Quote: As salamu aleykum wr wb
Peace and blessing of Allah swt be upon you all Muslims.
I have come online to ask a question. My dear sister is in need. She feels like the shame of her family concerning the sins she had done which she is so ashamed to speak about. She hasnt revealed it to anybody except me and does not want anybody to know about it. I try to confort her saying that Allah swt is ever Forgiving but even though she is well aware, she cannot make herself believe that. I understand why she is ashamed but this hatreat for herself has, sometimes, put a barrier between her and Allah swt. I can see that she feels sometimes that she is one of those who are destined for Hell-Fire. I don't know what to say to her anymore. At times, when she is okay and follows Islam normaly, she gets these flashbacks and suddenly falls into hatreat and regret. She keeps praying that her sins will not be revealed. I don't know how to make her believe that she too can be forgiven as long as she hasnt done any shirk (which she hasn't). Please give me some advice to tell her before she loses hope for good and leaves Islam thinking that she isn't deserving of the truth and then commits suicide.
I urge you, plz give me advise.
As salamu aleykum wr wb
Wassalam. I feel sorry for her... Its is not easy for her... It will take yaers untils she is ok..My Allah swt heal her soul...amin .Some islamic books helps sometimes.
beg to Allah swt always, to help her. There is somethink in such so situation what advice giver not know and will never know until they dont taste same feelings.
Allah swt, help his/her, because Allah swt know everythink about the person. The People know only what is said and doing, but not the thoughts. Wassalam