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Whever I go for Umrah, Haj or even during the season, I cannt help to remember andn ponder on her situation. Hajar the pious wife who immediately obeyed her husband. not only obey but assured him that since leaving her and her infant behind in the desert was Allah's Command, then she is certain that Allah Shall never abandon them. To that extend she had full belief that Allah in order to show her rank, made her shuttling between safa and marwa looking for water for her infant part of Ummra and Haj rituals. Sobhan Allah, if we women ponder on her attitude we will learn a lot.


The learn lessons Insh a Allah I will try to take it to women and family

By Shaykh Mashhoor Hasan As-Salmaan


Regarding understanding the essence of the Eid, people are of two groups:


The first group believes that the Eid is a time for fun and amusement only and a chance to enjoy delicious kinds of food and to wear the best clothes one could afford. These people do their best to prepare what they could for the occasion in advance.


The second group deeply realize the sublime essence of the Eid.


Accordingly, if the circumstances are not as the former group wished it to be, the Eid for them is not an occasion for happiness but for sorrow and sadness.


The later group; however, senses the Eid with all its sublime meanings whether in good or straitened circumstances for a real muslim feels content and satisfied in both cases since the afflictions in this world are not real afflictions; the real affliction is the one that strikes one’s religion and belief. So long as one’s religion and belief are safe, one is a real Mu’min [believer] who deeply believes that whatever is destined for him by Allāh (U) will surely touch him and believes that Allāh (U) will grant him the best of rewards in the Hereafter.


[1/64] In Islām there are only two Eids: Eidul Fitr and Eidul Adhā. Regretfully, muslims these days celebrate many Eids [festivals] some are temporal others are spatial. Examples on the former are the following: the prophet’s ® birthday, the Day of Ascent, the night preceding the fifteenth of Sha‘bān, the righteous birthdays, the day of accention to the throne which is adopted from the Persian New Year’s Day, the Revolution day against a king or so which is similar to the festival done by the westerners, the evacuation day (of foreign troops), the day of Independence and other such false Eids([1]) that Allāh (U) never permits.


As for the spacial festivals; they were invented by the ignorants such as: gathering in cemeteries, visiting graves so often or on special occasions -as what happens near the so called Badawī grave in Egypt and the so called Al-Husain grave in Karbulā’ and the so called Abdil Qādir Al-Jīlānī, in Bagdād.


These three places were made places of celebration by those who have no sense of understanding, imitating the pure muslims’ gathering around the Ka‘bah, on ‘Arafāt, Muzdalifah and Minā on the days of Hajj.


The aforementioned graves are only few to mention for the purpose here is not to name them but to warn [muslims] against imitating the disbelievers in their temporal and special “Eids”.([2])


[2/64] When celebrating their Eids, muslims commit many misdemeanors some of these are even committed in every day life but are practiced on a large scale in festivals, such as: shaving the beard, shaking hands with women who are not Mahrams, women displaying their beauties, imitating the disbelievers in their way of dressing,([3]) listening to music, visiting graves on the Eid Days distributing sweets and food there and setting on them, the intermingling of men and women, weeping the dead, sitting with non-Mahram women, spending money extravagantly and uselessly and many other misdemeanors.([4])


The purpose of our discussion here is to discuss things related to Salāt for it is done for seeking approach to Allāh (U)!!


The following points discuss the mistakes done when doing Salātul Eidain:


[3/64] Abandoning performing Salātul Eid believing it to be just a Sunnah and not doing it in the Musallā:


Ash-Shawkānī said: ‘The prophet ® used to perform the Eid Salāt in both Eidain [sing. Eid] and never missed one. He ® also ordered muslims to attend it even women -whether old or young and even those who are having their menses. The latter were ordered not to do Salāt with other muslims but to share them the goodness and listen to the Khutbah. Even the woman who has no garment to wear; she should borrow one from her muslim sister. All these orders and instructions clearly and strongly indicate that attending Salāt Eid is an affirmed Wājib on every muslim individual -not on a group of muslims’.([5])


I believe that Ash-Shawkānī refers to ’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s narration. She said: ‘The prophet ® ordered us to take to Eidul Fitr and Eidul Adhā Salāt the adult and young women even those who are having their menses. The later should not, however, join muslims their Salāt’. Another narration states: ‘... their Musallā, but should attend the Khutbah and witness goodness with other muslims’.


I [’Umm ‘Atiyyah] then enquired: ‘O Allāh’s Messenger! What if a woman does not have a garment [with which she could cover herself when going out to the Salāt]’?


The prophet ® said: ‘She may borrow one from her muslim sister’.([6])


The obligation of going out for the Musallā entails the obligation of doing Salāt there-for those who have no Shar‘ excuse not to do so. If the means for doing something is an obligation then the thing to be done is also an obligation. This obligation is affirmed on men more than on women.([7])


One of the evidences that affirm the obligation of attending Salātul Eidain is that doing Salātul Eid cancels doing the Friday Salāt. That is, if one does the former, he needn’t attend the latter. This is affirmed in the prophet’s ® hadīth which states: ‘On this day [Friday], two Eids have come together. Whoever wishes to attend the Friday Salāt, he may do so, and whoever does not; the Eid Salāt is sufficient for him. Yet, we will perform the Friday Salāt’.([8])


It is a well-known Shar‘ principle that what is not an obligation does not cancel that which is so. It is also affirmed that he ® used to perform it in a congregation since it was enjoined by Allāh (U) till his ® death. Besides, he ® ordered muslims to head to the Musallā to attend it.([9])


This view was held by Shaikhul Islām Ibn Taymiyyah. He said: ‘I preponderate the view that states the obligation of attending Salātul Eid on every individual. This view was held by Abū Hanifah([10]) and others; it was also one of the Shāfi‘ī’s view and one of Imām Ahmad’s Mathhab.


Those who held an opposite opinion are far away from the truth for it is considered one of the greatest rites of Islām for attending which a great number of people gather -even more than those who attend the Friday Salāt- and in which Takbīr should be recited.


As for the view that states that attending this Salāt is only a collective duty [Fradu Kifāyah], it is not precise’.([11])


It is of great benefit here to mention two Fiqh ruling inferred from the prophet’s ® order -in ’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s narration- for women, whether ‘Awātiq [young]([12]) or old even those having their menses to attend the Musallā in order to witness goodness and the Khutbah with other muslims:


The first: The legality for women to go out and attend Salātul Eidain.


Indeed, we urge muslim women to attend this Salāt with other muslims in order to obey the prophet’s ® order. However, we would like to attract their attention -and those responsible for them for the obligation of wearing the Hijāb [when going out].


Some would wonder about the aforementioned ruling of attending the Salāt by women. Let such people know that this is indeed the truth -no doubt- for the many ahādīth that support it -one of which is ’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s in which the prophet ® clearly orders women to attend this Salāt. Abū Bakr’s statement -which was narrated by Ibn Abī Shaibah- is another supporting narration. He (t) said: ‘It is an obligation on every women to attend Salātul Eidain’.([13])


At-Tahāwi and others claimed that “’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s hadīth was abrogated for his ® order for women -whether young or old- to attend the Eid Salāt was probably at the beginning of Islām for the purpose of increasing the number of muslims in order to cast fear in the hearts of their enemies. These days, however, this is not needed”.!!


Many scholars -one of whom is Al-Karmānī- refuted Al-Tahāwi’s view that abrogation is not proved through probability and “the time of the hadīth is not known” -as Al-Karmānī stated. Besides, Ibn Abbās’s narration indicates that he attended this Salāt while still a young boy and this was followed by the opening of Makkah. Accordingly, the point “of being weak” At-Tahāwī raised is not true. In addition to that, the real cause for women attending this Salāt is clearly stated in ’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s hadīth; namely: “to witness goodness and Khutbah with other muslims and enjoy the blessings of this day. None of the Sahābah contradicted ’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s Fatāwā delivered in accordance with this hadīth. It is worth mentioning here that Al-Tahāwī’s words: “to cast fear in the hearts of their enemies” need verification for seeking women’s help in wars is a real sign of weakness not power.([14])


It is worth mentioning here that doing Salāt by women in the mosque is valid and it is of the affirmed Sunnan -no muslim would disagree with this. Only those who are ignorant who deny such an act and consider it illegal. Indeed, it is true that a woman’s Salāt in her home is better than in the mosque. And if her attending the mosque would cause Fitnah [to men], it is permitted, even an obligation, to forbid those women causing Fitnah from coming to the mosque. However, it must not be said that women are forbidden to come to the mosque in general.([15])


The second: Salātul Eid should be done in the Musallā, but it could also be done in the mosque.


This is indicated from the prophet’s ® order for women who are in their menses to attend the Salāt. Since such women should not attend the mosque; it becomes clear that what is meant in the hadīth is attending the Musallah.


This is clearly stated in Abī Sa‘īd’s Al-Khudrī narration. He Said: The prophet ® used to attend the Musallā in both Eidul Fitr and Edul Adhā. The first thing he ® would start with is the Salāt.([16])


Ibnil Hājj Al-Mālikī stated the same in his Al-Madkhal; then narrated the prophet’s ® hadīth which states: ‘Doing one Salāt in my mosque [at Madīnah] is one thousand times superior to doing it in any other mosque except in Al-Masjidul Harām’.([17]) Then he continued: ‘Yet, he ® left doing this Salāt in his mosque and did it in the Musallah’.([18])


This Sunnah was practiced during the Salaf’s time, unless there is a necessity to do this Salāt in the mosque such as rain or so.


This is the four Imām’s Mathhabs and others. In “Al-Fatāwāl Hindiyyah”,([19]) Al-Haithamī stated: ‘Going out to Al-Jubbānah([20]) to perform Eid Salāt is the Sunnah even if there is enough space for all people in the local mosque. All scholars agreed on this and it is indeed the truth’.


In Al-Mudawwanah,([21]) Suhnūn stated that Mālik said: ‘The Eid Salāt must not be done in two places [i.e. two congregations at the same time], nor in the local mosque. People should instead go out to the Musallā as the prophet ® did’.


Ibn Qudāmah said: ‘The Sunnah is to perform the Eid Salāt in the Musallā. ‘Ali (t) ordered muslims to do so. And this was Al-’Awzā‘i’s and the scholars’ of opinion view. Al-Munthir held the same view too’.([22])


This Sunnah of doing Salātul Eidain in the plain has a great benefit. It is an opportunity for all muslims -men, women and kids- to gather in a local space twice a year seeking Allāh’s (U) approach, feeling as one unity, being led by one Imām, reciting Takbīr and Tahlīl, calling Allāh (U) sincerely as if they have one heart, feeling so happy with Allāh’s (U) blessing on them. This is indeed the real Eid.


May Allāh (U) answer the muslim’s calls for their following of the prophet’s ® Sunnah and for reviving their religious rites which are their source of dignity and victory.([23])


Allāh (U) said:


[يا أيها الذين آمنوا استجيبوا لله وللرسول إذا دعاكم لما يحييكم]


‘O you who believe! Respond to Allāh (U) (by obeying Him) and His Messenger when he calls you to that which will give you life’.([24])


[4/64] Abandoning reciting Takbīr loudly while going to the Musallā:


Az-Zuhrī related that the prophet ® used to go on the Eidul Fitr to the Musallā reciting Takbīr till he ® does the Salāt. When the Salāt is over he would cease reciting Takbīr.([25])


‘The aforementioned hadīth affirms the legality of that which muslims have been practicing of reciting Takbīr loudly while going to the Musallā. Regretfully, this Sunnah is being ignored by many till it is about to disappear. And this is due to the weakness of their beliefs and their feeling of embarrassment when calling to the Sunnah and practicing it publicly. Some of these people are even of those who teach others religion. They only teach them what they already know!! And ignore discussing such important and necessary matters which they consider as something trivial and must be avoided. Indeed, to Allāh (U) we belong and to Him we shall return.


It is worth mentioning here,


[5/64] The illegality of reciting Takbīr in congregation, as some people do, just like any other Thikr -whether recited secretly or loudly. Reciting ’Athān in such a manner -as happens in Damascus and is called “Al-Jūq ’Athān”- is also prohibited for grievous mistakes are committed when doing that such as: stopping after words “lā Ilāha” [there is no Ilāh] when reciting Tahlīl in the dawn and sunset ’Athān -as happened more than once.


We all should be aware of that and always remember the prophet’s ® words: ‘The best of guidance is that of the prophet ®’.([26])


* Raising hands when reciting the Takbīr in Eid Salāt:


[6/64] Raising one’s hands when reciting Takbīr in Eid Salāt is not of the prophet’s ® Sunnah. However, Ibn Al-Qayyim reported that Ibn ‘Umar (t) used to raise his hand while reciting Takbīr([27]) though he was a sincere adherent to the prophet’s ® Sunnah. Indeed, the best of guidance is that of the prophet’s ®. Ibn ‘Umar’s and his father’s practice does not make it a Sunnah. Besides, the narration that reports their practice is not authentic.([28])


Regarding this point, Imām Mālik stated that ‘he had not heard any [affirmed] hadīth about this’,([29]) and this was his Mathhab -as reported in Al-Mudawwanah” (vol. 1 / p. 169) and quoted by An-Nawawī in his “Al-Majmū‘” (vol. 5 / p. 26).


Ibn Al-Munthir added that Imām Mālik said: ‘There is no affirmed Sunnah that states its obligation; accordingly, whoever wishes to raise his hands could do so. But I prefer that one raises his hands only in the first Takbīr’.([30])


* Performing the Pre-Sunnah Eid Salāt and calling “As-Salātu Jāmi‘ah” [i.e. Salāt to be done in congregation] before people stand to perform the Salāt:


[7/64] The majority of muslims -who attend Eid Salāt- perform two Rak‘ah Salāt before sitting down waiting for the Imām to start Eid Salāt. Narrations affirm that the prophet ® never performed these two Rak‘ahs. For example, Ibn ‘Abbās (t) said: ‘The prophet ® performed on Eid Fitr Day two Rak‘ah Salāt and nothing before or after’.([31])


Al-Hāfith Ibn Hajar affirmed the same thing and refuted the view of those who consider Eid Salāt similar to the Friday Salāt.([32]) Imām Ahmad also affirmed the same point [in his Masā’il]([33]) and continued ‘... some people in Basrah perform the [Eid] Sunnah-Salāt before the Eid Salāt and in Kūfah people perform it after the Eid Salāt’.([34])


In his “Zādul Ma‘ād”,([35]) Ibnul Qayyim affirmed that neither the prophet ® nor his Sahābah ever did such Eid Sunnah Salāt.


Upon reaching the Musallā, the prophet ® used to do Eid Salāt without preceding it with ’Athān, Iqāmah or pronouncing “As-Salātu Jāmi‘ah”. And this is indeed the Sunnah.([36])


The well-versed scholars considered doing such things before the Eid Salāt as Bid‘ah.([37])


* Performing acts of worship on the nights preceding the Eid Days:


[8/64] Many Khutabah and callers unto Allāh (U) recommend people and urge them to seek Allāh’s (U) closeness through spending the night preceding the two Eids doing acts of worship. They, however, depend on no authentic proof. These so called “Shaikhs” even ascribe this recommendation to the prophet ® to have said: ‘Whoever spends the night preceding the two Eid days doing acts of worship, his/her heart will never die on the day when all hears will die’.([38])


This hadīth is forged and should never be ascribed to the prophet ® and hence the prohibition of applying it and calling people for it.


[9/64] Khutabah’s mistakes in the Eid Khutbah:


1- Commencing the Khutbah with Takbīr and repeating it frequently during the Khutbah.


Describing the prophet’s ® Eid Khutbah, Ibn Al-Qayyim said: ‘He ® used to begin all his Khutab with “Al-Hamdulillāh”. It was not affirmed in even one single hadīth the he ® used to begin the two Eid Khutab with Takbīr. Ibn Mājah narrated in his “Sunnan”([39]) from Sa‘d Al-Qurth -the prophet’s ® caller for Salāt- that ‘he ® used to say Takbīr frequently during his Khutbas especially in the Eid Khutbah’.


This does not, however, mean that he ® used to begin the Khutbah with Takbīr. Scholars differed regarding the beginnings of the Istisqā’ and the two Eid Khutab; some say that they should begin with Takbīr, others say the Istisqā’ Khutbah should begin with Istghfār and others say that both should begin with Tahmīd.


Shaikhul Islām Ibn Taymiyyah held that the latter is the soundest of all opinions.([40])


I believe that the hadīth mentioned earlier is a weak one for its chain of narrators include Abdul Rahmān Ibn Sa‘d Ibn Ammār Ibn Sa‘d -the caller for Salāt- and he is a weak narrator and Sa‘d Ibn Ammār who is an unidentified narrator. Accordingly, it must not be used as a proof by those who recite Takbīr during the Khutbah.([41])


2- Delivering two Khutbahs with a sitting rest between them. All the narrations reported regarding this point are weak and not affirmed -as An-Nawawī stated.([42])

Bismillah


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Salaam Alaikum



It is a pleasure to see you all again. Muslimah, Dan, Wel_mel, Radiya...I missed you all. I've been busy with academics and pretty much finishing up my last year of study and all the material that comes in that territory. Without further ado...



I'm sure you have all heard of Ariel Sharon medical condition. My question is this. What do you think his removal will do to the political situation in the Middle east with his absence? Let me know all your thoughts. Fee Aman Allah



--Ibn Kumuna

About Struggling...


A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a


small opening appeared. He sat and watched the


butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its


body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop


making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten


as far as it could, and it could go no further.


So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took


a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit


of the cocoon.


The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a


swollen body and small, shriveled wings.


The man continued to watch the butterfly because


he expected that, at any moment, the wings would


enlarge and expand to be able to support the


body, which would contract in time.


Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the


rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body


and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.


What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not


understand was that the restricting cocoon and


the struggle required for the butterfly to get


through the tiny opening were Allah's way of


forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into


its wings so that it would be ready for flight


once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.


Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in


our lives. If Allah allowed us to go through our


lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us.


We would not be as strong as what we could


have been. We could never "fly"!


I asked for Strength.........


And Allah gave me Difficulties to make me strong.


I asked for Wisdom.........


And Allah gave me Problems to solve.


I asked for Prosperity.........


And Allah gave me Brain and Brawn to work.


I asked for Courage.........


And Allah gave me Danger to overcome.


I asked for Love..........


And Allah gave me Troubled people to help.


I asked for Favours.........


And Allah gave me Opportunities.


I received nothing I wanted ........


I received everything I needed!

Sports Car vs. Qur'an


A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.


As Graduation Day approached, the young man waited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.


Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Qur'an. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said "With all your money you give me a Qur'an?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.


Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.


Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Qur'an, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Qur'an and began to turn the pages.


As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Qur'an. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.


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Al-alam 'alaykom


This post is the last for today, it will keep u busy for a while until i find u new sites, enjoy my children and take care of yourselves


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Salam

Bismillah


Al-salam Alaykom


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So go ahead give it a try :)


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Salam

Bismillah


Al-salam Alaykom my dear children, I hope all of you are doing fine, well as we see many of our links are lost, but insha'Allah they will be back soon. meanwhile, I found this nice Quizz pages for you enjoy it aand have fun, we will keep adding more stuff for u me and sister Amma. good luck and take care of yourself :)


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