03-12-2004, 11:43 AM
Salam
I have a friend who has made a mistake in life and has realised it. Her parents know of this mistake. They tell her to get on with her life and to sort her self out. But on the smallest issues they keep reminding her of wot shes done wrong.
How is she meant to move on if they keep doing this? She would like to continue studying however her parents do nt agree with her? To wot extent is she meant to listen to her parents? is it even possible to go against wot they are saying and stiil continue to study? How can she persuade her parents to do certain things wen they r nt lettin go of the past and movin on themselves?
it is true that har parents were very hurt by the issue but if she truely in her heart want to change and Allah even knows so theres no hiding there, why can't her prents give here a chane to show that she has changed.
So wot advice do you have for my friend? How is she mean to cope with tryin to move on wen she has constant reminders of her mistake?