cud sum1 help me!!!!!!

[SAMAZ]

asslaa-u-alaikum

im 15 an i wear da scarf an i see oder gurls wearin it aswel which makes me very happy but da oder gurls ave boyfrendz an all. y do dey wear da scarf if der gnna give oder ppl who wear da scarf bu aint lyk dem a bad name aswell?????????????

i get questioned from my frendz abou dis i try 2 say 2 my frendz dat dey cud be wid der brother , husband or even farther bu den dey torment me wid da way da gurl in scarf wo acting in da guy, wot shud i do????????

Wasslaam-u-alikum

Allah hafiz 2 all!

[Ali]

Walaikumusalam

You are not obliged to respond to these people.

And I did not understand the whole post, perhaps we should get a spell check :cool:

-- Ali

[Muslimah]

waAlykom As Salam

Ali that makes the 2 of us :confused: , welcome SAMAZ to the board. But if u can minimize the slang, Ali I thought it will be only me because I am not from the community. However, what I made out is that she wears HIjab and other girls too, but some of the other girls keep boyfriends. And some people inquire how they go out with boys while wearing hijab???? Well first off just try not to discuss other people's faults no one is perfect, since if we criticize others we may fall into the same sin. Just make dua for the girls to repent and realize their fault. Also tell those who inquire that wearing the hijab does not mean they are angles, a human being may sin.

[masriahmuslimah]

Asalam~O~Alykum

U r in the same position as I am in, but my problem is some how different. I am also 15 yrs old. And I am in high school in the place that most sins happens in the US. I get lot of question from ppl like do u have a boyfriend? R u allowed 2 have one? And some other stupid question like do u have hair ? or do u belly dance? Gurl when some ppl ask me these questions I just ignore them. Also I wont forget some ppl’s stupid comments. OMG u don't have a life, u will be stuck like this 4ever and die with no joy of life. Then they laugh. In my mind I say we will c who will laugh at the end. Also I pray that Allah will lead them 2 the right way. They think by making sins this what joy of life is. They never tasted the sweetness of our religion that u and me and others taste when we r praying, fasting, giving charity, etc. Gurl don't let these ppl bother u with questions about other sister's just let them say what they want and ignore. That's the best thing. And don't get confused about the sister's that wear hijab and have bf. Just pray 4 them. Also try talking 2 them. Maybe they will listen. If u need any advise u came 2 the right place b/c mashallah on this website there r brothers and sisters with a lot of knowledge. Hope u found the answer 2 ur question.

[AhmedSyed]

Man, how many 15 year olds do we have here? Im 15 too.

Ya, I see the same thing in my high school, muslims having bfs and gfs.

They never tasted the sweetness of our religion that u and me and others taste when we r praying, fasting, giving charity, etc.

Looks like they missed the feast;) . Indeed I pray to Allah to guide all the muslim and kuffar back to Islam.

Religion is something to jeer at here in the Midwest US. Its sad what things have turned to, women and men used to dress appropreatly, just look at photos from the early 1900's. The women covered their hair, and the men pretty much wore full pants all day.

[masriahmuslimah]

Asalam~O~alykum

I know there is alot of 15yrs old members.

Ur soooo right about the pic of early 1900's. I can't believe how the muslim society changed that mush. I am sooooooo sad. May Allah lead us to his right path.

Salam~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Masriahmuslimah

[Muslimah]

Mash a Allah, it is very intriging to know that we have many 15 years. Well Alhamdulelah, there still hope, the youth is the hope, Insh a Allah may Allah keep us and all of u youngesters here fixed on the correct path:)

[masriahmuslimah]

Asalam~O~Alykum

Thanx sister Muslimah. I am sooooooooooooo proud of being 15yrs old. I really enjoy it, but I feel soooooooo small b/c I really want 2 do a lot of things to Islam. This is one thing that I am looking towards growing up.

Salam~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Masriahmuslimah:D

[Suhail]

yeah its true loads of girls in our college who have scarves on have gf''s ....... ive just got used to it bcoz ive been seeing it since high school ....... and since ive got one who wears a scarf i think think i should critisize

[Suhail]

p.s in my country hijaab and scarf is different .... girls with hijaab r like ninjaas ... those with scarf only cover hair not face