11-20-2003, 10:31 AM
As Salam A`alaman itaba`alhoda
JohnDoe, let me give u some feed back on a main principle in Islam. Yes I do believe there is heaven and Hell or else our lives would be useless. A Muslim’s life start from birth ending to death is nothing but a short trip in preparation for the eternal landing. In other words, what ever difficulties and mischief u may encounter in life is not really effective, since it is only temporary, shall end by being in your grave, versus what could be eternal which is the final destination.
Based on this, you may encounter poverty, illness, loss of business, loss of children, or any loved ones, only to name a few of the various problems a person may face in this life. Part of it may be an unhappy marriage. In case a woman is emotionally or sexually abused, she has two options, either to divorce or just adopt patience looking for the reward in the life after. More explanation, in case a woman is tested with a bad husband who may enforce himself on her, which is totally unlikely if he is religious enough, she may just ask for divorce, or accept and think of only pleasing Allah which will make the whole situation much easier for her. Of course not all Muslims can endure difficulties of life and perceive it the way I presented it. I am as usual explaining the main concepts. It is even in Quran, that Allah Shall test His servants in such a manner and promised those who are patient with major reward.