01-14-2004, 08:51 PM
wa aleikum salam
I didn't quite understand the first post......i assumed he was commiting haram....dating ect? And if so, you seem to take it very lightly. SubhanAllah. Listen to the naseeha of sis Muslimah.
And as sis Muslimah said would you want this for your sister. A man came to the Prophet sallaAllahu alihi wa salam and said, I will accept Islam but i will continue to commit zina. And the Prophet said: Would you like this for your mother and the man said no, so he said would you like this for your sister and he said no. And he sws said would you like this for your daughter and the bedouin said no, so he sallaiAllahu alihi wa salam said So how can you like this for yourself?
Dan, the Prophet salliAllahu alihi wa salam said: A woman is married for four things: beauty, social position, lineage and religion. And marry the last so you may succeed.
May Allah subhana wa tala ease your circumstances.