I born into a Muslim family, i believe in Allah, Qur'an our rasol(sm) and i dont have doubt about the fundamental belief in Islam
But im always covered with an evil problem and is sex, why cant i stop this stupid things, actually it is becoz my childhood life was brought up with bad company, once i remember one of my friend forced me to watch an evil movie(i dont like the word porno, thats why using evil), last week i swear upon Allah that i will never watch it and started to be good Muslim and unfortunately i couldnt continue this wonderful step, i swear, i repeat, i swear, i repeat....sometime i feel like to cut off my private part, im tired of it, im really tired of it, human can do anything if he/she intends to for the sake of Allah, then why cant i? whats wrong with me, why cant i be a good Muslim, i want to be a good muslim, sometime i think i will not get a good wife if i continue this becoz Allah will punish me in the world and i will not earn the highest rank of the Paradise, i want to be in the highest rank, i want to lead a pious life, plz help me somebody, i need a strong advice, plz
First off welcome to the board and may Allah makes it beneficial for u and us.
Well, your loud call for help must have already reached Allah Sobhanhu wa Ta`la. Alhamdulelah, the most important healthy symptom is that you really want to repent. Rest assured that as long as u do want Allah Shall help you.
You need to fight and fight hard. Insh a Allah first of all, play Surat Baqarah (Quran 2) in the house every day. Eat dates first thing in the morning.
I know that u r facing a problem of wanting to stop and cannt. Try hard to stay away from bad company, from those who encourage you for example to watch evil movies. Because the minute you will watch it, you will need to apply and will not be able to stop. This is why Allah Commanded us to lower our gaze.
Any way, I know that you will try and might fail. But Insh a Allah not. Just in case u fail. Every time u make up your mind to stop and fail, give out an amount of money for charity, even a very small amount. Every time u try and fail, take Wodu and pray 2 rak`a, do something for Allah. Insh a Allah this counter plan will help u fight the devil which inspires u for those sins as well as your self.
and also u might pray 2 raka and ask Allah sincerely for help, preferable do that before you start your plan.
And we will check on you brother may Allah Assist u much and all those who are inflicted with sins and want to stop.
My advise is that u fast in the morning , and go to sleep in after Isha , if isha is early in ur country, then do some homework , study , try to keep ur wudhu , pray some Quran , then go 2 sleep , also it may help if u got married or found a gf ( the gf part is not islamic advice, its just my advice)
When involved in sin / vice, whilst doing the crime-sin there is no guilty feelings, we block it off, subconsciously, we don’t and try not to think of any consequences and we are certainly not thinking about Allah or Islam.
Our imaan decreases, after doing it then we feel sad / guilty and I always end up being depressed, it is never happiness , there is no LASTING happiness in vices. And then I feel like I am setting my self up for Allahs wrath.
I feel pathetic because Allah has blessed me with So much, yet I cant obey.
But it is not only about 1 type of sin, our lifestyles are full of minor sins thus the major sins are only complimenting this
prodigy the gf is certainly a no :76: like you are actually calling for an increased level of sins.
The fasting is a good advice, just like the Messenger salla Allah a`lyhee wa sallam said. And yes do seek marriage, no matter what Allah Shall help in marriage.
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbâs and Anas bin Mâlik: Allah’s Messenger said, “If a son of man had a valley full of gold, he would desire to have two. Nothing can fill his mouth except the earth (of the grave). Allah turns with mercy to him who turns to Him in repentance.” (Al-Bukhâri and Muslim)
yeah we do sin and we repent to Allah..........satan lead us astray by putting the idea that "you have committed many sins" now u will not be forgiven, actually Allah loves those who repents but it doesnt mean that we will continue our sins, we should be in sincere when repenting.
this is how Adam(as) and eve(as) committed sin and then repented and Allah forgave them while satan also committed sin but didnt repent and became kafir.............we human will commit sin but Allah's mercy is always presence
Alhamdulliah im feeling very good now, Jazakallah khair to everyoen here
