Anger and the tongue

[Muslimah]

Of course I read your signature Suhail, it is just reading it in a post made me really smile. Jazakum Allah khairan for making me smile

[Suhail]

thanks many do tell me that i make them smile not here ofcourse ur the first

[Muslimah]

U always made me smile Suhail, always, inspite of me telling u I finished 69 execuses. but u do make me smile,

[Suhail]

THANKS:)

[reborn-muslimah]

Assalam alaikum.. I’ve read some of your replies.. Well I couldn’t agree with you more that anger is something that is driven by Satan and later on it brings nothing but trouble.

Yesterday I was mad the people of downstairs (landlord). One of them let my cat go out and then didn’t take any responsibility to bring him home not even informed me. Yet when I went to their house looking for the cat i got nothing but a bad attitude from them. So I got mad (I know I shouldn’t have) because this not the first time they did something irresponsible and took no responsibility for it. What makes me mad is when they kids do something wrong the parents don’t tell them anything sometimes it’s the gown ups do something and don’t take the responsibility. For example when their eldest daughter was screaming at me the mom just watched. Suddenly everything was my fault. Like I’m the one who’s screwed up and didn’t take the responsibility. Few months ago they locked the main door and went shopping and we had to stay outside for 2 hrs till they got back home from shopping. This is not the first time they did that.. No matter how much we ask them (politely of course) they don’t listen instead they keep doing whatever they like.. And yet they go to religious studies and "claims" to care about Islam..

I just brought this topic because there are many people i saw in this world are like that.. i mean if u do something wrong at least take some responsibility for it or at least teach your kids that its wrong. and the worst part is most of the people are extremely social (of some what) they always entertaining people and so on but when it comes the weak or helpless (even if its an animal) they just don’t do anything because most of the time it wont bring them fame or other advantages. I’m so sick of people like that. Now days I’m scared of people who are too social because they have the influence of ria mostly.

I wont call myself miss perfect.. I’m the miss hot headed person. However I would like to change and make myself more polite and calm. But I can’t stand fakeness anymore what should I do? In my solution, I should go live in the woods away from civilization till I get to overcome my Satan. But this is not an option these days. (even though i heard a hadeeth that when people get closer to judgment day some of the mumin will go up and live on the mountains with some sheep and little food to survive the fitnah. i wish i could be one of those people.)

I would like to become a true muslimah. I need a miracle now.

:confused:

[Muslimah]

as salam alykom sister reborn-muslimah

Welcome to the board and that was a very nice post to start with, we all need to tap on our patience, we need to remember when we are angry to follow the sunnah such as changing position, if u r sitting stand up and vice versa, also take wodu, most important is really to say aoudh billah mina shaytan arajeem and hold on your tongue. May Allah help us do that rather than just running to caves:)

[Muslimah]

<i>Originally posted by Destroyed </i><b></b>

PS: you can bann me....you can tell everthink here on board to all memebers and all ppl.

as salam alykom brother

I think u know better that here in Islammessage we never ban because of personal opinion. If u noticed also I didn't edit your post. Just removed board name.

Jazakum Allah khairan