The Myth of FreeMasons

[naseeha]

Ok I think every one needs an english literature lesson ok.......

Lsn... I am not professing to be any master of english literary arts however... if we are to be conversing in english over this board it is important that we understand something.....

<b>LISTEN!!!!</b>

When someone posts a reply to a topic, a thread, a PM or any form of electronic or written communication.., that person does not have the opportunity to fully convey the meaning of his/her writing because of the lack of speech... therefore they are to rely on their choice of words

When we post something it is very important that we take heed of the proper manner to say something.... We must consider how the other person would get the message.....

We may say something that means well but because of our CHOICE OF WORDS, that thing gets misconstrued....

PLEASE NOTE... COMMUNICATION IS A STEP PROCESS when someone sends the message

someone has to interperet that message and

has to recieve it.......

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THE POST HAS NOT SERVED IT'S PURPOSE UNTIL SOMEONE ELSE HAS READ IT..... IF THAT HAS NOT HAPPENED THEN IT WAS USELESS... COMMUNICATION IS DEAD.....



that being said... let's get down to business....

take this for example....

<i>Originally posted by AbuNoran </i><b> I will exempt you from further advice and reminders  </b>

any logical thinking human being with little knowledge of english would take this to be a very aggressive statement...

brother we are all here to learn... do not assume that we know it all... we need to be corrected at times.... do not get angry after this incident and then just shut the sister off... what is wrong to you... brother you speak with fire on your tongue...

I agree sometimes we need a harsh reminder... but why do you jump to the opportunity to be harsh....

If the sister has said something wrong... tell her at once...

DO NOT JUST LEAVE WITH HARSH WORDS TO COME BACK LATER... as you did before the post in which she was accused of being harsh.......DEAL WITH THE SITUATION:( ....

TELL US WHERE WE GO WRONG.... DO NOT GET ANGRY UNLESS WE BLATANTLY DISOBEY ALLAH AND HIS MESSANGER(sallahu alaihi wa salam) <b>AFTER WE HAVE BEEN OFFICIALLY CORRECTED</b> THIS IT THE TIME TO BE HARSH.....

subhanallah....

if ever you have to make a statement of a personal nature as i quoted above.. MAKE IT IN A PRIVATE MESSAGE.... THIS IS PART OF THEIR PURPOSE!!!!!!!

I am no great english man... my english is not all that good (for someone living in an english speaking country) I will make mistakes... wrong spelling.. all that... but we all need to understan this at least

enough said on that

now on to another issue....

again your english was not well put... because it leaves one in wonder as to what it is you really mean

You will turn around and say that is why we need to start with the Aqeedah first which you already said.

the manner and the choice of words that you used here would suggest that you dont agree with starting with 'Aqeedah first...

I cannot say anything about this because your meaning was unclear...please clarify

i make this statement in this post as opposed to a private message because it was intended for everyone...

I know it may seem like i am picking on abu...

NO...

but the points that i brought up here is essential because many ppl make this mistake...

not only in this thread....

do not misunderstand me...

understand my post

(Assalam)

PS... PURGETROY PLEASE EXCUSE ME FOR GOING OFF TOPIC...

LET'S GET BACK TO OUR DISCUSSION... I WILL POST ANOTHER POST