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A Statement On The Beheading!
#81

Hello all, I am not Muslim. I am an American. I am not christian. I am what I call a believer. I believe in what is good. I believe that every man is created equal.


I would not be a good person in your eyes, but I am not a bad person. I wish no pain on any other man. I do not worship and thank god everyday (as much as I should). At one point I was even a non-believer... which did not stop me from not being evil. It's always been an internal part of me to respect any living being, and to help any other being that helps others. On the other hand, I do not take care of my body, what god gave me. I get angry with and act rudely towards my loved ones.


When I did not believe, I wanted to. My father was taken from me when I was very young.


I speak to god now, because hes held me before. Now I know he is there and would not deny that ever again. Do you think he will punish me for this? God is God, he has already forgiven me, leaving me trembling and crying with joy, the feeling is something you can never explain.


The Muslim way is something I have been oblivious to until the recent happenings. Actually oblivious to anyone other than my own. Now that I have been reading and learning, I see the Muslim is another person like myself, yet raised to understand better than my own.


Although I have been raised to sin with no shame, I have grown to shame. Yet I am happy because I am one of God's children. I lower my head and know I do not deserve forgiveness, yet God assures me that I am not evil.


I do not believe the Muslim is wrong in what they do, but I envy the Muslim for being a great child.


About the injust executions by the terrorists... How could any Muslim agree with this. No man anywhere on this world has the right to sentence another man to the end of their life. Something that can never be replaced. These executions were done to people who had not been proven to be murderers. Murderers are people who kill because they are evil. It makes these evil peoples hearts happy to take the life from another man. These are people born of equality, but corrupted by this world and choose to follow their own God, one who rewards them for being evil and indulging in what makes them happy, no matter how much it hurts another soul. This world is what scars and batters the soul, not the other souls living on it. Once a soul has succumb to the evils of the world and get past the consciousness of the evil possibilities, then they cannot be saved. These terrorists have realized that there is no turning back and are struggling to keep themselves good in their minds.


No, I do not believe in the war, but I do believe in stopping what Saddam was doing to his people, and helping your different forms of followers to not KILL each other if we need to. I do not believe in the side quest of gaining to the economy from the main quest. This is Bush's doing yes, but he is simply trying to be a good leader of our country and maintain our way of life, I do find that rather appaling by taking your resources, but he is just trying to be good. The soldiers that fight under Bush are NOT Bush, but people who believe in the equality of mankind. Do you think they are there to put their life on the lines for money? Of course it is their career, but their career is to help and protect people. Everyone has to make a living, and a noble one it is. These soldiers are not there to kill innocent people, yet to stop people from fighting. I do not believe in this way myself as I believe no man who thinks they are fighting for their way of life and homeland should be killed, yet this is not a possibility to capture all alive during war... It is sad indeed.


The reason for this lengthy post is for you and as many other believers of every variety to hopefully understand that there is atleast one of us that are good, but many many more here are good people, only confused by this world, but we HAVE NOT given up our faith. Believe me, everyone one of us with good in our hearts is saddened by our actions, as you are saddened by the actions of so-called members of your religion.


I do not urge you to change your religion but just to understand, if you are angry and you have let the world hurt you and make you confused, God will not punish you, he is happy to hold you when you are at the worst time in your life, then you will truly understand what I mean.


Thank You for reading this, God be with you, keep you from suffering, pain, and hardships. It is time for all of Gods children to pray for the end of jealousy and fear, to give us the strength to root out the evil and give us the right to judge them as they have judged the innocent.

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#82

this is becoming very interesting [Image: smile.gif]


so many opinions ... verstile.. healthy environment,


i hope we all benefit from it eventually.

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#83

<b> Mukhtar </b> first of all i'm happy for you.. becoming a believer of GOD.


i pray to him to make your faith even stronger by each day that goes by.


AMEEN.


secondly i appreciate your post very much, there is a lot of logic in it.


i hope you'll understand my reply too, Here goes:-




Quote:I believe in what is good. I believe that every man is created equal.
I would not be a good person in your eyes

well let's see ( who am i to judge! [Image: blink.gif] but ..):-


1- a believer of god.


2- believes in goodness.


3- believing in equality.


you seem like a very good person to me [Image: smile.gif]




Quote:About the injust executions by the terrorists... How could any Muslim agree with this. No man anywhere on this world has the right to sentence another man to the end of their life.

you're right not every muslim agrees with this kind of acts, but before you condemn you have to analyze the situation that produced these actions of violence IF THEY WERE COMMITED BY MUSLIMS THAT IS.


<b> give them the benefit of the doubt .. WILL YOU</b>


you certainly gave BUSH, his war and his army that benefit, so please be fair.


[Image: rolleyes.gif]


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Quote:These terrorists have realized that there is no turning back and are struggling to keep themselves good in their minds.

just like bush and blair: they keep on lying and lying about WMD and saddam chemicals and his threat, to keep their people afraid hence paralize their ability to think logically.


and that keeps those two feeling real good about themselves [Image: dry.gif]


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Quote:No, I do not believe in the war, but I do believe in stopping what Saddam was doing to his people, and helping your different forms of followers to not KILL each other if we need to. I do not believe in the side quest of gaining to the economy from the main quest. This is Bush's doing yes, but he is simply trying to be a good leader of our country and maintain our way of life, I do find that rather appaling by taking your resources, but he is just trying to be good.

ouch [Image: blink.gif]


just a second here brother mukhtar.... [Image: huh.gif]




Quote:but I do believe in stopping what Saddam was doing to his people

what is it with you guys, you believe anything you're told, yes saddam was not democratic, but really who is?


PUTIN maybe! oh no wait he's killing chchnyians because they want a state of their own.


SHARON oh no he's doing the same with palestinians since the 70's


UK with irish


americans with indians


china with hong kong


saddam was the same as all of these no good govt.s


but i didnt see any one raising a hand against those nations, WHY?


believe it or not iraqi people still calls saddam as their leader, not out of affiction may be but they believe that he wasn't as bad as the american occupation who came to liberate iraqies from DECENT LIVING.




Quote:and helping your different forms of followers to not KILL each other if we need to.

yes.. by killing them.. if we need to.


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Quote:This is Bush's doing yes, but he is simply trying to be a good leader of our country and maintain our way of life, I do find that rather appaling by taking your resources, but he is just trying to be good.

it was bush - the father -who forced sanctions on the iraqi people's needs for more than a decade:- 1000 000 iraqi children died in result of that action.


after the weakning of iraq, bush junior came to finish the job misleading the world on the real cause of the war ..


lying and lying and lying


he is a big liar how could he be good leader in your opinion.. he's misleading you people!


he's taking your sons and daughters to go and fight to maintain his way of life..


the economy is going down, you have no health insurance, the dead soldier's family get nothing once their son - or daughter-is dead.


why don't bush send his daughter to iraq if he was so fond of liberty.. why send yours.


only one congressman has a son inlisted in army forces!!! [Image: blink.gif]


why is that.. are their sons more preciouse than yours? [Image: huh.gif]


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Quote:The reason for this lengthy post is for you and as many other believers of every variety to hopefully understand that there is atleast one of us that are good, but many many more here are good people, only confused by this world, but we HAVE NOT given up our faith. Believe me, everyone one of us with good in our hearts is saddened by our actions, as you are saddened by the actions of so-called members of your religion.

I believe strongly that americn people are good people, but unfortunatly many of them think muslim are not that good.


you guys think we hate you [Image: blink.gif]


that's not right, we don't hate americans, we hate nobody.


unlike what you think of us. .. we know about you more than you know about us.


like you : we are educated, we get interested in other cultures, we read.


the problem is you let your govt. walk all over you..


sitting in your chairs watchin THE NEWS they tell you only what they want you to be told ...


SENCORED FACTS or HALF THE TRUTH.


but you must have your own opinion don't let others force any thing on you.


only then you'll understand why this world is corrupted.


may god guide us all to the right path


amen

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#84

to <b> JON</b>


WELCOME TO THIS BOARD to begin :-




Quote:ALLAH URGED US TO DEFEND OUR SELVES .
THEY KILL US WE KILL THEM >>> SIMPLE AS THAT.


AN EYE FOR AN EYE A TOOTH FOR A TOOTH , AND HE WHO BEGAN IS THE UNJUST ........ ALLAH SAID SO IN IS HOLY QURA'AN.

that's my post [Image: rolleyes.gif]




Quote:No wonder this world is in the turmoil when we have brain washed such as this english, american hater!

no i'm not an english, american hater, i wonder if you are muslim hater [Image: huh.gif]


naah perhaps you just misunderstood my post [Image: unsure.gif]


yeah i'm sure that's it [Image: tongue.gif]




Quote:This sort of behaver cannons down to younger generations, and in the end we are goin to be fighting a endless battle.

ok fair enough [Image: wink.gif] just pull your troops back home, stop invading countries, killing people and sucking thier oil.. would ya [Image: dry.gif]




Quote:You people preech hate towards us english therefore have the neck to drain our country with your benefits scams and take advantage of our over generous education.

you're beeing racist [Image: wink.gif]


i don't see your point though [Image: huh.gif]


you take our resources invade our countries kill our people and we suppose to be ok with it [Image: blink.gif]


then you call us english haters if we are not ok with it and call for resistance [Image: blink.gif]


for the love of god... what logic is that.




Quote:If your islam is that great then go back to the country from were that become.


If not then consider your self british and a british citizen

al humdu lilah - thanks to allah - iam a muslim and arabic woman... i have never visited the west although i would love to.


and even if i were british and a non muslim - god forbbid- i would have condemned war first then condemned the beheading if they were unjust.




Quote:President Bush is a good man we need more of him he will capitalize and he will win he wants peace and he shall get peace.

no he is not a man of peace... he is a man of war


a dirty war .... no body is benefiting from but him and his people


and by his people i don't mean americans .. no he doesn't care about them nor their life style or thier well beeing,


he only cares about thier votes and taxes and there sons and daughters - sending them to fight his war-.


go watch 9\11 the movie, you'll see interesting stuff for that matter.


once again welcome aboard

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#85

Peace [Image: smile.gif]


Mukhtar , welcome to our board, I would like to welcome u and I hope u will like it here.




Quote:I would not be a good person in your eyes

[Image: huh.gif] Who said that, what made u say or even assume that we do not c u as a good person , all human beings are equal, there are the good and bad in beleivers and non beleivers. And our prophet taught us that there is always a good side in a person and there is the bad side, so we should seek for the good side in him. [Image: smile.gif]




Quote:When I did not believe, I wanted to. My father was taken from me when I was very young.
I speak to god now, because hes held me before. Now I know he is there and would not deny that ever again. Do you think he will punish me for this? God is God, he has already forgiven me, leaving me trembling and crying with joy, the feeling is something you can never explain.

Welcome back Mukhtar, in beleiving in God that is, and beleive me if u seek his assistance more , he will enlighten u, and no he will not punish u for the past, he is Allah the all forgiving, talk to him more, only u and him, with NO barriers, no mediator, only u and him, and u will c, because u r good at heart he will open the way for u and show u the light.[Image: smile.gif]




Quote:Although I have been raised to sin with no shame, I have grown to shame. Yet I am happy because I am one of God's children. I lower my head and know I do not deserve forgiveness, yet God assures me that I am not evil.
I do not believe the Muslim is wrong in what they do, but I envy the Muslim for being a great child.

Every human being is forgiven by God if he repents and not return to his evil doing, by knowing that u commited a sin and admiting it, and not repeating it, he will forgive u God loves us, it is us that are disobedient by not listening to him, but still forgiving when we return and confess of our bad deeds. [Image: smile.gif] and not confessing to other humans like ourselves asking for their pardon . [Image: blink.gif]




Quote:About the injust executions by the terrorists... How could any Muslim agree with this. No man anywhere on this world has the right to sentence another man to the end of their life.

U r correct, and don't beleive that a true muslim would do that, did u read this post by brother Qutoz.




Quote: i found interesting article regarding Nick Berg executioners

http://www.khilafah.com/home/category.ph...29&TagID=2


in brief : after studying the video it was noticed that Executioner were wearing gold rings which is forbidden by Islam....

In islam muslim men are forbidden to wear gold.




Quote:This is Bush's doing yes, but he is simply trying to be a good leader of our country and maintain our way of life, I do find that rather appaling by taking your resources, but he is just trying to be good.

Be more reasonable and read this:


http://www.americanprogress.org/site/pp.as...RJ8OVF&b=107988


http://www.antiwar.com/orig/mcgovern.php?articleid=2944 http://www.americanfreepress.net/Mideast/W...ers_really.html


http://www.americanfreepress.net/9-11/9-11.html


The link below is rich, I did not read all of it myself, well it will keep us a bit busy [Image: smile.gif]


http://www.911sharethetruth.com/


and if u want more links i can provide u with more, but the above is enough and from americans like u.


Enjoy, and <i><b>Everybody</b></i>, americans, stop saying that Bush is a good


man. He is deceiving u open up your eyes and admit the truth for once, and don't


forget the <i><b>Musad</b></i> (the israeli intelegence), and just stop sticking


everything on Islam and Arabs.


We do not hate americans, we are not racists [Image: happy.gif] , those who say we are, are the


ones who are racists themselves.


Again welcome Mukhtar, and I hope u will c the truth fianlly, And I did not mean to offend u in any way, I just want u to c the truth and open your eyes wide [Image: cool.gif] , and remove those black glasses and c the truth.


Peace

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#86

Quote: Subhan Allah, for 1425 and counting, there was always some one saying those nonsense.
The man how started it 1425 years ago was also called Ibn, Ibn Sallool that is, compare him to his son and you will see the difference. [Image: wink.gif]

Asslamu Aalykum brother Abunuran.


the Muslim/Muslimah owe his/her brother/sister an advise and our prophet (peace be upon him) ordered us to help our brother when he commit injustice by guiding him and so....i believe that your response which is quoted is extremely harsh and unfair....the comparison is a big mistake. i don't agree with 90% of what Ibn_Kumuna35 said in his post though.

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#87


salam brothers


I think if we implement my post, with the links provided, then we will know who are the true terrorists are, then Ibn will be correct, if this is what he meant [Image: ph34r.gif]


Salam

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#88

Quote: <blockquote data-ipsquote="" class="ipsQuote" data-ipsquote-username="Abunuran" data-cite="Abunuran" data-ipsquote-contentapp="forums" data-ipsquote-contenttype="forums" data-ipsquote-contentid="1658" data-ipsquote-contentclass="forums_Topic"><div> Subhan Allah, for 1425 and counting, there was always some one saying those nonsense.
The man how started it 1425 years ago was also called Ibn, Ibn Sallool that is, compare him to his son and you will see the difference. [Image: wink.gif]

Asslamu Aalykum brother Abunuran.


the Muslim/Muslimah owe his/her brother/sister an advise and our prophet (peace be upon him) ordered us to help our brother when he commit injustice by guiding him and so....i believe that your response which is quoted is extremely harsh and unfair....the comparison is a big mistake. i don't agree with 90% of what Ibn_Kumuna35 said in his post though.

</div></blockquote>

as salam alykom brother Qutuz


Jazakum Allah khairan katheeran for the advise, Insh a Allah brother Abunuran will take it in consideration. Yes it is not only harsh, we can not simply lable someone as such.


Brother Ibn thank u for taking the time to reply inspite of your time and movement, me too I had computer problems.


I didnt get a change to fully read your post, however, building on another post in which u referred to us muslims trying to pin our problems on something such as colonial acts, Jews or so.


Pls refer to Quran I think we are common on using it as source:


"Many of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) wish that if they could turn you away as disbelievers after you have believed, out of envy from their ownselves, even, after the truth (that Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم is Allah's Messenger) has become manifest unto them. But forgive and overlook, till Allah brings His Command. Verily, Allah is Able to do all things." Quran 2:109


"Never will the Jews nor the Christians be pleased with you (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) till you follow their religion. Say: "Verily, the Guidance of Allah (i.e. Islamic Monotheism) that is the (only) Guidance. And if you (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) were to follow their (Jews and Christians) desires after what you have received of Knowledge (i.e. the Qur'an), then you would have against Allah neither any Wali (protector or guardian) nor any helper.


." (Quran 2:120)


"And they say, "Be Jews or Christians, then you will be guided." Say (to them, O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم), "Nay, (We follow) only the religion of Ibrahim (Abraham), Hanifa [islamic Monotheism, i.e. to worship none but Allah (Alone)], and he was not of the mushrikun (those who worshipped others along with Allah)."


(Quran 2:135)


"They ask you concerning fighting in the Sacred Months (i.e. 1st, 7th, 11th and 12th months of the Islamic calendar). Say, "Fighting therein is a great (transgression) <b>but a greater (transgression) with Allah is to prevent mankind from following the Way of Allah, to disbelieve in Him,</b> to prevent access to Al-Masjid-al-Haram (at Makkah), and to drive out its inhabitants, and Al-Fitnah is worse than killing. And they will never cease fighting you until they turn you back from your religion (Islamic Monotheism) if they can. And whosoever of you turns back from his religion and dies as a disbeliever, then his deeds will be lost in this life and in the Hereafter, and they will be the dwellers of the Fire. They will abide therein forever." (Quran 2:217)


Look at how Quran is stating their position, we can not deny this can we brother Ibn?? In a way or the other, they strive to destroy. Brother we must be very careful not to let our major concern for the image of our religion drag us into an unwanted area.


U simply dont know for example what is happening to women who choose willingly to abide by the Islamic dress code in Tunis, some of them are raped before the eyes of their children, another her father was harshly beaten in front of her own eyes for not being able to force her take it off and so forth.


U just collected all cases, taking info from western media, and decide accordingly.


we have a strong battle to fight brother a strong one.

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#89

Quote:Asslamu Aalykum brother Abunuran.
the Muslim/Muslimah owe his/her brother/sister an advise and our prophet (peace be upon him) ordered us to help our brother when he commit injustice by guiding him and so....i believe that your response which is quoted is extremely harsh and unfair....the comparison is a big mistake. i don't agree with 90% of what Ibn_Kumuna35 said in his post though.



Quote:as salam alykom brother Qutuz
Jazakum Allah khairan katheeran for the advise, Insh a Allah brother Abunuran will take it in consideration. Yes it is not only harsh, we can not simply lable someone as such.

Wa Alikum As-salaam brother Qutuz,


You and the sister are entitled to your opinions, however if these opinions conflict with Allah (SWT) guidance, then it shouldn't be taken as an advice.


Both your responses show your lack of knowledge with the Shariah and Allah (SWT) orders to his Prophet (SAAWS) and us which I do follow, not the advice which conflicts with such orders.


While you both choose to label me as harsh, unfair and can't make such judgment, here is how Allah (SWT) labels people such as myself:


Al-Maidah


[54] O ye who believe! if any from among you turn back from his Faith, soon will Allah produce a people whom He will love as they will love Him, lowly with the Believers, mighty against the Rejecters, fighting in the Way of Allah, and never afraid of the reproaches of such as find fault. That is the Grace of Allah, which He will bestow on whom He pleaseth. And Allah encompasseth all, and He knoweth all things.



[55] Your (real) friends are (no less than) Allah, His Messenger, and the (Fellowship of) Believers, those who establish regular prayers and regular charity, and they bow down humbly (in worship).


[56] As to those who turn (for friendship) to Allah, His Messenger, and the (Fellowship of) Believers, it is the Fellowship of Allah that must certainly triumph.


يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا مَنْ يَرْتَدَّ مِنْكُمْ عَنْ دِينِهِ فَسَوْفَ يَأْتِي اللَّهُ بِقَوْمٍ يُحِبُّهُمْ وَيُحِبُّونَهُ أَذِلَّةٍ عَلَى الْمُؤْمِنِينَ أَعِزَّةٍ عَلَى الْكَافِرِينَ يُجَاهِدُونَ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ وَلَا يَخَافُونَ لَوْمَةَ لَائِمٍ ذَلِكَ فَضْلُ اللَّهِ يُؤْتِيهِ مَنْ يَشَاءُ وَاللَّهُ وَاسِعٌ



إِنَّمَا وَلِيُّكُمُ اللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا الَّذِينَ يُقِيمُونَ الصَّلَاةَ وَيُؤْتُونَ الزَّكَاةَ وَهُمْ رَاكِعُونَ


وَمَنْ يَتَوَلَّ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا فَإِنَّ حِزْبَ اللَّهِ هُمُ الْغَالِبُونَ


I choose Allah (SWT) love and he loves me back Al-Hamdu ll'Allah and through him (SWT) I am able to see and make such judgments and that is the Grace of Allah (SWT), which He (SWT) will bestow on whom He (SWT) pleaseth.


My friends are Allah (SWT), his Prophet (SAAWS) and the believers who are following Allah (SWT). I am very humble with them, yet very firm and mighty against the rejecters and hypocrites.


Al-fat-h


[29] Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah; and those who are with him are strong against Unbelievers, (but) compassionate amongst each other. Thou wilt see them bow and prostrate themselves (in prayer), seeking Grace from Allah and (His) Good Pleasure. On their faces are their marks, (being) the traces of their prostration. This is their similitude in the Taurat; and their similitude in the Gospel is: like a seed which sends forth its blade, then makes it strong; it then becomes thick, and it stands on its own stem, (filling) the sowers with wonder and delight. As a result, it fills the Unbelievers with rage at them. Allah has promised those among them who believe and do righteous deeds, Forgiveness, and a great Reward.



I choose to be with the Prophet (SAAWS), to fight in the Way of Allah (SWT), and never be afraid or worried about people’s opinions such as yours and of the reproaches of such as find fault.


While I am also lenient with those who show interest in learning about Islam, but never with those who attack Islam.


What you don't understand too, and only Allah (SWT) guides people to realize so is that if you are ignoring such Ayat and choosing to be nice and lenient with those 2 groups, then you are committing a very bad sin which is disobeying Allah (SWT) orders and all your other good deeds might not be accepted.


I really don't understand how you can say what you are claiming when it is clear in the Quran how Allah (SWT) labeled them and ordered us to deal with them.


My only guess as I said before is lack of knowledge, which is another bad sin, at least, I repeat at least try to gain more knowledge before you come accusing others with something other than Allah (SWT) described his believers whom he loves and they love him (SWT).


FEAR ALLAH PEOPLE read those Ayat again and decide which love do you want and seek.



Keep this Hadit Qudsi in your mind too:


[Allah's Love and Aid for his True Devotee]


Whosoever shows enmity to someone devoted to Me, I shall be at war with him. My servant draws not near to Me with anything more loved by Me than the religious duties I have enjoined upon him, and my servant continues to draw near to me with supererogatory works so that I shall love him.



When I love him I am his hearing with which he hears with, his seeing with which he sees with, his hand with which he strikes with and his foot with which he walks with .


Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him, and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it.


I do not hesitate about anything as much as I hesitate about [seizing] the soul of My faithful servant: he hates death and I hate hurting him.


It was related by al-Bukhari.


Mohammad


[24] Do they not then earnestly seek to understand the Qur-an, or are their hearts locked up by them?



<b>Read and understand the Quran people, what you both said has been written and you will be asked and judged on it.</b>



At-Touba


[73] O Prophet! strive hard against the Unbelievers and the Hypocrites, and be firm against them. Their abode is Hell, an evil refuge indeed.



<b>Read Surat Al-Anfal, At-Touba and Al-Munafiqun and compare yourselves to how the prophet (SAAWS) and the Sahaba treated them and try to become close to them, otherwise stop claiming that you follow the Quran and the Sunnah.</b>


<b>I would also advice you to control the shaitan which is confusing the truth for you and impairing your thoughts and your visions.</b>


I will say it again, If you don't know what is right from what is wrong according to the Shariah and if you are not willing to aid in the cause of Allah (SWT), then do <b>NOT</b> interfer with my duties, this is <b>NOT</b> a matter of opinions, it's a matter of following the Quran and Sunnah.



<b>Muslimah, I have asked you numerous times to stop disrespecting me and you are exhausting my patience. I will NOT say this again, control your shaitan and stop disrespecting me, Fear Allah and keep this Ayah in mind when you speak to brothers:</b>


[الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَآءِ]



(Men are the protectors and maintainers of women,) meaning, the man is responsible for the woman, and he is her maintainer, caretaker and leader who disciplines her if she deviates.


[بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَى بَعْضٍ]


(because Allah has made one of them to excel the other,) meaning, because men excel over women and are better than them for certain tasks. This is why prophethood was exclusive of men, as well as other important positions of leadership. The Prophet said,


«لَنْ يُفْلِحَ قَوْمٌ وَلَّوْا أَمْرَهُمُ امْرَأَة»


(People who appoint a woman to be their leader, will never achieve success.) Al-Bukhari recorded this Hadith. Such is the case with appointing women as judges or on other positions of leadership.


[وَبِمَآ أَنفَقُواْ مِنْ أَمْوَلِهِمْ]


(and because they spend from their means.) meaning the dowry, expenditures and various expenses that Allah ordained in His Book and the Sunnah of His Messenger for men to spend on women. For these reasons it is suitable that he is appointed her maintainer, just as Allah said,


[وَلِلرِّجَالِ عَلَيْهِنَّ دَرَجَةٌ]


(But men have a degree (of responsibility) over them).


You can hate me all you want, I really do NOT care, All I care about is Allah (SWT) and his Prophet (SAAWS) love, what they will ask me on judgment day and how they will recieve me on that day.


You can follow whichever way you want to follow, I am NOT trying to impress or guide anybody, only Allah (SWT) guides whom he (SWT) pleases.


As-salaam Ala maan Etbaa Al-Hoda.

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sure i don't claim i'm a scholar....but in the same time i know that accusing a Muslim of Kuffr is a very dangerous thing because if he is not really the Kaffir then i am the Kaffir as prophet Muhammed (pbuh) said in the Hadith and i remember that those who fought Imam Ali Ibn Abi Talib and even killed Muslims were not labeled Kaffirs by their enemy (Imam Ali) and even he said to his soldiers "they are not Kaffirs..they are our brothers but they are astrayed by Devil"
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