01-14-2004, 08:39 AM
as salam alykom
I did not say it is easy, nothing is easy unless with Allah's help, that is why I mentioned in the last point to make salat and ask for Allah's support and help.
Suhail, just think of her as your own blood sister, I dont think u would like this for your own sister. I know what u must be saying now. But just think of her as your sister, daughter or even a cousin. U will never accept it for her.
One more nice point. keep youslef busy. How? a quran chapter is usually scripted in 20 pages. Divide them by 5= 4 pagers. Read 4 pages after each prayer. By this u will finish a Juz-u/day.
Other things like joining an Islamic community activity would help much. getting involved with people's difficulties, u will see that the difficulty u r going through is actually minimal. U will be able to stop Insh aAllah. Think how if u take this serious step u will be helping a Muslim sister to improve herself. Doing it for Allah will help much. Just start. Dont stand there saying I can not u can.....Insh a Allah u can