Problems

[Muslimah]

as salam alaykom Life sister

I was hoping for others to share but well

Now our standard of behaviour must be based on Quran and sunnah. According to this, breaking kinship relations is not recommended at all, matter of fact, it is highly rewarding to maintain kinship relations, as mentioned in a hadeeth what means:

one who becomes happy for his provision to be expanded and his decendants to be blessed, let him maintain kinship relations.

so obviously u must maintain kinship relation.

from what I read, your mother does not want u to visit your uncle, for whatever reasons she may have.

Now u may just remind her of the benefit of maintaining such ties, and that we are muslims and nothing is worth creating conflicts, that we may die any moments and it is better not to shoulder rights of others for Allah forgives our faults or shortage of worship if He wishes to, but never forgives faults towards other unless the person forgives.

but before doing so, read Ayatul Korsi with the intention of protecting both of u against shaytan. In such case u may talk to her nicely without creating more conflict. u may tell her u dont want to upset her, but also u dont want to upset Allah.

And above all and first of course, make two raka`a and ask Allah to support your effort and make them to Him only.