"Enemies of Allah"

[radiyah]

Hi Shaunee


I would like to tell u a true story that happened to arab muslims who were studying in US, they had an old american neighbor, they used to c her every morning and greet her on thier way to college, she was a bit conservative with them them being muslims, but she did appreciate them greeting her. Then the couple missed the woman for about a week they did not c her come out every day at her specified time, they asked about her some other neighbours they told them that she was sick. So they decided to pay her a visit, they took her a bouquet of flower and visited her, so she asked them why are u visiting me, I do not relate to u and I am a christian? The couples looked at each other and smiled, They told her: Our Beloved Prophet used to visit the sick and help them even if they were non muslims, and he also asked us to be nice to our neighbours even if he is far 7 blocks away. and u r next to our door, we must visit u and wish u good health. The woman cried, and said: I have a son that I havent seen for years, I called him asking him to come to c him, I am afraid that I will die before i c him again, he said: oh mom I am so busy cant come, hope u will be better. And u total strangers to me come and ask about me. And because of this the woman embraced Islam, and her neighbors became sister and brother.


Maybe we miss conveyed what we wanted to say Shaunee, but what sister Ummzakhariya said is correct, there are grades of love to each. So do not think that we hate u or something, on the contrary, we do care for every human being in this world, that is true Islam, caring for others and helping them to c the truth.


Peace

[Muslimah]

Shaunee more on what Radiyah explained, just to let u know, if u feel that the Muslims u know are sort of humoring u, no it is not true. Because as Radiayh posted by practical experience, we are commanded to treat non Muslims who are not fighting us in a very kind way, Quran even includes that we may eat at their place and vice versa. Quran regulates our life as u probably know including relations with others. So dont worry they are not deceving u or anything. They are following the Quran. The Messenger even had a Jewish neighbour who used to put dirt on the Messenger's door every morning. He didnt for about 3 days, so he checked to find him ill. He went and visited him of course the man was so ashamed of himself. Of course he embraced Islam.

[umm Zachariah]

Assalamu aleikum,


Just one thing on my mind for now.


I hope we have been able to come clear here about how people are supposed to treat one another, Muslim or non-Muslim.


About eating at each others place, as sister Muslimah included in good things to do to come closer to our non-Muslim fellowmen, is also a nice thing to do.


But a personal reflection - most friends may be aware of that there MIGHT be some problems concerning food, and if they do then you have been able to LEARN them something of your faith, alhamdulillah. And if they ask you WHAT they can offer you, then it is even better. Especially if they suspect you will not eat anything if it does not suite you!


But inviting your friends to your house may also be very good, and sometimes better if you have friends that feels a bit embarressed since they are not 100 percent fully comfortable with the situation and don't want to make 'a fool of themselves'. And then they can for sure be served 100 percent halal-food. And shown a Muslim family's environment. And be present during prayer. But if you visit their home and it is prayer-time, find a place to worship in their home too. The first time your friends sees you praying, they may feel 'peculiar' but they will get used to it. It is a wonderful opportunity to do dawah. Prayer is one of the most impressing sights to witness for a non-Muslim, so I believe.


And to watch the full submission that Muslims show when we pray to our Creator seems to be one of the ways that some people have embraced Islam by.


Wasalam

[NewBeginning]

Sorry I haven't responded sooner.


I "slept on it" so to speak. I suppose being an "outsider" makes me feel the way I do. I'm sure if I was a Muslim, I would not even ponder on the subject. Thinking it over.... I'm sure there are probably Muslims looking at any Christian friends they may have thinking the exact same thoughts.


So.... it's good that we can talk to each other like this.... and make peace instead of arguments. All it takes is an open mind and understanding.

[Muslimah]

Bissmillah


Jazaki Allah khairan Umm Zacharia for your wise reminder and explanation about the food part. True Shaunee if I come to eat at your place , u will have to ensure no pork ingredients and no alcohl added to food even while cooking. Other wise I wont have a problem being treated for a pasto pizza, or pasta or whatever your choice would be..


now to wrapp up this issue Shaunee look at this Ayah:


"Allah does not forbid <b>you to deal justly and kindly
</b>with those who fought not against you on account of religion and did not drive you out of your homes. Verily, Allah loves those who deal with equity."


(Quran 60:8)


I think it clears up much...this is the Ayah that governs our relation with u Shaunee

[radiyah]

Sorry I haven't responded sooner.
I "slept on it" so to speak. I suppose being an "outsider" makes me feel the way I do. I'm sure if I was a Muslim, I would not even ponder on the subject. Thinking it over.... I'm sure there are probably Muslims looking at any Christian friends they may have thinking the exact same thoughts.


So.... it's good that we can talk to each other like this.... and make peace instead of arguments. All it takes is an open mind and understanding.

Well good to see u happy and pleased Shaunee hope u r always.

[NewBeginning]

[Muslimah]