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I Have Lot Of Questions...
#1

Salam Alaikum..I have lot of questions, I ask to myself but I dont find answer.I cant ask others because they will think I doubt. Its not doubt.


When I ask here, I get classical answers like everywhere. But its not this. I m tryin to look by books like by ghazaly, ibnulcawzy etc.


I never find one in real life I can ask all my questions. We have to life alone with our problems that never can be discused and never can be asked to a schoolar...


Not all socialproblems of muslimfamily is taken by schoolars. This is sad...


wassalam

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#2

As-salaam Alikum,


Ask away anybody, there should be no shame or shyness in asking about the Deen.


لا حرج فى الدين

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#3

الحج


وَجَاهِدُوا فِي اللَّهِ حَقَّ جِهَادِهِ هُوَ اجْتَبَاكُمْ وَمَا جَعَلَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ مِنْ حَرَجٍ مِلَّةَ أَبِيكُمْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ هُوَ سَمَّاكُمُ الْمُسْلِمِينَ مِنْ قَبْلُ وَفِي هَذَا لِيَكُونَ الرَّسُولُ شَهِيدًا عَلَيْكُمْ وَتَكُونُوا شُهَدَاءَ عَلَى النَّاسِ فَأَقِيمُوا الصَّلَاةَ وَآتُوا الزَّكَاةَ وَاعْتَصِمُوا بِاللَّهِ هُوَ مَوْلَاكُمْ فَنِعْمَ الْمَوْلَى وَنِعْمَ النَّصِيرُ



Al-Hajj


[78] And strive in His cause as ye ought to strive, (with sincerity and under discipline). He has chosen you, and has imposed no difficulties on you in religion; it is the cult of your father Ibrahim. It is He Who has named you Muslims, both before and in this (Revelation); that the Messenger may be a witness for you, and ye be witnesses for mankind! So establish regular Prayer, give regular Charity, and hold fast to Allah! He is your Protector, the best to protect and the Best to help!



Anybody, it's better to ask questions until you understand certain issues then to let the shaitan play with your head and thoughts and misguide you.


Check out these fatwa sites and search for your questions on them if you don't want to ask in public, or even send a pm if you prefer.


Your questions have probably been asked before and answered.


Arabic and other languages:


http://63.175.194.25/index.php


http://www.fatwa-online.com/


http://www.islamonline.net/fatwa/english...hFatwa.asp


http://www.islam-qa.com/cgi-local/browse_home_eng


http://www.islamway.com/sindex.php?section=fatawamain


May Allah (SWT) have mercy on our souls, Ameen.


As-salaam Alikum.

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JazzakallahuKhayr.


I dont think, i can find exact answer to my questions. Becuase every1s problems come over different ways. The Problem maybe same but not the reason same.


I cant ask anywhere and any1 my questions...


It must be go on to deep in islamic issue to find answers. I dont understand world.


Why I should be responsible for my actions and all these thinks, i cant organize and control it with my soul (aql). Sometimes i wish broke everythink what is in my way, also in in public or in shops etc... Why I have wish not to life? Why i have to wish not to be born, or to live in the time with rasulullah saw.


Why I feel me alone in this world...


When I give a weapen to a guy and this guy kill with my weapon some1 am I not responsible too for this action of killing? Is these people for nothing responsible for my actions and feelings, who guide me in this situation. IS THERE NO ONE WHO CAN ME UNDERSTAND?


Why poeple are blind to me, what I have to do...


I know, The Life is a test, this is what I hear always... But I think if Rasulullah saw were now and He would me advice more as to say life is Test.


Is that not a Prove for this:


<b>Now a Messenger has come to you from among yourselves. It grieves him that you should suffer He is ardently anxious over you. To the believers he is most kind and merciful."</b> [sûrah al-Tawbah: 128]


I stop to asking and find answers...


Wassalam,

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I can image me, what people would me call now...I dont care what people call me. I know I m not this call and Allah swt know me, better than me. We can never explain and imagine how Allah swt is great and powerfull. We know only this what allah swt allow us to know..Wassalam
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Quote:JazzakallahuKhayr.
I dont think, i can find exact answer to my questions. Becuase every1s problems come over different ways. The Problem maybe same but not the reason same.


I cant ask anywhere and any1 my questions...

Wa Eyakum brother/sister anybody. Please let me know if you can read Arabic or not.



First of all, you are not just anybody, you are somebody, someone that Allah (SWT) have chosen to be a Muslim, and that alone is biggest good thing that any of us could ask for.



النحل 53


وَمَا بِكُمْ مِنْ نِعْمَةٍ فَمِنَ اللَّهِ ثُمَّ إِذَا مَسَّكُمُ الضُّرُّ فَإِلَيْهِ تَجْأَرُونَ



An-Nahl


[53] And ye have no good thing but is from Allah; and moreover, when ye are touched by distress, unto Him ye cry with groans;



(Then, when harm touches you, to Him you cry aloud for help.) meaning because you know that none has the power to remove that harm except for Him, so when you are harmed, you turn to ask Him for help and beg Him for aid.





Every question has an answer, you just need to look in the right places for answers.






Quote:It must be go on to deep in islamic issue to find answers. I dont understand world.

Why I should be responsible for my actions and all these thinks, i cant organize and control it with my soul (aql). Sometimes i wish broke everythink what is in my way, also in in public or in shops etc... Why I have wish not to life? Why i have to wish not to be born, or to live in the time with rasulullah saw.


This is a critical stage that you are going through right now.





<b>I advice you to rush and read the Quran, read it every day, read a Hezb or a Juz' every night before you go to bed, just for 15-30 minutes. Trust me you will start to feel at ease when you do that.
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الرعد 28




الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَتَطْمَئِنُّ قُلُوبُهُمْ بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ




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الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ طُوبَى لَهُمْ وَحُسْنُ مَآبٍ



Al-Ra'd





<span style="color:#0000FF;">[28] "Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the remembrance of Allah: for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction.
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[29] "For those who believe and work righteousness, is (every) blessedness, and a beautiful place of (final) return."

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The Believer's Heart finds Comfort in the Remembrance of Allah

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Allah said,

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ وَتَطْمَئِنُّ قُلُوبُهُمْ بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ]
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(Those who believed, and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allah.) for their hearts find comfort on the side of Allah, become tranquil when He is remembered and pleased to have Him as their Protector and Supporter. So Allah said,

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[أَلاَ بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ]
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(Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.) and surely, He is worthy of it.

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The Meaning of Tuba

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Allah said,

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[الَّذِينَ آمَنُواْ وَعَمِلُواْ الصَّـلِحَاتِ طُوبَى لَهُمْ وَحُسْنُ مَـَابٍ ]
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(Those who believed, and work righteousness, Tuba is for them and a beautiful place of (final) return.) `Ali bin Abi Talhah reported that Ibn `Abbas said that Tuba means, "Happiness and comfort or refreshment of the eye.'' `Ikrimah said that Tuba means, "How excellent is what they earned,'' while Ad-Dahhak said, "A joy for them.'' Furthermore, Ibrahim An-Nakh`i said that Tuba means, "Better for them,'' while Qatadah said that it is an Arabic word that means, `you have earned a good thing.' In another narration, Qatadah said that `Tuba for them' means, "It is excellent for them,''

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَحُسْنُ مَـَابٍ]
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(and a beautiful place of return.) and final destination. These meanings for Tuba are all synonymous and they do not contradict one another. Imam Ahmad recorded that Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri said that a man asked, "O Allah's Messenger! Tuba for those who saw you and believed in you!'' The Prophet said,

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«طُوبَى لِمَنْ رَآنِي وَآمَنَ بِي، وَطُوبَى ثُمَّ طُوبَى ثُمَّ طُوبَى لِمَنْ آمَنَ بِي وَلَمْ يَرَنِي»
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(Tuba is for he who saw me and believed in me. Tuba, and another Tuba, and another Tuba for he who believed in me, but did not see me.) A man asked, "What is Tuba'' The Prophet said,

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«شَجَرَةٌ فِي الْجَنَّةِ مَسِيرَتُهَا مِائَةُ عَامٍ ثِيَابُ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ تَخْرُجُ مِنْ أَكْمَامِهَا»
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(A tree in Paradise whose width is a hundred years, and the clothes of the people of Paradise are taken from its bark.)

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Quote:<span style="color:#0000FF;">Why I should be responsible for my actions and all these thinks, i cant organize and control it with my soul (aql).
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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">We are all responsible for our actions dear one. This matter is a huge one to talk about, the destiny matter.
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Allah (SWT) sent down revelations and Prophets one after another.

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He (SWT) through the revelations and the Prophets have pointed out what is right from what is wrong.

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After knowing what is right from what is wrong, we are responsible for our actions whether they are right or wrong.

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The actions that we take whether they are right or wrong have been destined, we don't know it, but Allah (SWT) knows it before we even choose which action to do.

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Whether we choose right or wrong, that is our destiny.

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We have been told what's right from wrong, after that we are responsible for these actions.

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">النساء 165
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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">رُسُلًا مُبَشِّرِينَ وَمُنْذِرِينَ لِئَلَّا يَكُونَ لِلنَّاسِ عَلَى اللَّهِ حُجَّةٌ بَعْدَ الرُّسُلِ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ عَزِيزًا حَكِيمًا
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An-Nisa

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</span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[165] Messengers who gave good news as well as warning, that mankind, after (the coming) of the Messengers, should have no plea against Allah: for Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise.
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The Reason Behind Sending the Prophets is to Establish the Proof

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Allah said,

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[رُّسُلاً مُّبَشِّرِينَ وَمُنذِرِينَ]
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<span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">
(Messengers as bearers of good news as well as of warning,) meaning, the Prophets bring good news to those who obey Allah and practice the good things that please Him. They also warn against His punishment and torment for those who defy His commandments. Allah said next,

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[لِئَلاَّ يَكُونَ لِلنَّاسِ عَلَى اللَّهِ حُجَّةٌ بَعْدَ الرُّسُلِ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ عَزِيزاً حَكِيماً]
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(in order that mankind should have no plea against Allah after the Messengers. And Allah is Ever All-Powerful, All-Wise.) Allah sent down His Books and sent His Messengers with good news and warnings. He explained what He likes and is pleased with and what He dislikes and is displeased with. This way, no one will have an excuse with Allah. Allah said in other Ayat,

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَلَوْ أَنَّآ أَهْلَكْنَـهُمْ بِعَذَابٍ مِّن قَبْلِهِ لَقَالُواْ رَبَّنَا لَوْلا أَرْسَلْتَ إِلَيْنَا رَسُولاً فَنَتَّبِعَ ءَايَـتِكَ مِن قَبْلِ أَن نَّذِلَّ وَنَخْزَى ]
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(And if We had destroyed them with a torment before this, they would surely have said: "Our Lord! If only You had sent us a Messenger, we should certainly have followed Your Ayat, before we were humiliated and disgraced.'') and,

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَلَوْلا أَن تُصِيبَهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ بِمَا قَدَّمَتْ أَيْدِيهِمْ]
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(And if (We had) not (sent you to the people of Makkah) in case a calamity should seize them for (the deeds) that their hands have sent forth. ) It is recorded in the Two Sahihs that Ibn Mas`ud said that the Messenger of Allah said,

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«لَا أَحَدَ أَغْيَرُ مِنَ اللهِ، مِنْ أَجْلِ ذلِكَ حَرَّمَ الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ، وَلَا أَحَدْ أَحَبْ إِلَيْهِ الْمَدْحُ مِنَ اللهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ، مِنْ أَجْلِ ذلِكَ مَدَحَ نَفْسَهُ، وَلَا أَحَدَ أَحَبْ إِلَيْهِ الْعُذْرُ مِنَ اللهِ، مِنْ أَجْلِ ذلِكَ بَعَثَ النَّبِيِّينَ مُبَشِّرِينَ وَمُنْذِرِين»
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(No one is more jealous than Allah. This is why He prohibited all types of sin committed in public or secret. No one likes praise more than Allah, and this is why He has praised Himself. No one likes to give excuse more than Allah, and this is why He sent the Prophets as bearers of good news and as warners.) In another narration, the Prophet said,

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«مِنْ أَجْلِ ذلِكَ أَرْسَلَ رُسُلَهُ وَأَنْزَلَ كُتُبَه»
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(And this is why He sent His Messengers and revealed His Books.)

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Quote:<span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Sometimes i wish broke everythink what is in my way, also in in public or in shops etc... Why I have wish not to life? Why i have to wish not to be born
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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">This is the work of the shaitan, you are letting him take over your sanity and good deeds by thinking like that.
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You need to come close to Allah (SWT) as I said by reading the Quran every day or night.

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The shaitan is our number 1 enemy, you need to be strong and take him as an enemy and fight him back.

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Come close to Allah (SWT) and he (SWT) will help you become strong and help you fight back the shaitan.

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">فاطر 6
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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ فَاتَّخِذُوهُ عَدُوًّا إِنَّمَا يَدْعُو حِزْبَهُ لِيَكُونُوا مِنْ أَصْحَابِ السَّعِيرِ
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Fatir

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</span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[6] Verily Satan is an enemy to you: so treat him as an enemy. He only invites his adherents, that they may become companions of the Blazing Fire.
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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[إِنَّ الشَّيْطَـنَ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ فَاتَّخِذُوهُ عَدُوّاً]
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(Surely, Shaytan is an enemy to you, so take (treat) him as an enemy.) meaning, `he has declared his enmity towards you, so be even more hostile towards him, oppose him and do not believe the things with which he tries to tempt you.'

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[إِنَّمَا يَدْعُو حِزْبَهُ لِيَكُونُواْ مِنْ أَصْحَـبِ السَّعِيرِ]
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(He only invites his followers that they may become the dwellers of the blazing Fire.) means, `he only wants to misguide you so that you will enter the blazing Fire with him.' This is a manifest enemy, and we ask Allah, the All-Powerful and Almighty to make us enemies of Shaytan and to make us followers of the Book of Allah and of the way of His Messengers. For He is able to do whatever He wills and He will respond to all supplication. This is like the Ayah:

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَإِذَا قُلْنَا لِلْمَلَـئِكَةِ اسْجُدُواْ لآِدَمَ فَسَجَدُواْ إِلاَّ إِبْلِيسَ كَانَ مِنَ الْجِنِّ فَفَسَقَ عَنْ أَمْرِ رَبِّهِ أَفَتَتَّخِذُونَهُ وَذُرِّيَّتَهُ أَوْلِيَآءَ مِن دُونِى وَهُمْ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ بِئْسَ لِلظَّـلِمِينَ بَدَلاً ]
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(And (remember) when We said to the angels: "Prostrate yourselves unto Adam.'' So they prostrated themselves except Iblis. He was one of the Jinn; he disobeyed the command of his Lord. Will you then take him (Iblis) and his offspring as protectors and helpers rather than Me while they are enemies to you What an evil is the exchange for the wrongdoers.) (18:50)

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Quote:<span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">or to live in the time with rasulullah saw.
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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">This is a good sign dear one, I too some times wish the same thing and completely understand what you mean, but remeber the Hadith I posted here:
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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«طُوبَى لِمَنْ رَآنِي وَآمَنَ بِي، وَطُوبَى ثُمَّ طُوبَى ثُمَّ طُوبَى لِمَنْ آمَنَ بِي وَلَمْ يَرَنِي»
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(Tuba is for he who saw me and believed in me. Tuba, and another Tuba, and another Tuba for he who believed in me, but did not see me.) A man asked, "What is Tuba'' The Prophet said,

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«شَجَرَةٌ فِي الْجَنَّةِ مَسِيرَتُهَا مِائَةُ عَامٍ ثِيَابُ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ تَخْرُجُ مِنْ أَكْمَامِهَا»
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(A tree in Paradise whose width is a hundred years, and the clothes of the people of Paradise are taken from its bark.)

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Imagine the day you finally meet the Prophet (SAAWS) and he is smiling as you greet him, and he huges you and tells you how proud he is by how you followed him and obeyed Allah (SWT) and him (SAAWS).
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Quote:<span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Why I feel me alone in this world...
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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">You are not alone dear one, we are all here to help you, comfort you and assure you that we are the guided ones by Allah (SWT) and he (SWT) protects us.
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You can always come and talk to me with whatever on your mind and I will try to help.

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Quote:<span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">When I give a weapen to a guy and this guy kill with my weapon some1 am I not responsible too for this action of killing? Is these people for nothing responsible for my actions and feelings, who guide me in this situation. IS THERE NO ONE WHO CAN ME UNDERSTAND?
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Why poeple are blind to me, what I have to do...

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">There are a lot of ways to gain good deeds to erase the old ones that you accumelated through the years dear one.
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You just need to find them and keep doing them.

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Even just praying your 5 prayers erases your sins, so imagine if you come closer to Allah (SWT), read the Quran and every letter you read in it is considered a good

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deed up to 10 times and even more, learn the Sunnah and apply it to your daily life, help the needy, etc..., there are so many ways that one of us can earn good deeds and read this Ayat:

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">إِلَّا مَنْ تَابَ وَآمَنَ وَعَمِلَ عَمَلًا صَالِحًا فَأُولَئِكَ يُبَدِّلُ اللَّهُ سَيِّئَاتِهِمْ حَسَنَاتٍ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَحِيمًا
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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">وَمَنْ تَابَ وَعَمِلَ صَالِحًا فَإِنَّهُ يَتُوبُ إِلَى اللَّهِ مَتَابًا
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Al-Furqan

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</span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[70] Unless he repents, believes and works righteous deeds, for Allah will change the evil of such persons into good, and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful,
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[71] And whoever repents and does good has truly turned to Allah with an (acceptable) conversion,

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[إِنَّ اللَّهَ لاَ يَغْفِرُ أَن يُشْرَكَ بِهِ وَيَغْفِرُ مَا دُونَ ذَلِكَ لِمَن يَشَآءُ]
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(Verily, Allah forgives not that partners should be set up with Him, but He forgives except that to whom He wills) (4:48). And in the authentic Sunnah, it is reported from the Messenger of Allah that the repentance of a murderer is acceptable, as was stated in the story of the person who killed one hundred men and then repented, and Allah accepted his repentance, and other Hadiths.

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[فَأُوْلَـئِكَ يُبَدِّلُ اللَّهُ سَيِّئَاتِهِمْ حَسَنَـتٍ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُوراً رَّحِيماً]
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(for those, Allah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.) Imam Ahmad recorded that Abu Dharr, may Allah be pleased with him, said, "The Messenger of Allah said:

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(I know the last person who will be brought forth from Hell, and the last person who will enter Paradise. A man will be brought and it will be said, "Take away his major sins and ask him about his minor sins.'' So it will be said to him: "On such and such a day, you did such and such, and on such and such a day, you did such and such.'' He will say, "Yes, and he will not be able to deny anything.'' Then it will be said to him: "For every evil deed you now have one good merit.'' He will say: "O Lord, I did things that I do not see here.'') He (Abu Dharr) said: "And the Messenger of Allah smiled so broadly that his molars could be seen.'' Muslim recorded it. Ibn Abi Hatim recorded that Abu Jabir heard Makhul say, "A very old man with sunken eyes came and said, `O Messenger of Allah, a man betrayed others and did immoral deeds, and there was no evil deed which he did not do. If (his sins) were to be distributed among the whole of mankind, they would all be doomed. Is there any repentance for him'' The Messenger of Allah said:

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«أَأَسْلَمْتَ؟»
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(Have you become Muslim) He said, "As for me, I bear witness that there is no God but Allah Alone, with no partner or associate, and that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger.'' The Prophet said:

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«فَإِنَّ اللهَ غَافِرٌ لَكَ مَا كُنْتَ كَذَلِكَ، وَمُبَدِّلُ سَيِّئَاتِكَ حَسَنَات»
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(Allah will forgive you for whatever you have done like that, and will replace your evil deeds with good merits.) The man said: "O Messenger of Allah, even my betrayals and immoral actions'' The Prophet said:

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">«وَغَدَرَاتُكَ وَفَجَرَاتُك»
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(Even your betrayals and immoral actions.) "The man went away saying `La ilaha illallah' and `Allahu Akbar.''' Allah tells us how His mercy extends to all His creatrues, and that whoever among them repents to Him, He will accept his repentance for any sin, great or small. Allah says:

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَمَن تَابَ وَعَمِلَ صَـلِحاً فَإِنَّهُ يَتُوبُ إِلَى اللَّهِ مَتاباً ]
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(And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds; then indeed he has repented to Allah Mataba.) meaning, Allah will accept his repentance. This is like the Ayat:

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَمَن يَعْمَلْ سُوءاً أَوْ يَظْلِمْ نَفْسَهُ ثُمَّ يَسْتَغْفِرِ اللَّهَ يَجِدِ اللَّهَ غَفُوراً رَّحِيماً ]
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(And whoever does evil or wrongs himself but afterwards seeks Allah's forgiveness, he will find Allah Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful) (4:110).

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[أَلَمْ يَعْلَمُواْ أَنَّ اللَّهَ هُوَ يَقْبَلُ التَّوْبَةَ عَنْ عِبَادِهِ]
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(Know they not that Allah accepts repentance from His servants...) (9:104).

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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">[قُلْ يعِبَادِىَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُواْ عَلَى أَنفُسِهِمْ لاَ تَقْنَطُواْ مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ]
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(Say: "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves! Despair not of the mercy of Allah.'') (39:53) - for those who repent to Him.

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Quote:<span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">I know, The Life is a test, this is what I hear always... But I think if Rasulullah saw were now and He would me advice more as to say life is Test.
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</span></span></span></span><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Here is how Allah (SWT) described life:
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العنكبوت 64


وَمَا هَذِهِ الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا لَهْوٌ وَلَعِبٌ وَإِنَّ الدَّارَ الْآخِرَةَ لَهِيَ الْحَيَوَانُ لَوْ كَانُوا يَعْلَمُونَ



Al-`Ankabut


[64] What is the life of this world but amusement and play? But verily the Home in the Hereafter, that is life indeed, if they but knew.



Allah tells us how insignificant and transient this world is, and how it will soon end. All that it is, is amusement and play:




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<span style="color:#0000FF;">وَمَا هَـذِهِ الْحَيَوةُ الدُّنْيَآ إِلاَّ لَهْوٌ وَلَعِبٌ وَإِنَّ الدَّارَ الاٌّخِرَةَ لَهِىَ الْحَيَوَانُ لَوْ كَانُواْ يَعْلَمُونَ - فَإِذَا رَكِبُواْ فِى الْفُلْكِ دَعَوُاْ اللَّهَ مُخْلِصِينَ لَهُ الدِّينَ فَلَمَّا نَجَّاهُمْ إِلَى الْبَرِّ إِذَا هُمْ يُشْرِكُونَ - لِيَكْفُرُواْ بِمَآ ءَاتَيْنَـهُمْ وَلِيَتَمَتَّعُواْ فَسَوْفَ يَعلَمُونَ ]
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(64. And this life of the world is only an amusement and a play! Verily, the home of the Hereafter -- that is the life indeed, if they but knew.) (65. And when they embark on a ship, they invoke Allah, making their faith pure for Him only, but when He brings them safely to land, behold, they give a share of their worship to others.) (66. So that they become ingrate for that which We have given them, and that they take their enjoyment, but they will come to know.)





<span style="color:#0000FF;">[وَإِنَّ الدَّارَ الاٌّخِرَةَ لَهِىَ الْحَيَوَانُ]
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(Verily, the home of the Hereafter -- that is the life indeed,) means, the true everlasting life that will never end, but will continue forever and ever.





<span style="color:#0000FF;">[لَوْ كَانُواْ يَعْلَمُونَ]
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(if they but knew.) means, they would prefer that which will last over that which will pass away. Then Allah says that at times of calamity, the idolators call upon Him alone, with no partner or associate, so why do they not do that all the time.





<b>Arabic and English Tafsir is from Tafsir Ibn-Katheer
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I am sure that you will choose the hereafter instead of the Dunia.




<b>As I said earliar, rush and start reading the Quran on a daily basis dear one, no matter how much anybody advices you of what to do, ONLY Allah (SWT) can guide you but you have to show sincerity and initiative.
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Insha' Allah I will be around for you when you need me.



Your brother in Allah.

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As-salaam Alikum.



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Quote:I can image me, what people would me call now...I dont care what people call me. I know I m not this call and Allah swt know me, better than me. We can never explain and imagine how Allah swt is great and powerfull. We know only this what allah swt allow us to know..Wassalam

Don't worry about others dear one, they always think what they want and most of them are wrong.


They always quote Ayat from the Quran and Ahadith to justify their thoughts and leave other Ayat and Ahadith that prove them wrong, and they don't even know that there are Ayat that over rules and cancels others out. الناسخ والمنسوخ which is a big part of the Shariah, but who wants to know, only Allah (SWT) guides people to his light.


As I adviced you, stick to the Quran and Sunnah, know it well and apply it to your daily life and make Islam your way of life and don't worry about others.


Fe Aman Allah.


As-salaam Alikum.

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Jazzakallakhayr. First, it is anybody or somebody its not the point.


I m brother. A brother, muslim brother, married and without child.


All what I will is, not this world. I m disappointed of muslims. I put this and this is true. all of them should read my message and know and so we pay us eachother in yawmulqiyamah.


I read quran, I know ayahs. I read hadith and that make me more unwishfull for this world.


Today, is another day, for me, I lose more mood for life.


I dont ask all my questions. Because I dont get right answer what helps me.


I m sory, you dont help me anyway. You told me, what I knew, you told me what I hear so often. I also heard similar words of them who is responsible.


The suggest, I should call a revert sister via phone and send her via mail adult thinks and annoy her. and this is very bad suggest to me. A sister, married sister, i realy respected her with her knowledge, ask me Do I like her. even I m married and she too, and I send so much greating to her husband. Did you called a jew in chat and in islamic forum a jew? Did someone put to your thread offended thinks? And got forced to be killed from some1es fiance?


This is a sample of whole thinks what I got. You dont know everythink.


Do you have islamic feelings? Can you image my soul sitiation after so much offended thinks?. This is still in me.


I have to live with these thoughts and these thoughts kill me anyday.


The different is, when I read quran and some hadith what is similar to my happen so I feel me more to death and ackheraat and lose my lifelust. Did you know I dont have anymore dawah strive? I lose it.


Its is realy sad, I trusted to them, I thought never I could be damaged by them.


When I lose my wife, then it is everythink finished...


I remember some1es words to me, we gave you a lection. Yes. Lection. Allah swt will give a lection surely too. But Allah swt s lection better and absolut powerfull.


In short words, I have got a deal against me, over them, I thought they love me for sake of Allah swt. But they only talk and send me mails to deal against me and spy me... Was this all for sake of Allah swt. I feel me safe by nonislamic forums.


No one is better than Allah swt.


I m sure and i know, I m also be watched here, what I put or so, from them who know me earlier time. They still near to me. Also via messenger but i m blocked so i cant see them online but they mee. Allah azza wa jalla jalaluhu reward them who spy me, and get information about me. There is not much to talk. They are blind for now and they have rest now in this dunia... I find a way how to make me bussy with life. Good or bad anyway.


Jazzakallahukhayr...wassalam...

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Br. They should give my life back.So i forgot everythink..............But they cant give it. Not their knowledge and not their money can give my life and my family life back.


There is different between me and them. I m most bad muslimperson on the world and they the best muslim and dawah worker in world...


But there some other different thinks, they never got it...also their knowledge is not enougth for this...wassalam...

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