09-24-2003, 09:23 AM
Quote:<i>Originally posted by SAMAZ </i><b>asslaam-u-alaikum,</b>
i read all 10 of the excuses and maashalla the reply's were wounderful, but i just wanted to ask what you would say if someone used these as excuses:
1) no one in my family wears it so i just feel out of place.
If u get this answer from some one u r trying to help, just remind her that there are others who drink, fornicate and more. We just focus on ourselves and do what is right Insh aAllah
2)that they arent ready for it, meaning that they cant go with out back chatting someone and gossip and all that.
U say we must strat, we can not play a one hour tennis match without training, everything needs training. we can not stop praying because sometimes we drift away during prayer, no we try to focus more, the more u try the more Allah helps u to succeed.
3) i can't get a boy to look at me.
This is the main issue, not to let a boy look at u. Just remember u will be helping your young muslim brothers to attain piety. Also think when u grow up and marry, would u like your husband to look at someone else? NO why do u let others husbands look at u?????
allah hafiz