How to make your sabr stronger

[jameela]

assalamualaikum-many of us think we need sabr in distress only ., we r wrong. we need sabr at every point.take prayers for eg;-soon after prayers wat many of us feel? to run &to finish the work we left.here we need sabr.forget about the work.havesabr to sit firmly in the same place &do dikhr,read quran &make dua ernestly to Allah.u happened to see adikhr majlis u want to escape? have sabr to join &learn.Allah,s blessing will be there.u see ur friends takingpart in music &danceu feel urge to join?.here u need sabr to go away from such parties.wefeel like speaking ill of our friends, relatives etc.have sabr avoid such loose talk.have sabr topardon ones servant.A prophetic hadees, one should pardon their slaves 70 times a day.It is not that easy to have sabr. we must practise alot to attain that stage.read quran with meaning.take some time to learn by heart from hadees, the reward &the punishment of daily life happenings. there will be achange for good .make dua lot for sabr.

[muhseen]

assalamualaikum-many of us think we need sabr in distress only ., we r wrong. we need sabr at every point.take prayers for eg;-soon after prayers wat many of us feel? to run &to finish the work we left.here we need sabr.forget about the work.havesabr to sit firmly in the same place &do dikhr,read quran &make dua ernestly to Allah.u happened to see adikhr majlis u want to escape? have sabr to join &learn.Allah,s blessing will be there.u see ur friends takingpart in music &danceu feel urge to join?.here u need sabr to go away from such parties.wefeel like speaking ill of our friends,  relatives etc.have sabr avoid such loose talk.have sabr topardon ones servant.A prophetic hadees, one should pardon their slaves 70 times a day.It is not that easy to have sabr. we must practise alot to attain that stage.read quran with meaning.take some time to learn by heart from hadees, the reward &the punishment of daily life happenings. there will be achange for good .make dua lot for sabr.

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JazzakallahuKhayr...


Do you know me before 7 or 8 years ago? No.. But I know myself...


There is alot difference between at this time and now...


If I give number for me in Islamic life...


I had maybe 60 or 70 percent of hundert..


Now I have 5-10 percent of this.... You dont know reason why it come so. I know it.. Its not i was away from Islam because I like that other life like dancing and music etc..


You know what means you get shocked and you live with these shock until now and this ruined your motivation and everythink..Your power for sabr, your power for fight with shaytan and nafs? You mood to live anyway?Its is easy to say do that go there etc. etc... I could not concentrate me i was not here with my thoughts.


In short, I m guided to this situation... Nothing happens without reason and of nothing can nothing happen. So there was out effects..


Now Alhamdulillah I know more, Only a few ppl just they would give me a lesson...


They now are adult ppl maybe they are married and have kids. And have a good family life.. But my sad family lifes shade is over them like a blacksky...


They never believed me, I would pretend me. Alhamdulillah I dont. Alhamdulillah I dont make freindship with any other to take revenge..And never make friendship with non muslims against a muslim...


Oh yes, they are blessed, Allah swt will forgive them... And when I come to hell is no problem, important they come to Jannah...


Now they dont know me, that is what some of them says...Well they know me and lie me, lie to me isnt haram...Backbiting against me isnt haram... They are making dawah of islam and have right to do that all...


That I feel me very sad and unmoodly to anythink, there is no any comments in Islam.. Allah swt care HIS creator and judge with my undertsand what i have...Others cant look into in my brain...


That is it....


I leave all good deeds to them, because I cant do anythink, They should still keep to want enter to jannah... Allah swt is enought for me as supporter...


Wassalamu Alaikum..Fi amanalliah....

[muhseen]

Salam Alaikum brothers and sisters.


I apologize me, I have act not like a mumin...I feel me very sad about it.


My Allah swt forgive me inshaallah and you all accpet my apologize inshaallah...


LA ILAHE ILLAA ANTA SOBHANAKA INNI KONTOO MINAZDZALIMIIN... I need help i think..


I dont know any1, i got mixed up and angry..


There was nothing when some1 dont suggested me I m against islam and muslims.


I m muslim alhamdulillah.


wassalam

[muhseen]

I do not know ayn1 on internet. I have never emailed with any brother and sister..I m just upset . I had a dream i just thought this story what i wrote before... I just found the names in my brain, there was no a brother and sister said bad thinks about me. I have done backbiting and ghiybat... I have bad caractar... I dont have sabr and i m crazy and mental sick, i do not think what i say and write...


Now i write my diffucult words and I shame me while i drop these apologize for this sister..


<b>Please Sister Muslimah I realy apologize me, i just do annoy you here, i do unright to you... Allah swt is most forgiveness, and then the ummm.Please accept it for sake of Allah swt... But sister one thinks, i was realy for learning and discusing here but i lost me... My thoughts was upset..</b>


I know you will not accept it but i will ask you and wait forever to accept my apologize... If you accept this poor and jaheel brothers apologize so insha-allah Allah swt forgive you too in yawmol qiyamah of may you have done mistaken...





wassalam...


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[NaSra]

Asalamalaikum


Brother Muhseen


Remember that Allah never turns his back on us. When he tests us he wants to see how much patience we have. Keep your head up Brother, and remember trials will make you more bright & stronger, and the best people that Allah has created whether they were Muslim or nonmuslim in history all happened to live very tough lives. But Masha'Allah Look who they came to be. I have seen a few things in my life, and I know that if I look at what others went through it makes me feel like I should be in prayer thanking Allah for everything he has put me through because Alhamdulilah it made me a better person today.


Please read the story of Prophet Ayoub.


By the way, you don't have to apologize for telling us how you feel we are your Brothers and Sisters in Islam.


The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Seek help from God and do not lose heart. And if anything (in the form of trouble) comes to you, don't say, 'If I had not done (something differently), (the troubles) would not have happened,' but (instead) say, 'God did that what He had ordained to do.' Your 'if' opens the (gate for Satan.)"

[Muslimah]

Bismillah


as salam alykom


<b>ACCEPTED MUHSEEN ACCEPTED IN THE NAME OF ALLAH</b>



just focus on learning and stop the usual attitude

[muhseen]

Bismillah
as salam alykom


<b>ACCEPTED MUHSEEN ACCEPTED IN THE NAME OF ALLAH</b>



just focus on learning and stop the usual attitude

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JazzakallahuKhayr,,,You need so long time for this?

[muhseen]

Sister..You know, You dont need forgive me...Because you dont have respect to me, and you despise me. I think you are a sture women, women who dont have respect to humanity. These who is sins has no right to get true from you if it is Personaly...You just do everythink for Allah swt, so you would not do anythink with your nafs....


What did you PM me? Or will you say like naseeha you dont say it...


You said, you would not give dawah work about me,..... There is more reason but That is enought reason that we know us from islamicitychatroom, like sister maryam from islamicaforum....Keep me as one who is against islam and muslim, but dont keep me as one fight for my rights and peoples deal against me...


wassalam

[Yasmin]

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[Muslimah]

Bismillah


u missed nothing Yasmeen


Actually this member I prefer not to make assumptions about so that I dont trangress and judge the intention. But astagghferu Allah I think he is just after attention and making people busy with him on threads.


We gave him so many chances and tried to put up with him.


But this time Insh a Allah that is it he is going.