02-11-2004, 01:59 PM
as salam a`alaman itaba`lhoda
Michelle, I think my post was clear enough, however, as I said before, due to the total difference of belief and rules that govern us and non believers, we can not take them as friends. A perosn is usually influenced by his peers, a woman seeking advice about a marital problem shall never get the proper one from a non muslism.
As for fighting again, how do u see the situation of Bosnian women for instance who were raped and tortured by the Serbs, or Philipino Muslims who were harshly abused, and and and, the list can go forever.
Why do u all look at the Quran saying it calls for fighting, while u totally overlook why should we.
Would u stand still, the Quran is out manual, it tells us every thing we must/ must not do in order to lead a good life and attain Allah's satisfaction Insh aAllah
So again, our relation with the non Muslims is to treat them nicely, they are people we know, we deal with. The Messenger of Allah (PAOBUH) dealt with them, he even made trade transactions with Jews. We call them for the way of Allah, without compulsion. I think u yourself is an ex. u ve been hear for quite sometimes asking and inquiring, we reply, without telling u when r u going to embrace Islam or else dont ask. No we dont do that.
But I can not pm u asking your advice on a prob, I can only do that with a Muslim woman.
I hope I made this clear Michelle.