12-03-2003, 08:30 PM
well I learned a very good lesson. unfortunatly I learned it the hard way.
I had a very close friend at school, we have been best friends for about 7 years. i have always wanted to please him and always loved him in all my heart. he was like my brother, even closer than my brothers.
this ramadan unfortunatly, things happened and we got mad at each other. i have realised that people change alot through time. i have realised that i was wasting too much time and energy on my friend. and most of all, i have learned (from a person that wanted to remain annonimous) that i should have never loved my friend so much. love should only be through Allah and nothing more. this way, when problems arise and you have to leave a friend or anyone very close to your heart, you wont be heart broken nor will you grieve as much about it.