:lailahaillallah: Salaam brothers and sisters i would like to know how many wife's are you allowed to married in Islam and what are the conditions in Islam
can you please refer to what section in the Quran and which hadith are you referring to.
welcome to our board, here is the Ayah responding to your question:
"And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice."" (Quran 4:3)
However, for further and in depth explanation, use this site searching and using the key work = polygny you will come up with many threads.
many thanks sister for your reply , and thanks for the warm welcome although sister i have change my username :) anyway i had no idea that it ment polygny i should be able to find out more on this
assalaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh akhee. insha'Allah i pray that this email finds you in the best of eeman and ihsan striving to be pleasing to your Rabb in the best of manners. akhee, i am actually a wife in a polygynous marriage and recently wrote a book about my experience in polygyny. if you want you can check it out at
also, in the beginning of my book i have an entire section on the proofs for polygyny from the Qur'aan and Sunnah. insha'Allah if you want to read this you can click on this link:
insha'Allah i pray that this is of some help to you.
wassalaamu 'alaykum,
sister aneesa
And among His signs is this, that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect."
Quote:assalaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh akhee. insha'Allah i pray that this email finds you in the best of eeman and ihsan striving to be pleasing to your Rabb in the best of manners. akhee, i am actually a wife in a polygynous marriage and recently wrote a book about my experience in polygyny. if you want you can check it out at
also, in the beginning of my book i have an entire section on the proofs for polygyny from the Qur'aan and Sunnah. insha'Allah if you want to read this you can click on this link:
insha'Allah i pray that this is of some help to you.
wassalaamu 'alaykum,
sister aneesa
And among His signs is this, that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect."
Welcome to the board sister poly... what a beautiful website that you have, mash a Allah, may Allah reward you for sharing your experience with us.
Salam
Wael.
wa 'alaykum assalaam wa rahamtullahi wa barakatuh akhee. jazak Allahu khair for your welcome and kinds words regarding my website. please pass it on to others who you feel may benefit from it.
Quote:jazak Allahu khair for your welcome and kinds words regarding my website. please pass it on to others who you feel may benefit from it.
Insh a Allah i will. :)
I wish you can stay active on our board for long time insh a Allah, we need you to share your experience with others, especially with Non Muslim guests who always ask us about polygamy.
I did welcome you poly on another thread, but let me welcome you again and I have nothing more to say than may Allah Reward you much for your effort really, and Makes you a reason to spread Islam as properly as possible. I do echo Wael's invitation.
Glory be to the Father Son Holy Spirit - One God - now & forever. Amen.
Assalamu alykum, Aneesa.
Quote:akhee, i am actually a wife in a polygynous marriage and recently wrote a book about my experience in polygyny. if you want you can check it out at
also, in the beginning of my book i have an entire section on the proofs for polygyny from the Qur'aan and Sunnah. insha'Allah if you want to read this you can click on this link: