01-13-2004, 01:31 PM
u know what im in exactly the same position the only difference is im still in the relationship its true what u said u forget everything .... love blinds u ... u do stupid things u listen 2 no 1 at all....i sometimes feel as well that i wanna dump her and bcum a good muslim but i cant coz we get 2gether again...its hard in the western world ...coz ur bombarded with the western way of life through television magazines colleges etc ... u see them doing it and u think its normal and theirs nothing wrong with it but we r wrong ... the bad thing is we r both muslims in the relationship ......i hope some body can give us advise on what to do ....