Anger and the tongue

[Muslimah]

As Salam Alykom

I received this very meaningful message on an email thought to share it with all of u.

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Everything we say and do in life has consequences. Just like throwing a stone into a pond, sends ripples across the water affecting all around it.

We are free to say and do as we choose but the consequences of our words and actions are our responsibility.

How many times have hasty words been spoken making a wedge

between once loving friends or spouses?

Sometimes we think something bad about a person and in anger or when emotions are high, we make those thoughts vocal. If we could have waited a little, these negative thoughts may well have been replaced with more kindly ones.

To speak or act while in a state of anger is really a mistake. It is a good idea to bite your tongue and wait until the next day. If the same level of emotions are present, then speak out, but chances are you will have forgotten why you were angry.

The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with one which is better (i.e. Allah ordered the faithful believers to be patient at the time of anger, and to excuse those who treat them badly), then verily! He between whom and you there was enmity, (will become) as though he was a close friend. (Sura Fussilat 41:34)

[Ahmed Abdullah]

Wa alikumus salaam,

Jazak Allah Khairan for this great reminder to be patient. May our good deeds outweigh our bad deeds, Ameen. This reminder will help us all.

Salaams to all!

[Muslimah]

True brother very much true, there is nothing worth that we hurt people. It is only the Shaytan that intercepts between people and fuel situations. If only we all just lay basic grounds made of mutual trust and amicable relations, we can easily find execuses for what is said or done.

[Suhail]

i just tend to use my big stick

[Guest]

we can easily find execuses for what is said or done. [/b]

Salam Alaikum..To whom? To Allah swt or to people? in first step looks easy, to say excuse me or forgive me to Allah swt, but to poeple you cant say easy, you need courage to say and you have to modestly if you dont so you cant...believe me i experience it and still do it...But 2 step and this more important as 1 step.. as when we know Allah swt Al Adl so it must be easy to say people excuse or such so..So you dont need to pay back in judgemend day what you say or do to this one peopl....ف hope i have wrote clear so every1 understand me...

About angry..sometiems is good to have angry..it up to whom your angry is....wassalam

[Guest]

‎ would edit but it was closed time...

Sister muslimah..it is easy to find but is it the correct excuse how say it...as last you did not against me a excuse...its hurts.... i cant understand you sister what you write here and what you have done to me....you know what i mean and if you say you dont get what i mean it is ok because i m sure you know.somethinks you cant never make ok again.....wassalam..

[Muslimah]

<i>Originally posted by Destroyed </i><b>‎ would edit but it was closed time...</b>

Sister muslimah..it is easy to find but is it the correct excuse how say it...as last you did not against me a excuse...its hurts.... i cant understand you sister what you write here and what you have done to me....you know what i mean and if you say you dont get what i mean it is ok because i m sure you know.somethinks you cant never make ok again.....wassalam..

لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلى العظيم

la hawala wala qowata ila billah al`aliyel azeem

[Muslimah]

<i>Originally posted by suhail786 </i><b>i just tend to use my big stick </b>

as salam alykom

I can not believe you said this:)

[Guest]

<i>Originally posted by Muslimah </i><b>لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلى العظيم</b>

la hawala wala qowata ila billah al`aliyel azeem

Wassalam sister...its ok you ignore...I know who you are and you know who i m. i dont distrub you now..you should still make this hp good. But sister Allah swt is great and HE guide me to this board...ف think this will be my 3th second message here. i ll write somethinks..What you said is. la hawla wa la.... i did say it yet before as we emailed us much and chattet ..ever1 in this world judge us all..who is doing more worse in islamic rules also non muslims will judge..and much important allah swt know everythink...Alhamdulillah, Allah will hold on HفS promise about madzlooms, said by a hadith....

There was sister, as she dealt aginst me with lot of ppl i asked somethinks and she said.Did your mom dont tell you, best thinks comes to those who wait.' i said no..But my mom said this:best thinks comes to these who trust to Allah swt..not to webmasters or friends they can laeve or die they can force me and use my details of person ....But Allah swt is always alive and always here...bAnd she said also We are better than you..there is no one better besides Allah...

Sister Muslimah....i dont have blacktougts as you i would mercy...my story will be judge ever1 by muslims, shias, jews, cristians all. And i reguest to great islamic fatwa givers to comment the story which one is great sin and worse...No one should take get stuff of me becuase i ll give it self everythink about me what i did and for which reason i guess. i dont have angry besides shaytan and to my self..i was in islamic chatromm and chat with you all there was a deal against me. sister.m...a take care.

PS: you can bann me....you can tell everthink here on board to all memebers and all ppl. its enought for me Allah swt knwo the true story..i m harmless but not Allah swt.and dont send me email with name some one its hurts and despise..you should go to take another email address with the name as muslimah..or you want send me email with .kw..

i have angry to shaytan and to me...because i was in chatrom and some pll ‎ chattet and ruined my life with family..

I request for fe sebelellah here to great islamic fatwa givers to read my whole story and to comment which whoses doing is a sin and more worse...i m ruined so much psychilical i lose my understand to think and perform my islamic task..my family stii in sadness and when i die i wish for them much sabr to my mom and father....and evere1 islamic hp , wiill a blackstain with my this message everywhere...wasalam sis m.ra..i m at www.muslimmessage.net at my brothers board to be reach..He is not same like you all who ruined me..

*edited by Muslimah* (we don't mention other board by title if we have anything against them or even nick names)

[Suhail]

<i>Originally posted by Muslimah </i><b>as salam alykom</b>

I can not believe you said this:)

i say it everyday in my post havent u read my signature ..... ne u need a reputation or else ull just get beaten up