05-05-2004, 02:14 AM
I have little muslimah's in my family who are only 4 years old and they don't even need to be reminded when leaving the house to put on a hijab.
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That's really not something that a child does within a day or even weeks, It comes from Adaab and Akh-laaq, it comes from the observation that little kids do on their parents from the day they are born. When the mother fears Allah and sets a good example for her daughter the daughter will want to become like her mother.
If you wear a hijab and you have intentions to please your community or because you fear your brother or father, I don't think that Allah will give you rewards for something that one does without a good intention and without sincerity.
and the person who said let them have their childhood,
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My cousins run faster then other children without hijab, they play just like other children. Modesty does not stop a child from having fun, it actually makes them grow as good human beings, who have shyness and self-respect for their body.
unlike the western mother who walks next to her daughter in public with a mini-skirt, you think that little innocent girl will not follow her mothers foot-steps one day? She will and by the time she is grown up the word "Modesty" will be something that is Odd and strange. Go figure...
There is a saying where I come from, " You can only shape a tree when it's small and young, once it grows, it'll grow into a certain direction and you can't change it then"
thats my 2 cents
(Hamd)