Family 'proud' of suicide bomber

[Soledad]

So killing them is Halaal, neigh Waajib, for defending the Religion, lives, and country, <b>except in the case of a weakling woman, not capable of anything.</b> The same also applies to their pre-pubescent young. <b>And regarding the weak and sick elderly, whoever fights or aggresses amongst them is killed. And whoever does not, then none should harm them, except that they and the women may be taken as captives.</b> And we will mention the rulings on captives, In Shaa’ Allaah.

Can you explain me when the suicide bombers attack on a restaurant for instance if they make a check up before hand and they make sure there are not weak woman there and if they're they take them as captives? because what I know so far, this is not happening! elderly people, children and non-soldier women (civilians) are being killed, not take as captives.

Regards to my religion, I'm a LDS member for the past 16 years.