12-25-2003, 11:49 PM
As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakahtuhu
i think sister amma may be refering to the practice of Darood Sharif khatams which many some muslims believe in.....they recite darood sharif and make dua over food to Allah to grant them what they wish for....
from my understand this has no evidence and is a innervation....there is no evidence from the quran or sunnah that this should or was done by the prophet mohammad PBUH.
for the people who do do such practices and there wishes do come true....well put yourself on the wrong path of islam and dont seek the truth and even when the truth is sent to you and you dont obey, Allah is surely to keep you on that wrong path.
sister amma try and pray salah as much as you can and ask Allah to give you strength, stand strong in what you believe to be true, when we stand infront of our Lord it is are own deeds we account for, Paradise is surly below our mothers feet....and we should obey our perents....but if we are sure to know they go against islam then help to teach them the correct path.....we can only disobey our perents if they go agaisnt islam.
I love you for the sake of Allah....your always in my dua's InshAllah.
I hope what i have written brings you some comfort...there are many of us fighting to keep islam pure...have strength....
Sister Star