A man's fair opinion about polygyny

[Aqilah]

As Salaam u Alaikum! May Allah(SWT) give me all the strenght I need to stand by my words of what I'm about to say which is in my heart. Amin.

I am a sista who has been married to a brother for some 13 Yr.s.[/color]

I'm getting older then him as I hold down the most part of our home. While waiting for him to come from a 28 Yr.s of a prison term.(he has been there 28 Yr.s)

I just want U to know there was a time when I would belive I would never share my husband. and now:

I want my husband to take on another wife, when he comes home for the fact is I want him to have his wife when he wants any time he wants and I don't want to disappoint him.

Now we know that in this country, most of our men can not afford a 2nd or 3rd wife.

the right way, the Sunnah way. what is written for us to follow.

Allah has allowed me too have taken care of my self with him watching over me.

I have keep most of it together, and Allah has made sure a roof has been over my head.

I would only ask of my husband to maintain me with $ 7.50.

This way he can afford another wife with very little preasure, of taking care of me.

I will be here when he needs a rest and to be at peace. Inshallah.

I'm older then my husband by a few years.

And he has said he would like me to pick his wife.

this is an honor.

I would want her younger and full of joy and can make him happy!

I will take my days as he would want and remembering he is only a loan to me.

I would hope he would be with me in Jennah. That will make me happy.

Now I ask that U all make dua for me that Allah will keep me strong and know when I get weak and miss him Allah will give my angels to hold me together. Inshallah.

I rather know: who my husband is with when he is not with me!

knows that she prays the way we should pray. worship the way we do. She will fix halal food for him.

and she will wash the way we wash. and take care of my husband and know he is in good hands when he is with her.

Inshallah.

And reminder benifits the believer.

Assalaam U Alaikum Rahmatallahi Wa Barakatuh

Ur Sista in Islam

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