03-13-2004, 12:55 PM
as salam alykom amma
I know this problem may occur on different levels, when people remind each other of past faults when Allah forgives one who repents sincerely.
I think and this is my hunble opinion, that she may seek an elder person who can remind her parents in indirect manner of this point. I think there is hadeeth about it if I am not mistaken.
We may look for it, and if she can not have an elder to talk to them, she may show them hadeeth or something about it also indirectly. Last she could at least talk to the mother and remind her that Allah is Oft Forgiving and they must not remind her of past faults so she can move on.
Allah A`alam