I need an advice

[bintsiraj]

ASSLAM O ALYKUM WAREHMATULLAH WA BARAKATUHU!

I am in a situation where i dont know what to do,

I have two propesals recently from which one is a muslim who read five times paryers, but does not have a beard and does not seem to be very religious in nature. and i am afraid i wll have a problem in his house covering my face as his brother also lives in the same house.

The second one has sent his photo, he wears a beard and also the people who gave his proposal have said that he is very religious, but they also said he goes to the dars of a jamat called tableeghi jamat in pakistan.

the problem is i cheaked out about this jamat on www.fatwa-online.com and they said it is a devient group involved in shirk!

now my problem is i cant understand wehther i should go for the first prposal knowing atleast that he is not involved in shirk..

or the one who only goes to the dars of this jamat and hope that he is not really belives in the stuff that tableeghi people belive!.

Jazakumullah hu khairan

I pary that every muslim gets the best mate with regaurds to their lives and hearafter.(Amin).

[amma]

Salam sister

I dnt knw much about the Tableeghi jamaat. Well wot i can say is to perform the Istikhara prayer and ask Allah for giudance. Also i think that you should go for the one who isnt involved in shirk.

Inshallah Allah will guide you onto making the right decision.

Ameen

[Muslimah]

AS Salam Alykom binsiraj

I fully agree with amma, Istikhara actually makes things much easier. U find that things are changing in the course of direction which is better for u. And Sobhan Allah. Actually if u read the dua, it is very obvious how u refer the whole matter to Allah and He has ways of taking things to the better dierction for u. Of course we all need to be away from bida`a and shirk practices which are many now unfortunately.

May Allah give u light and guidance sister and arrange the best for all Muslims. ameen ameen ameen

[Ali]

Assalaamoalaikum

Not all who go to Tableeghi Jamat dars do shirk, or are mushrik. Those in Indian and Pakistan who have combined Tableeghi Jamat with sufism do shirk. Regardless of that you can still ask the brother about his beliefs, and clear your doubts. I would recommend you do istikhara, and in my opinion it would be better for you to marry the guy with the beard.

w'salam

-- Ali

[bintsiraj]

jazakumullahhu khairan,

i am inshalalh making istkhara.

thank u for your advice.

[Muslimah]

Ali good that u noticed the topic I was about to call u on. I remember u mentioning this jama`t on a different topic, am i not right??? and bintsiraj, after praying istikhara do not discuss the matter with people any more just proceed in both direction and let Allah decide. See if u assign a lawyer for a case u usually don't discuss it with others. So how about delegating Allah in a very crucial affair like marriage.

May Allah guide u for the best sister

[hefny]

الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ أُوْلَئِكَ مُبَرَّؤُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌآ

ية(26)

Bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for bad statements (or bad men for bad women). Good statements are for good people (or good women for good men) and good people for good statements (or good men for good women), such (good people) are innocent of (each and every) bad statement which they say, for them is Forgiveness, and Rizqun Karim (generous provision i.e.Paradise).ALNOOR SURAHT24 AYAAH 26

WE WILL PRAY TO ALLAH SINCERLY TO HELP YOU TO SELECT A GOOD MAN AND FOR FORGIVNESS

[Ali]

Ali good that u noticed the topic I was about to call u on. I remember u mentioning this jama`t on a different topic, am i not right???[/quote:0d1eaa31b3]W'salam

It was Suhail who mentioned I guess

-- Ali

[Muslimah]

Well Alhamdulelah any way

and jazakum Allah khairan Suhail

[bintsiraj]

Asslam laykum wraehmatulllha,

jazakillah khir again sister for what u said

"after praying istikhara do not discuss the matter with people any more just proceed in both direction and let Allah decide" [/quote:166b19144f]subhanALLAH waht a beneficial advice!,jazakillah khair Sister!

AS some time we let the waswasas of the shyateen work.

jazakallah brother ,and i indeed need dua!.

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