Falling In Love With A None Muslim Girl.

[AKA_Ahmed]

Aslame Alyukum Brothers and sisters..


I am a 19 Year old muslim, i have lived all my life as a muslim. i come from a religiouse family. I met this wonderfull girl 14 months ago i built a realionship with her and fell in love with her. we both also had problems with other members of the family in the past which my parents know about but have heard from other members in the family this makes it even harder to tell them because they already think bad things about her which are true, and i believe that we make mistakes and learn from them. i personaliy havent told my family about her . I think if i told them they would be upset and at the same time its hard for me to let the girl i love go and upset her. i dont want to upset anyone with my actions or hurt anyone. She is willing to convert for me but not yet ready beacuse she dosent know much about islam and still learning about it.


I really really need some help i know it is forbiden to disobay your parents, i dont know what to do..........


I look forward to your replies.


Many thanks


Ahmed