Anyone Else In This Situation!!!

[Muslimah]

as salam alykom naseeha

I must apologize to u, my mistake instead of quoting your post to Umm I edited it and made my reply really sorry.

[Muslimah]

<i>Originally posted by phatmonky </i><b>why is that? </b>

getting married at a young age will help one being protected against any temptation and will be busy with his muslim family

[phatmonky]

<i>Originally posted by Muslimah </i><b>getting married at a young age will help one being protected against any temptation and will be busy with his muslim family </b>

I guess I can see the value in that. But do you not agree that many people marry too young, and thus marry the wrong person?

I have always regarded marriage in a very high manner, and thus want to make sure who I marry, is the right person. Should it not be up to me to fight temptation until then, rather than hurry and lock myself into a marriage to aide in that fight?

:)Thanks for the response.

[naseeha]

Lol don't worry muslimah.. i understand and we all make mistakes i find your reply really inspiring... and i know that it is hard

remember that the road of dawa`ah is not carpeted with flowers

this is true... i mean when giving da'wah sometimes you are faced with great difficulty... but you know sometimes allah makes your way easy... very easy... once this person came to me and sat before me and looked deep into my eyes with a thirst.. she wanted knowledge... then she said "tell me about your religion" i was put in a position where i had to give her as much information about islam as i could in only 15 mins(we had to get back to school).. other times it is hard but allah says:

Surely my Prayer my sacrifice my living and my dying is for ALLAH lord of the worlds

these are the words of allah and this is my law...

salaam muslimah jazaakallah khair

[radiyah]

Well as I see masha' Allah sisters Umhabibah and Muslima said enough, I would like to add one little thing here, that

always ask for Allah's assistance in everything in your life, even in dawa' do not fear that others will hurt u or throw bad words at u, or even make fun of u, be strong and patient just like our beloved prophet Mohammad(pbuh), u know how he was treated by the kuffar and from his own family, and how much he suffered to spread Islam,and how he was patient and humble until he was victorious. So we are to follow him and insha'aAllah this deen will be victorious weather the kuffar like it or not.

[UmmHabibah]

how do i deal with this they are non muslims... should i just leave them alone, please produce daleel. jazaakallah khair umm

Alhamduillah sis muslimah answered this nicely for you.

wa salam

[Muslimah]

your welcome Phatmonkey

I have a reply for u, but start another thread, we need to stay on topic.