08-12-2003, 06:59 PM
Sis. Muslimah,
I did remember a brother asking can we go to the woman and family section.
Family is the root of this community, it all begins in our homes, and as you've mentioned Sis. Muslimah, YES, FAMILY SHOULD BE FOR US ALL MEN AND WOMEN, so that we can understand one another. I know we need your sisters' opinions, about our wives and children, things that would help you all be comfortable in hard times, and what things to do when there is open time. Because if you left it up to alot of us brothers we enjoy hanging out with each other, sometimes alittle too much, I can speak for myself for example. Al-hamdu'llah our wives have rights, and to understand more of what we must do , I believe we need to communicate (behind this screen only to heal our families. And like Bro. Mutawakkil, mentioned, and separate place for us brothers only , and with all respect a sepearte place for you sisters, so that we don't have to put up a front or be embarrassed or withhold important men issues, and that you sisters don't have to withhold your female issues.
(It's not good to go deep into any problem Allah may test us with but at least we can all say enough so that the correct advice can be given, insha'llah
For sure, teenegers need a place too. They can get bored easily. Bro. Suhail786, is a very funny brother, may Allah (swt) bless him to grow into the good muslim, he seems to be...amin! I'm coming to maturity also, but I hang-out with both my peers and older brothers too, to help me learn more about becoming a good muslim man, insha'llah.
As-alaamu alaikum wa rahmantu'llahi wa barakatu!