I started telling her to say after me inna lillahi wa inna eliayhee rajeoun, my other neighbout told her go ahead say after her, dont loose your ajr, he needs now more than ever, make dua for him, your dua is much needed. She kept responding at times, then looses her control at others. O ya Allah. That was really hard, may Allah Grant her Sabr, Enable her to maintain herself and Sabr, I kept reminding her of the house built in Jannah for her. O Sohban the One who Is Eternal.
May Allah receive the young, very descent man in the best manner, may Allah Keeps his heart fixed during questioning, may Allah enlighten his grave and makes it a part of Jannah and not a part of Juhannum, may Allah Wash him with snow water and hail ameen.
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Sohban Allah, next morning I went to see her off before she left with the body to Sudan, Allah Allowed me to look at the situation from a different angle and dimension for this woman's benefit.
I realised he fell from a very high place and the Messenger salla Allah a`lyhee wa sallam in the hadeeth classifying shaheeds, included one who falls from high place. Insh a Allah he is one, may Allah Accept hiim as one. Then he fulifilled his role in this dunia and was granted this rank. His role was to bring his mother to a higher rank Insh aAllah as Allah sometimes wishes a certain rank for the devotee that a devotee cannt attain thru his/her work, so Allah Sends tests and tribulation as mercy. O ArRahman, and yet grants Sabr helping the inflicted person to attain this rank. May Allah Grant her a high rank ameen and builds her a house in Jannah ameen.
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When Umm Salim got married with Aba Talha Al Ansari and she was granted with a beloved son,
his father loved him so much.
The child became ill and died while his father was in his work.
When the father returned home,
<b>Wise wife reaction first test</b>1.
he asked his wife about the son. She replied: he is in his quietest modes.
2. She prepared dinner, wore perfume and dressed up in her best garments.
<b>Wise wife second test</b>3. Her husband took her to bed and had an intimate relation with her.
Here after husband relax & she explained to him gradually
Also here clearly how she interrupt the death of her child
4. By the end of the night, she told him: Aba Talha, do you see if some people lent other people a loan, a trust and a deposit, then came to ask them for it, would those people refuse to give it back? He said no.
5. She continued: Allah may He be Glorified lent you your son as a load, and then took him back to Him, account this with Allah and be patient..
<b>Wise husband reactions </b>
6. He said Inna lilahi wa inna elayhee rajeoun (to Allah we are and to Allah we shall return) .
7. Next morning, he went to the Messenger of Allah sallah Allah a`lyhee wa sallam and told him.
<b>Allah reward for patient parents </b>
8. the Messenger of Allah sallah Allah a`lyhee wa sallam said, may Allah bless your past night.
9. She became pregnant, the newly born was brought to the Prophet sallah Allah a`lyhee wa sallam. The Prophet took some dates, chew them and he took the ground dates with his finger and place it into the infant's mouth and the infant would taste. She said: O Messenger of Allah, give him a name, he name him Abdullah.
10. There no better young man in Medina than him.
11. His off spring were all of the Mujahedeen who performed Jihad in the name of Allah on foot not riding.
12. Abdullah martyred in Persia. In another narration.
13. Abu Talha was granted ten sons who all memorized the Quran. (reported by Bukhari and Muslim)
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As Salam alaikum
Always a sign for us... How many people who are going to die today, expect to die today? Maybe a few, but I would not guess the majority. Subhannallah. Insha'Allah he gets the reward of marytrdom and his mother continues to be patient.
I am 31... each day bringing me closer to my death.
As Salam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu
