2 all the gurls who still running after a fake dream?

[masriahmuslimah]

Asalam~O~Alykum sisters

I know I know that a lot of ppl talked about the same issue that I am inshallah going 2 talk about 2day, but 4 once listen from a teen just like u. Who heard and saw the same things as u did. What I am going 2 write about 2day is about dating and running after boys.

Gurls look at ur self. First it starts out by only chatting. U lie 2 ur self and say it wont hurt b/c he cant c me or I cant c him. Second u lie 2 ur parents when they ask u who is online. U say its one of my best friends. Third u send him ur pic. Fourth u agree 2 met. Fifth u met in a romantic place and u start holding hands. Sixth he offers u 2 come 2 with him 2 his apartment. Seventh u loose everything.

This is only one way 2 loose everything. There is 100000000000000000 of ways. Like hanging at the mall wearing ur sexy clothes and u have lots of makeup on 2 attract boys. Or talking on the cell phone and ur address book is full of boys numbers and e-mail addresses.

Well u c. What I am talking about. Gurls ur selling ur self's sooooooooooooo easily. None of the boys now r trying 2 get the gurl they want b/c ur already left ur self 2 them. Al Rasool (ASWS) went in 2 war just b/c a woman who a part of her was shown. And now these days no one have 2 play a trick on a gurl just 2 make her show a part of her body. Now a days u c gurls who r almost naked.

OK lets us do this. Let us count the amount of sins we made 2 just attract a guy. One lying. two cheating. Three steeling. U could steel ur mums car or money just 2 c the guy. The look of the men on the street or the place where u going 2 ur body. Four sexual affairs. And soooooo on. C u just got ur self more than 10000000000 sins every day. U cant afford loosing any of ur good deeds b/c they wont fill in the places of ur sins. I feel sooooooooo sad when I c a Muslim gurl who parys on time and fast and give out charity loss her7sanat just like that.

Gurls ask ur self one question is it worth it. Is it worth it running after a man and loosing everything including Heaven and Allah’s forgiveness. Was it worth it all that cheating and lying 2 ur parents and 2 ur self. Or the time u wasted from ur life running after a fake dream. Couldn't u Waite until marriage. Hold ur self gurls b/c after death no one will help u. Gurls ur the most important part of the world and society. Ur the one who is going 2 create the new generation of Muslims. Y waste a life time happiness 4 one night.

Gurls think about it and give ur self a chance 2 reconsider what ur doing with ur life. Sisters don't feel shy 4 asking 4 advise. Even if its from ur parents. B/c parents knows best.

Hope Allah will protect all of ur sisters and brothers and keep them same from Al Shytan and themselves.

Salam~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Sally Samy

[Muslimah]

Mash a Allah, you really put it forth so clearly and simply.

I have other remarks, will put them later Insh a Allah

[Amira2003]

Salam alikom

Jazaki Allaho Khairana sister.I just want to say that it's true that today many muslim girls are going stray but at the same time there are some factors that contribute majorly to this, and in some situations you can not even blame the girl.For one parents have a great effect and they effect the way the child is brought up, if the parents do not apply the teachings of Islam on themselves how can we expect the child to do it, also you need to teach the girl from childhood the teachings of Islam as she grows older know that the time to insert new ideas is running out, I saw this on my own friends would you believe it if I told you that all my friends do not wear hijab except one and for all of them their mothers do not wear Hijab at all. Secondly the environment around the girl and peer pressure, we must admit it's not that easy for sisters living in non-beliving countries where they are exposed to fitnah daily,the enviroment encourages wrong actions and if the girl has no support from family nor their are sisters around her who encourage her to do right then it will be easy for her to be led stray.It's not as if it's better in muslim countries!!!. I gather we must look back at the source of the problem also and find a remedy for it or at least try to improve it.

Take care

[Muslimah]

As Salam Alykom Amira, long time no see, I guess may be school started. But what u said is true, plus other factors, listen just look back at the time of the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم Women and men both still fell into sins. Insh a Allah I will come back later to shed more light

[masriahmuslimah]

Asalam~O~Alykum

I know both of u r right b/c i also live in non-believeing country and i know that lost of famlies suffer and also lots of teens. THe peer pressure here is unbelievable. Al7amduallah me and my friends try 2 avoide it, but some ppl just cant. I hope allah will help them.

Thanx 4 posting ur opions.

Salam~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Sally Samy

[Amira2003]

Salam alikom

Inshallah this message finds you in best of health and Iman. Well sister Muslimah school still did not start but I am preparing for it as soon I will have alot of studying to do :eek: uhhhh how I remember Kinder garden .

Take care

Amira