04-28-2013, 07:44 PM
Salam
How are you all? So stinking to this topic, i have seen many people who look at others an judge them. One example being oh look she wears the headscarf but look how she dresses!
Now what would you do?
Tell this sister oh look how you dress most the time with tight clothes etc and you wear the headscarf its not right, but the way you say this to her, leads her to question if she should stop wearing it.
now what if this sister listens to what you said an completely stops wearing it, then you have lead her to sin even more, because of what you said an the way you said it to her.
We forget we all go through difficulties an our own tests, so be careful in how you judge others an be careful in how you approach a person if you have something to say to them, because if they stop a good deed then you are sinning aswell.
Choose your words wisely!!!