08-14-2003, 09:11 PM
Al-hamdu'llah,
only because of our male hormones, and mainly because of our rights of being obeyed, we brothers sometimes, let our rights go to our minds instead of our hearts, but we mean while, I'm sure not one brother want to hurt his wife, as it is the sister he chose to marry in the first place.
But we are only human and we are for sure not perfect.
Sisters should never take polygamy personally, we love our wives, but we are only men., tha's all.
It's not all about us as men or the sisters as women, it's all about Allah (swt), and His Messenger (saaws), and living and dying in the state of islam, and in Allah's Mercy He (swt) grants us enjoyment, because of our rights as human beings.
I pray I've stated what was right, and there are more brothers who feel the same as i do, they want to get heir marriages right, because they want to please Allah and avoid His Wrath.
Thanks,
As-salaamu alaikum wa rahamntua'llah