12-27-2003, 08:38 PM
Wa aleikum salam
Nice question JazakallahKhair
I'm pretty sure this is not a hadeeth. I think it is a saying of one of the salaf. This is the closest i could find in my books.
Hamdûn al-Qassâr said,
“If one of your brothers commits an error, then seek ninety excuses for him, and if not, then you are the blameworthy one.”
Not exactly the daeel you asked for.
So lets see if someone else could come up with it.